Well I guess it's time for a worthwhile post on my part.

I've decided to ditch my alias. From now on you can all call me Ryan. I've done a lot of thinking and decided that you cannot become the best PUA that you can be without being true to yourself. For me that meant shedding my alias and some inner game working.

A name is just a name some of you might say but if you hide behind a fake name who's to say the rest of you isn't fake as well? A name is nothing but a digital mask. Something to hide behind when you don't want to be accountable for yourself, a safe place to fall back on where you can be someone else.


I've done a lot of soul searching during my many absences here. Sometimes nobody else can help you fix what is wrong with you if you aren't willing to see that something is wrong. A lot of people here ask for help and then we help you but you brush it off. Don't get me wrong some people here are grateful and take what we say for being the bible. You are the people that will go far in every aspect of life. A good person hears what you have to say, a great person listens to what you have to say and absorbs it to better themselves.

Reminds me of a quote one of my teachers wrote on the board: "Some people live and learn..... others just live"


I only hope that everyone here finds themselves. I mean that is the ultimate goal of being a pickup artist for myself. To be truthful I didn't come here at first to fuck the most girls or to try to be the best. I came here to make the most out of my life. To ascertain the qualities that I envied in others. To be happy, confident and obtain all that this life has to offer. I wanted to find the parts of me that were hidden and I was unaware of. Whatever you came here to find I hope that you find it.



I'm not sure what really stirred all of this out of me. Maybe it was the post about "winning the game" or maybe something else that just was floating around in my brain for a while.

Let this be a new chapter in a rather old book....

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Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do.Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.

Good to hear that you've been exploring new realms toward your own values and maturity as PUA, Ryan. Here's what I think about PUA names:

To me, a name is a symbol. I was given my real name by somebody else. I go by an alias, "Chief," in the PUA Community because I see it as symbolic of the transformation I set for myself. I see it as symbolic of me having control over my own life and making my own choices. To me, it's not a mask, but rather an expression of a newfound optimism for the future.

My alias isn't a fake mask. It's an expression of how I really feel, in a way. And to me that's more authentic than going by a name that was just handed to me by somebody else.

And, in fact, I go by Chief not just online, but in real life, too. Everyone knows me by that name.

I guess I should explain that I was going on and on about what an alias meant in my mind. Different people think different ways. It's how the world works. I was just sharing my own little epiphany about my life. Feel free to share your own interpretations on anything I've said, because the things I say could mean many things to different people.

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Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do.Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.