I believe I got this girls s/n a year ago before doing pua, just messaged again which I think she messaged me about 3 weeks ago, please tell me what needs improvement.


Tequilalovesme8: hey you
: whos this
Tequilalovesme8: rob
: ohh hi
Tequilalovesme8: wow somuch excitement
: OMG HAYY SEXII!!!!
Tequilalovesme8: damn that just comes off as needy
Tequilalovesme8: haha
Tequilalovesme8: try again youll get it next time
: hayy sexii (:
Tequilalovesme8: there ya go
: whoot (:
Tequilalovesme8: haha I am still wondering who this is though
: wow wtf?
Tequilalovesme8: lol
Tequilalovesme8: can ya help me out
: brianna
Tequilalovesme8: thats a wide reference
: haha uhm i talked to youhh a while ago
: on here
: and myspace
: no more myspace got delted
Tequilalovesme8: lol
Tequilalovesme8: well shit how are you gonna refresh my memory
: www.myspace.com/haileylopez
: pics of me are on there
Tequilalovesme8: haha outta the probably 60 pics which one is you
: look in the me && brianna album i thought that wouldve been the obvious point out of my pics...
Tequilalovesme8: and which one are you
: uhmm which one is cuter
Tequilalovesme8: whats the right answer here
: which one is cuter
: i wont care either way youll know which is which
Tequilalovesme8: Imma go with the redhead?
: red??
Tequilalovesme8: lol Im teasin
: i was so confused
: but answer me
Tequilalovesme8: there is a red head and a brunette
: go to the new pics album
Tequilalovesme8: alright
: the one where im stickin my tounge out and not lookin at the camera is me (:
: blue hoodie says jaguars
Tequilalovesme8: gotcha
Tequilalovesme8: who is the jaguars??
: school in hilliard
Tequilalovesme8: haha hilliard
Tequilalovesme8: that must be a terrible life
: worse than youhh knwo
: know
Tequilalovesme8: lol I used to train there
: fun
Tequilalovesme8: yeah that is fun
: do youhh know dustin west?
Tequilalovesme8: from
: uhm his mom idkk
: somewhere by galloway
Tequilalovesme8: lolno I go to westerville, I go out into galloway usually on weekends to visit my buddies
: oh well do youh know him??
Tequilalovesme8: no
: alrighty
Tequilalovesme8: is there a better way to contact you
: like...phone wise?
Tequilalovesme8: that would work
: yes
Tequilalovesme8: I beleive Id need your number for that
: Oh yeah?
Tequilalovesme8: yessr
: && youhhd need to call me why??
Tequilalovesme8: who said Id be calling you
: uhm alrighty?
Tequilalovesme8: your comin off a little cocky
: only sometime
: s
Tequilalovesme8: yeah I dont think we'd get along, too much alike
: lol right
Tequilalovesme8: ha plus theres no way you could handle me
: pssh..
Tequilalovesme8: I have a feeling your thinkin I couldnt handle you
: maybe
Tequilalovesme8: haha
Tequilalovesme8: Id put a handle on you
: id put a leash on youhh
Tequilalovesme8: damn your into that kinky shit arent you
: ((:
Tequilalovesme8: haha
Tequilalovesme8: well Im gonna get off here
Tequilalovesme8: what is that number
: 777 ****
Tequilalovesme8: cell?
: home
Tequilalovesme8: you dont have a cell?
: nope
: i own this phone though
: i answer it all the time
Tequilalovesme8: haha alright Ill give you a call one day if your lucky
boxing: mhm
Tequila: haha later kid
: NO!
Tequila: ?
l: im gonna break out the fuckin whip dont ever call me kid again.
Tequilal: my bad child
: ....bitch
Tequila: lol youll be fine dont worry
: w.e.
Tequila: keep your head high little one

I then put up my away message, thoughts? what could have been done better, thanks guys.

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Nopeee, didnt really see a good thing in it at all sorry.

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'Oh my, you sir are the Moriarty of self awareness and personnal refelection'

What a title!

You started out brilliantly in with that opener by getting her to qualify herself to you. As you moved on though you sounded like you grew more emotionally invested in the conversation and started forcing it a bit - forcing yourself to find things to say then you moved back into solid cocky-funny/negging with "your comin off a little cocky". That stream of convo after that line warmed her up because she wasn't going to give you her number before.

You upset her again though @ "haha alright Ill give you a call one day if your lucky". The problem which I've been in more times than I care to remember is that when you used that c/f line (Ill give you a call one day if your lucky) is that you had not yet built enough attraction to use that line. You didn't have enough value for her to consider a call from you "lucky" and you came off as arrogant and lost what interest in you she had. Then you just killed it by instigating her with attempted cocky/funny and took it to far.

Don't worry I used to do far worse when I was learning. Women change moods like the weather and you just need to tune the way a woman thinks a bit more so you can know when to use c/f and negs and know when your crossing the line because there is a very fine line between the two.

Thanks for the insight man.

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What would this forum be if we didn't help each other out? It's all about making things easier for the newbies today by having skilled people to teach them.

I was new to the community once and back then the internet wasn't what it is today; now I'm a master who has failed more than I've succeeded in life and nothing make me feel more fulfilled than watching people succeed.

- Chris

Defenitly understood man, I will just continue working on my game and will be much better one day and hopefully able to help out others as you are doing

once again thanks bro.

-Rob-

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you started off great. the "you came off a little cocky" neg was a great. i dont think she wouldve given you her number if you wouldnt have done that. but at the end when you were being cf teasing her about being a kid, i think that did more bad than good. it seemed to just piss her off. when you call her in a couple days dont mention her being a kid.

Right on man. im right there with you... im just not a master yet. but highly skilled. well put

must not have done to bad she messaged me today asked how I was doing etc. she seemed very cool still

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