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PostPosted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 5:22 am 
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Alright so I've been working hard on my outer game and I realized I need a lot more girls that are friends. Two weeks ago I sarged a HB7 and ever since then we have become best friends, shes probably the closest non intimate girl i have. Since I started the relationship with just getting a friend in mind I didn't game her hard, maybe just negged her and broke her shit tests out of amusment. I definatly didn't introduce ANY kino besides a palm reading.

Shes has become a great source of information about what girls like and what they don't like. Shes really helped me wrapped my head around how a girl acutally thinks.

The PROBLEM

Over the past few nights I have developed feelings for her. Every once in awhile while we are talking I get the urge to lean in and kiss her. Past few times hanging with her Im just sitting there holding back urges, I can't stand it anylonger.

Why don't I just go in for the kill?

There is always the risk of her not being into me and with me making a move it might turn our relationship sour. Sure while out with a rando HB I won't hesitate going in for the kill because if she rejects no biggie, next girl please. This girl though has become a asset to my game and like I said a wealth of knowledge. I value her friendship more than being in a relationship with her.

I was contimplating last time I was with her to just come out and tell her I have grown feelings for her but Im worried they might interfere with our relationship. I know there is a less AFC approach with this. What would you guys suggest?

I need to come out to this girl and stop bottling up my feelings, because that takes a lot of energy. Completely disraguarding my feelings for her really won't work I think. I tried to re frame myself about her thinking how she is just a friend ect but eventually my feelings broke through that wall.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 8:00 pm 
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I'd say congratulations. Maybe you found a girl worth actually getting to know. I'd say that you have to go for it. You can always find another friend (or can you?). I'd say if she is that good of a friend, shouldn't she be able to forgive any unwanted advances?


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 12:35 pm 
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i'd say to her, next time your say down an relaxin...
do you want to kiss me?
its a yes no question
yes kiss her
no "it jus looked like u where thinkin somethin an i took a guess,"
now you know where the line is and its up to you to take it from there...

i think it was mystery who used this line...
hope it works dude,
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 12:38 am 
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i'd say to her, next time your say down an relaxin...
do you want to kiss me?
its a yes no question
yes kiss her
no "it jus looked like u where thinkin somethin an i took a guess,"
now you know where the line is and its up to you to take it from there...
We partied this weekend and we were relaxing on the couch and I ran the neck biting evolutionar phase shift. Success would be an SPAM.


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