So I'm sure you've all heard this before. but I'm new to this whole community and would like to know what material I should be reading up on. I need material that gives ideas on DHV. I never have had a problem approaching girls. I just never have any way to make myself stand out from the next schmuck that has an opener. can you help?

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The Game by Neil Strauss is a great starting point for anyone. In the first few chapters, it'll give you this ie. it shows to you the value of Negs.
Negs are one thing that 'sets us apart' use them in your pushing and pulling ok?
Also, don't focus all on DHV's. If you do this straight away then you're like everyother guy! Remember, the AFC's are the ones that go up to a girl and call them beautiful straight away. DONT DHV until you've escalated a bit of kino, and maybe done a story. This is when you could do the cube or something similar. I say this becuase you can use the cube in such a way as to give her DHV's saying things like - the ladder being away from the cube shows that your a very independant woman. Or a pink cube, for example, showing shes fun... (although my favourite is to say that it shows her to be spontaneous. This gives them a compliment, and also gives you a stepping stone for eliminating and anti-slut defences if you want to go on an instant date)
Hope I've helped
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So I read the game. I have confidence but i need to hone the skills and learn the techniques. Just this weekend I was working on a girl that several people at the bar said was "untouchable". I saw her shoot down a couple of guys. and decided it was my turn. I opened her, neged her a bit and quickly had her laughing. it wasn't long and she was giving me "dance lessons" (she was appearantly an instructor). This was perfect! she was holding me close, I had my hands on her. she was having fun instead of acting like a bitch like she was to every other guy. she seemed in to me but I'm still a bit of an AFC and don't know how to close. she got away. I need to learn to phase shift. and shift from having fun to closing. any suggestions? good books, previous posts, etc.?

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negs-vt44.html
I think this is a great page for negs...
I'd recomend, as I said, Kino escalation.
You can incorporate this into a routine through palm reading (something which i know nothing of), or with their pressure points- play around with them, try this very simple pressure point routine, it worked for me:
PUA: Can I ask you something?
HB: Sure
PUA: Do you know what pressure points are?
HB: No (show them, routine in itself)
Yes.
PUA: Great, now look at this, give me your hand *so she does (don't worry, if you've been talking for bout 5 to 10 mins, she's pretti comfortable)*... <Hold her arm> I've read an article about how nerves can only process so much information, and so with stimulation, you can't tell which part of the body is being more or less stimulated. (This is pretti much bullshit, although, is interesting, because it sometimes happens) Then touch the back of her neck, or the small of her back, lightly with your finger tips, and make circles (ie. one hand on arm, and the other on back or neck) (this is fairly unintrusive, becuase you're still standing quite far away, however then you can bring up the kino a notch, by touching neck with one hand and back with the other. Thus bringing her closer to you.)
PUA: You see what I meen?
HB: Yeh! thats weird! (shes now pretty comfortable with your company, so you could go for the K close right then)
No.
PUA: What? how can you not? haha! I bet you hate massages too? haha (nice little neg, i think)

I like to carry around a load of random and useless facts around, just incase i cant think of anything to say... Did you know Einstein was asked to be president of Israel in 1952?
Hope I've helped
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