I agree with the brother PUA above, Remember if you become a social robot
(Style credit), then you're not really becoming a better person, or at least, not reaching your most attractive self. I was recently listening to this podcast in www.pickuppodcast.com, I forgot the name of the guy, but it was REALLY good, this guy had lived in Project Hollywood, it was about how to reach a lifestyle thats attractive, it's really likestyle that gets you laid. I can say this was one of my sticking points before, although I talked to the girls' friends first and gained their trust, I wanted to reach a point where my lifestyle is attractive, and Im working on it.
So yeah man, work on your lifestyle along with your routines,
enjoy