My number one goal in life right now is to improve my abilities with women. I'm not a total slouch at age 23 i've slept with 6 women with an average rating of 6.5 and In a long term relationship for 2 of those years.

My big problem is being a huge pussy. Basically I rate myself a 7 on a looks scale and any women whom I deem more attractive then myself basically scares the shit out of. I'm terrible at approaching regadless of there attractiveness but if I deem the girl less attractive then myself once i'm introduced i become confident and powerful. I consider myself quite good with 7s and lower, but i'm tired of 7s I want 8s and beyond.

Currently I'm interested in working in 3 fields: day game at my university, night game on thursdays and fridays at different bars and, until I get better at the other two fields, online.

That should provide some context to who I am and where I want to go, so I'll give my most recent experience.

Night Game at packed club:
The club was packed and very trashy, which suits me as i'm not a super swavy dresser. I arrived at 11 oclock stone sober and drank a little to losen up, I usually get tipsey, can still think, walk and talk. I was sitting alone at the edge of the dance floor when two girls called at me from on the stage, one a 7 the other an 8. They pressured me to come dance with them, although I defidently wasnt loose enough for this, I went and was far to rigid and ackward that I could tell they quickly lost interest. They werent really interested to begin with, it was more like `lets get this loner moving` which was a nice ego boost to start the night. At around 12 I was cruising around the dance floor getting rejected by the hottest girls in the club, Its good for me, when I inadvertantly got the attention of a 6. I spent half an hour making out with her and grinding, but then decided I wanted to persue better things. The rest of the night was uneventful, the club was far to loud and busy, and I was defidently being a pussy. After, I was hanging around outside, there was tonnes of people hanging around, lots of opportunities, but I didnt make one move. This is defidently something I need help with.

Tomorrow I`m meeting a girl from pof, she appears to be around a 7 and is already very into me, I think this will go well. That said I`m really not interested in internet sites, but its the only way to get girls without approaching. I go to school with thousands of beautiful women and dont know any of them, I really need to push myself out of my comfort zone.