| Sometimes when youve got a good vibe going and am confident its is hard to remember everything you say, or it could be the drink or two i had.
I walked in and said to myself in a "you know way" im going to get laid tongiht. I had felt good about things, self accomplishment for getting through a long day.
On a note to get into a good state just tell yourself or pretend that you are exactly the way you want to be, your feeling good about yourself no feelings of not good enough, and your confidence will shine!
But went out to a bar im pretty comfortable at, not too loud, relatively roomy, etc. Not having much approach anxiety.
got my drink sat at the bar etc, I went alone after work and actaully changed in the bathroom out of my smelly work clothes.
But didnt approach one girl because she was in a guys arms even thoguh we exchanged a light smile. Talked to another girl that was with a guy i knew.
But to try to shorten things up and get to the point.
Two girls walked in and sat next to me, don't remember what exactly opened things but i know quickly they asked if i was drinking green beer. We chatted for a while, got there names and i did this kino hand shake over the other girls lap and pulled her hand in and out and around etc to which she laughed at. But i was witty, playful, and i think something was brough tup wher ei said i had a dirty mind. Probbaly talked for 5 to 10 minutes, but i think the 2nd girl wanted the company of another guy.
Saw them again at last call and a few of us were chatting outside about a girl in a vehicles passenger seat, window done her lips hanign out with drewl dripping down the door, that we commented on, little di di know at the time i almost slept with this girl.
But on to the pull. Basically I was next to her and gave her my number, and asked where the after party was, she grabbed my hand we jumped in the back of the prior vehicle, got to her house, said i was going to come in to use the bathroom, then from there we went in her room, did some kissing and made out shortly after, threw her on the bed and took her pants off, and panties.
Didn't really jump into things too quickly from there as she put she put some jimi hendrix on her record player( a rocord player is...lol..yeah they still exist, shes in her mid 20's). She was leaning in on it and i put a finger in her wet pussy from behind. Then pretty much we went at it from there and it was a great night of sex! I'll spare too many details, but i wanted to let it show some context to get to this point.
But the mind set I had was almost try to get rejected by going for a kiss, its very rare when your alone with a girl and you feel like kissing her she is going to reject you. So if you even have the slightest incling you want to kiss her, just do it.
But another thing after you give a women great sex they will comply to just about anything and offer to do things. Always nice getting offered to have breakfast made for you, during sex her saying you can pretty much do anything you want with me, im like your ball of clay, and the comments of did I mention im single to flatter you.
another thing I left her wondering a lot not answering all her questions directly but playing around, like when she asked my age I told her I was 12 and had her wondering and im not sure if she knows still, she goes well i know you at least 21 because u were drinking in a bar right? Then at later points I told her I had to be up soon for"what is it middle school" to catch the school bus.
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