Ok here goes, my first lay report.
Back story: Ive been hanging out with this HB7 and have crashed at her place after a night on the piss. Nothing happened, and I was becomming a bit too chummy in a LJBF way, so I froze her out and in 1 day I got a text saying "you should come out tonight, it will be fun".

My friend and I got their early. Shot some pool, chilled out with a few people there. I went to the bar and EVERYTIME I was approached by women asking me to buy them drinks. First up I was rude and simply said "no", but saw my error and evolved to "I don't buy strangers drinks", then they would tell me their name blablabla, but I digress.

So the HB7 arrives, we continue to chill playing pool, I kind of ignore her, then give her attention. She leaves with her friends, I acted cool, said "no problem was fun, have a good night". I then got a text back saying "you and gary should come stay here, everyone is sleeping here". So I figure sure but text back "sure, but gary wont be sleeping in the room with us".

I get there, her friends are asleep on couches, so we fall back to her bedroom. We get in bed, have a little tug battle for the blanket and I go straight in for the kiss. AANNNDDD things go from there , I am a gentleman, so no dirty details .

I am not interested in this girl as a G.F, I just want to keep her as a F.B.

If anyone can offer their advice/past experiences on how to keep it about sex and not a relationship I'm all ears. So far I have been VERY careful to avoid future speak, e.g "we should go see a movie soon" etc.

Solid bro, maybe give us a few more details on the build up. QLD is a sick place too. Congrats!

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Life is what you make it

Here's how you do it. You SAY this confidently during a conversation.

"You know, I'm so much happier with a friends with benefits type arrangement than a hardcore relationship. Relationships can get complicated. Whereas, if we're just hooking up, it's all good."

or something that makes sense to you. The above makes sense to me, so that is what I say, and it works.

Peace, nice lay.

Man you have NO IDEA how much that helps thanks. I know if I said I wasn't interested in a relationship, cold and straight up, she would run.

To old mate, only pregame i had is a few bold texts.

her "ohh i know why you want to come out with us. You just want to get me drunk and take advantage of me "
Me: "Absolutely"
And I just stacked from there.