| Haven't written a LR before, but everything has a first time.
So, i went to a sort of camp where you learn to act and improvise on stage and shit with some friends for a week. We all are 17 years old.
Second day i approach a girl that's part of a 4set after a workshop we had. All were like HB7/8 and one HB9. That night the final of the World Soccer Championship was on TV, so i knew my goal and after a little chitchat i asked where they would watch it. She didn't know yet so i did some suggestions and we made a deal we'd go to a village nearby with the 8 of us. Unfortunately, Holland lost and we discovered they were all 22 years old. It didnt really bother, but yeah it was kinda killing. Made the best of it and had some chitchat-fun for 2 nights.
4th day we approach a 3set (16/17 years old), all cool, 2 HB7's and 1 HB8. Again a lot of chitchatting and chilling at the beach with campfire and other cool people. But the HB8 was real fun and because of that the 3 of us all wanted her. I dont know why exactly, but i lost my confidence and thought she'd like my friends more. I forgot all the progress i'd made and only saw theirs. So i kinda gave up and went 'spreading my chances' and started flirting with more girls than just the HB8.
It had effect, there was that HB7 that gave some good IOI's and i kinda played along with her and the other HB's i'd approached. So when i was in a convo with the HB8 i told you about, she jumped right in and joined the circle. I thought "haha, wtf what you doing" but i didn't say it and kept talking with the HB8. I could have negged her there but yeah ok, chance missed.
It was the last night already and there was a little party starting with some percussion-music and beer. Me and my friends had a lot of beer, but this HB7 didnt, so she wanted some beer from me. I refused, but it was a good opportunity to easily escalate so i did. Just used some simple push-pull & kino and went for the K-close. Later, we went to my tent, made out some more and got her giving me head and i did some things to please her =)
On the one hand, i'm disappointed because i gave up and didnt go for the K-close with the HB8. I think i could have gotten her, but yeah that's afterwards. On the other hand im happy, because i got the HB7 and we had good fun
So, what i've learned from this:
- NEVER lose your confidence. Don't look at your friends and think "oh shit they are doing better than i am, she must like them more than me". You are it, you're the big prize, not them.
- NEVER give up untill you're really sure she doesn't like you. You can always give it a try, maybe it works out good and then you're as happy as like you're in heaven.
- Go for the best; the HB9/10's. Of course you can approach and game the lower HB's, thats good, but always keep that HB9/10 in mind and try to K/F-close her (too).
- Don't forget to go kino, i kinda forgot it when i was with the HB8 so maybe i wasnt clear enough and made her too unsure about my true intentions.
Oh i could use some tips and advice, cause i'm still pretty new to this and probably too much an AFC.
For example, how can i game/get the older HB's? I kinda seem to have a problem with gaming older girls than me. Thanks.[/b]
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