| So, this experience happened a while ago but I'm going to post it now and I'm sure some of you will find it amusing.
I was in a club in Beijing with a couple of my friends from our Chinese program. We took a trip to a nightclub for some dancing and of course, picking up girls. I started dancing across from my best guy friend(may or may not be gay in America but that's pretty normal in China). I started to scan the room and after a while a little Asian girl caught my attention. She(HB7) gave me more than one occasional glance so I decided to see what was up.
there wasn't much talking with the music blaring but after a while of dancing I managed to get a kiss on the girl. She responded with a passionate make-out session after which she immediately backed out and ran to the bar. I followed and asked for her number, tried to get somethign out of her, but she wasn't going to have it, buyers remorse, guess she felt bad about making out with a guy who she didn't even know the name of and probably blamed me for seducing her.
I wasn't fazed, I had pre-selection on my side now, and she'd given me an excuse to find an upgrade, which I did. In less then a minute I started dancing with a gorgeous(8.5 perhaps, but the dark makes look more like a 9) girl. Best part was that she wasted no time cutting to the chase. She was near to wall so I slammed her against it(I use violence strategically) then we started making out.
"You are typical American" she said with a Chinese accent.
"I'm anything but typical" I said back
I offer to take her upstairs and buy her a drink. When we went upstairs we sat in a corner and continued our makeout session. I never did buy her that drink and I didn't intend to. She squeezed my arm hard, it felt like rope burn on my skin, I paid her back with a squeeze to her back.
Sexual relations can be conceived of as a kind of combat, and eroticism as a contest and perverse behavior{vamashila}-The Kama Sutra
"I can tell you like a little violence" I said
"I do! How did you know?"
"You're easy to read" I said
We got back to the action, intermitten conversation and play. She sat on my lap until about 3am. I got her number and her name, we went home. I asked if I could come to her place but she turned the offer down. That was fine with me actually, I was tired and I wouldn't have been much use no matter whose bed I was in.
We went our separate ways, the next day I was with another girl who I was seeing at a restaurant, an American Chinese. I get her text, she wants me to come over. I've got to act quickly and not let this girl who I'm with suspect what's going on. I take a trip outside the restaurant saying I can't get good reception in here.
"You want me to come out with you?" she says
"Oh no, you can wait right here, I'll be back in a few!"
She tells me to come over tonight, I can tell she's going to be pissed if I say no. She's not going to spend too much time on a guy she just met at a club. I get back in, the American Chinese girl wants to do something with me. I gotta tell her I'm going to do something with my friends tonight. It's not a fun thing to lie to a girl but I don't think she suspects.
I get back and hit the subway over to her place. I don't know what kinda place she has, I figure its just a typical crappy little Chinese apartment. She meets me at the Subway entrance, hug, kiss, we walk hand in hand back.
She takes me to this huge modern looking apartment complex, I thought I'd seen it in the news before. All the buildings interconnect like some kind of futuristic city. I'm amazed, she takes me up to her apartment, its a huge room completely devoid of furniture. She turns on some music from her computer and walks towards the window to stare out. I'm slightly amazed, I dunno how she affords the place, she told me she was just a teacher. she says her Father's friend gave it to her, I don't know if I believe the story but I say screw it, I'm going to have some fun tonight.
"It's a beautiful view!" she says
"It's more beautiful with you in the way" I say
I grab her from behind and we start making out like before. There is much romancing and love making and we both end up on her bed naked.
"Do you want some water?" she says
I feel kind of thirsty after all that so I agree. She brings it over and I drink it.
Now, I was kind of uncomfortable about coming over to a girl's house who I knew so little about in China, but I figured I'm a seducer so I should get used to this type of thing. I didn't trust what she told me that much but I just went with the flow, but I still had a lot of insecurities about my situation on the inside.
Like a speed-maddened horse, flying at a gallop and seeing neither holes nor ditches, two lovers blinded by desire and making furious love do not take account of the risks involved in their conduct.-The Kama Sutra
The water tasted sweet going down. I think to myself "why is that". Then it hits me like a kick in the nuts, "Did I just drink a roofie???!?!?" I start to get nervous, I feel sleepy.
"What's my name?"
"What school do I go to?"
"How do you say hello in Chinese?"
I can't remember! I feel myself blanking out, my vision is going black.
"I gotta go, I say, my voice kind of trembling"
"Are you sure" she says, not really concerned.
"Yeah, Yeah, I gotta go"
I keep having visions of me waking up in a bathtub with my kidneys removed. I try to act calm and make my way out of the place.
"Do you need me to walk you out?"
"NO NO, I'm fine!"
"Ok"
Five minutes later I'm back at the subway, I don't feel weird at all. It was all in my head. I feel kinda dumb but I go home and sleep in my cold bed, I don't want to seem indecisive.
I never told her about that except a long time later, she said, "yeah, that's exactly how it would have happened" I guess I don't feel like a complete idiot then.
I was with that girl for 6 months after that, she was a great girl to me and she let me stay in her place for two months for free. It was pretty sweet.
I still never fell completely for her though, she gave herself to me too easily, I wanted a challenge and she never gave it to me. I felt bored with her sometimes and I had other girlfriends.
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