dont quite know where to post this so yeh.

I have a gf and I picked her up thanks to the game. Before her, no girl had ever seen me naked.

the first time we tried to have sex, I couldnt even get it up. like it was limp as f*ck.
second time, I got half way but kept losing it.
third time, I got it up, but everytime wed switch positions Id lose it until we eventually gave up.
fourth time, I had a full on hard but again lost it while inside her.

On the bright side, I finally am comfortable enough to just whip out my cock and let her play with it, which she loves doing. She saw it full on hard and was impressed with the size (Im short but very well equipped, not to brag) so it kinda gave me a confidance boost.

I just dont know what it is! Is it subconscious? I mean Im a pretty confidant guy, just obviously not in the sack.

what do I do? Its starting to depress me and its gotten to the point where Im scared to even try for fear of another failure under my belt.

Someone help? I have game but it seems like it all goes down the drain if I cant fuck her brains out. She says Im a 10 at kissing, Im a 10 at foreplay and yet I cant do her properly... shes been very supportive about it but Im sure its driving her nuts. Her ex was REALLY good in bed apparently :s

Help?

Mack

L-argine supplements..more fruit in your diet...do some cardio/leg work outs.

Maybe jerk off to pics of her? Last resort ED drugs...they will make you like a rock.

wats L-argine supplements?
what do fruits do?
and Im starting to work out more regularly

Shes the only girl I wack it to, her body is a ten lol I dont need anybody else.

thanks already mate

Can you get hard on your own? If not then you might have a problem dude.

But if it makes you feel any better, I had a similar problem when I first started having sex. I didn't know how to put it in, as I tried and failed, my confidence went down and I went limp. That happened several times. One day I just got confidence, got the hang of how to put it in her, and I never went limp again. So yeah, it could be psychological.

bro Im like on a perma-hard haha. I can jerk it 4 or 5 times a day!

even now when SHE plays with it I get really hard too, its as soon as the connie comes out its like Uh-ohhhh. so it could be psychological :s

Oh dude it's DEFINITELY psychological then. Get her really wet, use lube, then get on top of her with her legs over your shoulders and it's 100x easier to put it in that way. You won't have time to get limp.

You're lucky she's being patient! I got lucky too.

bro I dont know anymoreee
like Im a confidant guy and Im full on comfortable with her so I dont get it!
I always get her super wet but wen Im inside I lose it! not wen shes on top but when I am, yes! Also, I barely feel it when Im on top.

ughh I dont get this

As im sure your aware this is a completly Psycological issue, a quick fix would be Viagra, this may even provide a permanent solution, as using viagra once may then take the stress and pressure of future performances.

below is an article which gos through the possible pyscological causes of this condition and may help you tackle the underlying problem.

http://www.mamashealth.com/mental/impot.asp

I suggest reading this yeah, Viagra is too expensive to be a solution to be honest.

I've had a problem like that as well, it's psychological probably. Does she know it's your first time? If not, tell her.

Talk to her about what you feel, that she's the only girl to ever see you naked. Once you spit it all out, you will drop the weight on your shoulders and you will probably be able to get hard, that's how it worked for me when I told my girl about my problems.

Best of luck.

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thanks mate

I already told her and shes been very supportive so far which is why slowly Im getting harder and harder with her. I guess its a matter of time and practice?

Look up Kegel exercises and erectile dysfunction. I seem to be having the same problems as of late and I think my problem is that either I consumed way to much alcohol with the last chick I was with or I have diabetes. One of the two or I have massive psychological problems that I am not aware of.

Maybe you will feel less pressured if she does most of the work for you you know, like, lie on your back and have her sit on your legs, massaging you and your dick untill you are fully relaxed, make her play with your dick and when it's hard, tell her to sit on it.

Gotta experiment bro! but I promise you that once it works, and you get it up and in, you will never lose your hard on again!

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Don't feel bad man. Since this is only your first girl we cannot say that you have ED (erectile dysfunction). Sounds like performance anxiety which I can definitely relate to. Take a look at pegym.com. All kinds of information there to help you with your problem.

Take the suppliment yohimbe

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Medical and sexual histories help define the degree and nature of ED. A medical history can disclose diseases that lead to ED, while a simple recounting of sexual activity might distinguish among problems with sexual desire, erection, ejaculation, or orgasm.

Using certain prescription or illegal drugs can suggest a chemical cause, since drug effects account for 25 percent of ED cases. Cutting back on or substituting certain medications can often alleviate the problem.

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