Ok so this is a lay report and a help me understand wtf I am doing to make this happen question. The report itself is pretty short. You'll understand why in a second.

Ok so my friend is having a party. I go to his place and we getting completely smashed before any of the girls even show up. So we're having a great fucking time and then suddenly my friend's ex comes in (lots of history with her) I just so happen to have been friends with her beofre I knew about theri connection.

Keep in mind I'm pretty hammered by now. I can see straight and comprehend things but I'm still pretty gone.

So his ex comes in with her friend and comes up to me and my buddy. They start talking and I'm drunk watching to see what is happening. They turn away for a sec (still right next to us) for a grand total of maybe 5 seconds.

In this time, I turn to the ex's friend look her straight in the eye and makeout with her right there. I never spoke to her and didn't even know her name at the time.

The ex and my buddy turn back toward us with their jaws dropped. They can't figure out how the fuck I got her to make out with me in less than 5 sec. I had a bunch of buddies there and since I was making out with her in the very center of the room everyone takes notice and makes a big deal out of it.

So I take her to my friend's room and christen his bed (he just moved and hadn't had sex on it yet). The next day I find out she's as close to a virgin as you can get having only had sex once before (I believed her because she wasn't very good in the sack. not bad but not good).



Now here's the thing. I'm fucking famous for this. Whenever I'm really trashed and just out for a good time, I manage to find the one girl in the room that's completely down and make out with her and fuck her without ever talking to her or asking her name.

I mean literally not a word. I look her straight in the eye and get some primal feeling that it's on and make it happen. It's happened like 5 or 6 times since I've started drinking. I've done it at house parties and clubs mostly. I should mention that the girls are also always drunk.

Here's what I need.

I have no fucking idea how I do it even though when I'm drunk I feel like I'm just commanding it to happen with my eyes.

Any idea what it is I may be doing to make this happen? I mean it's all within 5 secs of seeing the girl and with no words.

If I could harness this who knows what I could do or learn. Maybe I can even teach the pick up community a new trick.

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One time basically all it took was her nodding at me, me kinda shrugging, and she leaned in and started making out with me.

Its because basically the whole night I'd only been talking to the guys we were with, but still displaying higher value. I WAS talking to her, but talking to her by talking to the guys. This lowered their guard too because I WASn't hitting on the girl they'd "picked-up (apparently)" I alpha'd them (they were way older than me and 'tough guys') by explaining the way our minds work and other things.. Sure me and her still talked, a bit, but only brief spurts at a time. I made it seem like I was here to hang out, she was along for the ride, not a priority for me.

Theres an animalistic charge is us and if you can create attraction you can unleash that charge.



And its not like you didn't know the girl. Its not like you met her 5 seconds before and just started making out with her (I've made out with a girl literally 10 seconds after opening.. being able to sing well is a GREAT tool Xp).. But I mean, she probably knows you on at least some level, so yea. But still. Good job.

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it HAS to look and sound real.

Thanks for the reply but I don't think you get it and I understand because it's hard to believe.

I had not met her before and there was no chance she had met me before because she was from out of town and I had just started college at the time.

I've also had times where I iliterally am walking to find my friends in a club and see a girl I happen to be walking by, catch intense eye contact, and then I started dancing with her and making out with her instantly. Within a min she's was playing with my dick and I was fingering her from the front on the dance floor. Again not the smartest move, you usually go in from the back, but I was drunk lol.

And I am serious about the 5 sec thing. It's not an exaggeration. Which is also why it stumps me from a logical or scientific point of view

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Ahh I thought you kinda knew her.


I meaaan, drunk chicks.. ya. but, you MUST have a certain charisma and confidence that is appealing, so.. maybe don't analyze too much cause then you'll try to force the thing, just keep doin what you're doin.

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it HAS to look and sound real.

this is extremely impressive. likely due to?

-girl was predrinking and had too much, therefore hammered and horny
-you made a good impression on your ex and her friend was told everything (guaranteed you fucked up their friendship lol!)
-you are one sexy mofo
-sex eyes, she got lost in the big pupils and couldn't resist
-drunken confidence (lots of big names say drinks are a no-no, obvs this case raises an argument)


which ones do you think were true?

Top Stuff.

I reckon it's because you have been very successful with this apporach in the past.

Subconsciously
You don't THINK you are going to make out with this girl.
You KNOW you are going make out with her.

Equals Major Alpha move.

Plus you can probably pick the best targets (natural skill that my mate has, would LOVE to be able to do this)

props

Scamps

Ha thought this thread had died. Thank god for e-mails i guess lol. So let me answer kopimi's question.

The girls are sometimes way drunk and other times just barely passed buzz but they've always been drinking.

I guess sex eyes would also make sense and I've been told I am good looking, I believe but I try not to flaunt it lol. Only mentioning it because you asked. I don't think it's drunken confidence per say. I am confident without the alcohol but it definitely relieves my inhibitions alllowing me to act on my most primal of instincts.

@Scamps,

Yea that's about how I feel when I'm drunk but its more that I can just see she wants it and so I act on that.


It's actually been a while since I put this story up here and I have some updates on it.

I've noticed that I do seem to have a natural ability to draw people. I just the LSAT and talked with a couple guys around me for a grand total of 5 min maybe. I made a joke with a girl who sitting one chair away from me and said nothing more to her. After the test I got her number and she won't stop texting me. I sent her one text with a joke on it and from then on she initiated all the texts.

I think it's all about how you carry yourself. I walk like the man, talk like the man, and look like the man. I'm always well dressed, calm and cool, and yet funny and it's working for me. I try to be the man without being a dick.

I guess what it is is that I found my style and the best advice I can give is center in on who you are and adopt what you learn to that. Don't try to be something you're not. In fact, strive to be yourself but take the lessons you learn and apply them to who you are. That's what I did and I swear to you, these days if I open my mouth to a girl, I can't get her off me.

I hope that helps you guys. Feel free to post any questions or comments.

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