Okay so this is my first post,
I'm really in and then out with the community I guess I have varying degrees of free time.

I was back at Uni for my housemates birthday a couple weeks ago,
and we decided to go to a new club for a change. A group of 12 guys so instantly not gaining any social proof from girls when surrounded by men, however I made a point of walking first, being loud, making laughs (look like leader).

By the time we got to the club I was already so smashed up, I had had warm up sets in a previous bar on some girls from work and their friends who I previously really didnt get on with.

On a high in the main club (UNIT) I hung around with the boys for about 15 mins fucking about on the dancefloor as we all do when we get together to celebrate, except I CAN dance and by dancing I was getting a lot of looks, I walked over to another girl (HB9)dancing and she turned her back to me in a bitchy/playful way.

Fuck it I went into the toilet hit my chest got into the zone...went back in. At the bar
was a HB5 and her mate a HB8 I went up behind them separated them softly (thanks gambler) and grabbed HB5s drink "hey you found my drink thanks" HB8 had just bought it and started getting flustered and confused, so I confessed I was joking, started telling a story about how men and women are equal so they need to buy me a drink (rolled off) worked. No clue how i was pulling this off when I knew I was tanked. Then HB8 pourred her heart out about her boring 19 Yr old bf and shes 23 blah blah. He turns up. shook his hand had a laugh. he seemed so intimidated (im 19 btw).

we move the dance floor and the HB5 kept talking to the BF at the poingt I saw 1 of my mates on the previous HB9 so brushed HB8 off to her bf and wenty up to HB9. [bear in mind my mate was more drunk than me and has no game whatso ever..a reall pretty boy tho] I pointed at the floor and said dance off. Nothing else needed we started dancing off as a joke I pretended that there were 5 rounds, so we went to the bar made some RPG about her joining my crew and that i dont sleep with crew members..... she buys me a drink and we go outside so she can smoke. Outside she starts talking to my mates and turns her back to me slightly so I walk away and just start talking to a HB7 also smoking on the phone, (pretended she was on the phone to me while i was standing there)....she does boring stuff blah blah. meanwhile HB9 reaches backwards and starts pinching my bum so i do the "hey this shit ainit for free" makes her pinch my bum more. KINO!

anyway its all fun and games my mates leave early all fucked up. I convince HB9 to walk me home...not safe out there....she needs to wait for her friends appaz....so her friend turns up HB9, 24 year old supply teacher about 5'10 blonde so fucking hot. 1st HB 9 gets a call so we stop and she walks off. New HB9 says shes seen me around all night, being a player i say im the worst kind of player, the kind that girls actually like (thanks afc adam) she thought i was "the hottest guy in the club". I say shes a bad girl and the type that my mum warned me about. The first HB9 gets gets a taxi cus her gbf just broke up and is a stupid mess.....she calls a taxi, one look at new HB9 and I'm in.

this is where it goes wrong, back at her house its only half built so im in a room with her cousin and 13 year old sister (and her obv). We make our way to the toilet I f-close. During which i get massive carpet burns cus her toilet is carpeted!! and she starts punching my chest and scratching my back telling me to hurt her.....my back bled. In the morning i met her parents (who liked me for some reason). Her little brother walked in on us shagging and she told me shed been engaged and had an abortion.......Wow what did i get myself into. She kept calling me at 3 am that week. bad times. Ive had to block her number from my phone and im never going back to that club ever again. Complete social proof did this for me. Theres kinki and then there's psycho. hmmmmmm. good report to tell lol.

any similiarly bad situations guys?

mq AKA Trouble out

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Good one, dude ; ).

Really sucks when girls do that, though. I had a girl obsessed with me once, she was totally messed up and ended up killing herself some time after I stopped talking to her (not my fault, she had a lot of issues on her life, but I felt guilty for months afterwards).

Either way, good one! That was smooth, it seemed like you could have even layed another girl if not her.

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Nice close.

A lot of of guys on this site nobley talk about how you should leave a woman better than you found her. Personally, I think a lot of guys on this site are full of shit and full of themselves too much. Sometimes you can't leave a girl better than you found her. Sometimes she so "fucked" from the beginning there's not much to build off of.

That being said, I've found that with the psycho girls it's best not to do things like suddenly stop communicating with them. That kind of reaction makes them more psycho. For my own safety and in order to give the girl a sense of closure so she can move on, I keep contact with her and slowly, through a period of weeks, ween her from the addiction to my cock.

Hey Clozer. It's true that sometimes you can't leave a girl better than you found her, so if we know we're going to leave her worse, I think we shouldn't even close.

Our cocks are not the most important thing in the world =).

Anyway, not trying to moralize your ass, just giving my opinion.

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I agree.