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Hey Clozer
You must give out some pretty strong SOIs because it seems like the babe just understands that it is time to rock n rolla on a date. How do you get that frame going?
Way to go bro....
Good question. After day 2 when I kiss closed her we were trying to make plans to meet again. I started the text with "Do you want me to kiss you again?" She said yes. She mentioned she liked watching movies so I suggested she come to my place and we watch a video. We never met up that day but the thought of wanting to be kissed again and us watching a video at my place lingered in her mind long enough until we were able to meet again. I think those mere suggestions did a lot of the work for me.
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She.....cried beforehand? that kind of bothers me...
Yeah, she was crying. I'm sure it was a very stresfull situation for her. I haven't kept track, but I've probably closed somewhere in the vicinity of 20 virgins. They all cry, either from the mounting fear of the unknown or from the physical discomfort of the sex itself. If you haven't noticed crying is the primary way that women deal with stress. Once that stress is relieved they seem more open to dealing with the experience.
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Why do you take all of these girls to the "love motel" As I recall from a past post it seems to be a pretty expensive place and not classy at all. Seems like a hefty expense just for a lay especially since you have a girlfriend.
There called love hotels in Japan--a totally different concept than the cheap motels in the US. In Japanese society most people live with their parents until they get married. Japanese houses are very small and offer very little privacy so every town has an area with love hotels where couples can go to have sex. Hard to imagine, but this isn't a Christian based society so that kind of thing is okay here. The hotel themselves are very clean and they provide all the ammenities you need for sex. If you go in the afternoon you can get a rate of somewhere around $30 for 3 hours, which isn't too expensive compared to other cost-of-living expenses here.
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You are better than that. She would have a MAJOR buyer's remorse ... Remember she should COMPLETELY WANT OR EVEN BEG TO sleep with you.
The rules completely change when you deal with a virgin. The only "rule" that really worked for me was my slight insinuation that if she didn't sleep with me then we would be good friends and I would date another (fictional) girl who was interested in me. I think this undertheme of a potential competing female was what motivated her to give her virginity to me.
I also must stress that this is not a Christian based society, thank god, and girls don't put as much importance on their virginity as Western women do.
I contacted HB9 2 days later and she's up for meeting me again as long as she can get home by her 8pm curfew.