chick logic is retarded...

ive been at the level of pu (one to two new girls every weekend) that im currently at since i started last semester in the fall. this semester i moved to a new dorm and i had a fresh start, seeing as how i dropped out of the social circle i associated myself with last semester.

near the end of last semester, i started to get in trouble. id bang a girl and then leave. yea call me a dickhead whatever, i was not interested in relationships and i had no idea what to do without directly verbalising (they usually had a big smile on their face as i let them know i was leaving...). thing was, most of the girls i did not really know, i rarely took their numbers (lol retard) and never saw them again, until i did what i did to a girl that i actually see more regularly. my reputation started to take a hit.

now while i have a relatively fresh reputation(relatively- some girls kinda think im a man whore whatever the fuck thats supposed to mean lol but im sure it isnt a good thing). you dont want girls to know that you pick up, and that you dont stick around after the deed is done. youll be shut out by them, and she will warn most girls she knows about me.

basically what i need to know asap is how i can let the girl know, while were chillin during the afterglow, that what we did was nothing serious, and that i just want a fb without making her feel like a slut.

I was just talking about this type of thing to someone else. being-honest-to-women-vt39786.html?highlight

The main thing is you need to set the expectations for what is going to happen with you before you escalate. Pretty much when you're with a girl and getting her attracted, right before you kiss her. You call a quick timeout to "review the play" so to speak.

You basically are up front and tell her you're not wanting a relationship right now. You are wanting to just date people until the "one" comes along, and when that happens you'll stick with her. That way you can casually date - f-close whatever. You'll be suprised at how many women are cool with this being upfront. For those that aren't no big deal, we can find another.

Not doing this ahead of time creates these problems. You'll have to just go back and explain it as up front as you can to her. In the mean time work on doing this to avoid these problems later.

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then i guess it would be best just to integrate this into the conversation somehow.

exactly as jsmooth said let them know right away that u are not wanting a relationship and that u are just looking to have fun and let her know that she seems like fun.

I have realised this through experience that even if a girl knows that you pick up she would still be around and see whether what she has heard of you is correct or not. There are times when she knows you are picking up but you have got her soo attracted that she enjoys the smooth and confident game that you play. But you will have a greater chance of an LMR or should I say you would for sure have an LMR from her because she doesn't want to be just another of your conquest. But there are ways in which you can get over that with your push and pull and indifference attitude.

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