This was a Day 3. Day 2 didnt go so well cause she bombarded me with too many shit-tests I got annoyed. This Day 3 was all about controlling the frame.

Here's the story:

We meet up and I'm late as usual, I love making girls wait for me! She meets me, a bit annoyed that I took my sweet time, but whatever, I told her to be thankful regardless. So then we cab off to this lake in Beijing which has bright-light bars. Some parts of the lake is quite peaceful and I figure increase comfort ridiculously lot. I didn't want to bring to her my place just yet due to other logistical reasons which I shall not mention.

At the lake, she begins playing frame games with me. But she begins flashing mad IOIs and I figure I gotta act on it. Some of the frame games she played include the Classic "Girl stops moving and expects the guy to come back and chase her". Hell, who does she think she is messing with? I learned my mistakes from my ex on that frame game already. I've accumulated experience and yes I already told her on Day 1 that I can "subliminally read" girls but nobody takes my warning seriously. Sheesh.
Other frame games included, when I try holding on her, she backs off or when we sit next to each other she places her forehead onto mine to prevent me from kissing her. Another chick's favorite is throwing a little tantrum, which is my favorite to watch hahaha it's pure entertainment. But anyway, I maintain my frame.

In reality, I think I am building Comfort and Connection based on how well I've been playing my frame, and she does realize that I'm not kidding when I say I understand women. She moans about the fact that I'm a tough nut to crack. Girls only play these little games so they won't feel "cheap and easy". Unfortunately, those tactics dont work on me. I only caved in when she sat there waiting for me to come back was when some shady people started to walk near her. She thought I finally caved in but when the shady people saw me come to her and walked away, I walked away too

Of course, we do try connecting emotionally, and after all, I think I'm quite good at that these days. I don't remember what we said cause it was bantering + some heartwarming talk. The frame games also function as BT spikes at times so I didnt really worry about convo going into a lull.

There's no point in telling you guys what I said because:

A) It was all improvised and mostly it was her talking and my goal wasnt to remember what the interraction was about
B) It's better to understand the frame and role reversals because that will drive your material
C) It also doesnt help me because when I revise, I think reminding myself the importance of maintaining frame is more useful than anything else

Finally I got annoyed and I kissed her. Then I told her I was going to have to charge her. She then kissed me even more and told me that she hates me for making her broke. Then we begin to be more intimate with one another, and hell she began to be more aggressive as time went by. I had to play my cool laidback frame a lot by telling her to back off.

I kept on emphasing the fact how I understood girls and she began to saw through my experience. yes she did shit-test me for being super young, but my experience seems like I'm a lot more mature. I told her not to even bother. By now she stopped shit-testing me because I had fully solidified my frame and she was to be wasting her time. The first little hints of sexual talk was when she began to feel my inner thigh, and she used an excuse of Wanting to see my wallet. I told her to quit those stupid games because that doesnt work on me LOL.

I also told her that LMR is the most pathetic game girls play but one I enjoy because girls themselves want sex more badly than the guys (well it's true in my case) but they dont want to feel used. But I know this game and I also know for one thing that I will never make the girl feel used.

So by now it was fucking late, or early in the morning. I didn't know time flies so fast. I was enjoying the whole frame game and romantic feeling but I want a long-term out of this and I knew in order for me to permanently have the upper hand in the dynamics of our relationship, I had to bang her. So I use my extraction excuse of "Lets go watch a movie on my laptop". She's hesitant because she says she's not ready for sex. I told her it's alright then and I respect her decision, so I flag a taxi down and tell her to get on it and I'll see her again sometime else, though I knew there's no way in hell she'll get on because she was holding my hands close.

Fast forward we're at my place, she gives me 5 minutes of LMR. I spend most of the LMR time trying to kick her off my bed and she was trying to fall asleep. In the end I told her I got bored and I just cavemanned her panties off.

Bingo.