Just broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago (Thank God!) So I went to this piano bar by my house the other night. My intensions were to have a few beers, laugh, sing and have a good time by myself. I Showed up around 10pm. By my second beer I found an empty seat and started singing along with the rest of the bar. Around 11:30 this cute girl comes up to me and asks if the seat next to me is taken. I said no, so she sat down. She said she was there with her friend who was hitting it off with the guy she just met so she wanted to give her some space. After talking for a few minutes she seemed pretty cool, but I made it seem like I could care less whether she was there or not. I excused myself, went to the bar and ordered myself another beer. I came back and she gave me a weird look when she saw the fresh beer in my hand. I think she was hoping I’d buy her a drink, which WASN’T happening! Haha… so a few minutes later she got up and got herself a drink. We ended up closing the place down, Her friend came over and introduced herself along w/ the guy she met. Her friend said she wanted to go back to that guy’s house and implied that she didn’t want us to go. I told the HB I would give her a ride home. We walked out, she said she was hungry so we went to In ‘n Out. I was already proud of myself for not buying her a drink (which I would have in the past) so I was hoping to take it a step further and not pay for her food. I let her order, and stood a few feet behind her. She didn’t seem to mind pulling out her bank card and handing it over to pay. We ate outside while we talked some more. She started talking about her X boyfriend and their breakup etc… and then she says “so needless to say I haven’t had sex in a while and I really love sex!” to which I replied “well then maybe we should get outta here.” She simply said “okay!”
we got to her house, did our thing... twice... I got dressed and told her I had to leave. She walked me out and asked if I was going to call her. I said “you can call me!” she said “but I don’t have your #” and I said “here's my business card.” Then she throws a shit test and says “I’d rather you call me.” and I immediately said “then txt me your number, good night!” 10am the next day she text me her number... Now I have a regular booty call!

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"You become what you think about" - Zig Ziglar

very well done sir.

So often, it's just about going out to have a good time. The rest puts itself together around your energy. this post was good evidence of that. thanks for the reminder of what happens when you throw away your agenda and have a good time.

In my experience I get the best results when I'm going out "just to have a good time" and not pick up women. Your in your own head thinking and over analyzing everything too much when your sole objective is to get laid. I find that kicking back and having a good time with the guys is a better PUA mindset than the search and destroy tactic.

Whats the matter- Manwhore?

RSD Nation not good enough for you anymore ?

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"You become what you think about" - Zig Ziglar

Thats always the case for me. Whenever I am out not looking for women I find them

One of the great ironies of pickup :p