Hey all,

I am going to start now adding some of my misses and success instead of always Monday morning quarterbacking others. I am alway up for the critique to get better. So here goes my Halloween night post.

I live in a suburb of DC, and was bored last Friday so I decided to head into the city. My boy who is more of a natural, called and said he would meet up with me and asked if i wanted to meet up with some female friend of his, at an Irish pub in the city. Initially i tried to qualify the friend, to see if she was going to get in the way of our sarging for the night. He said he never banged her but was "acting as a bf" b/c she was with some coworkers and she needed a patsy to be a pretend bf. Why, is not that important but i understood the reasoning and tld him lets hang with them for a few minutes and if its dry let's bounce to another place since it was Halloween and there would be many many bars and hb's out having a good time.

We get the to Irish pub, and the girl and a friend show up about 20 min later. I get the introduction, to two hb7's (since she has a British accent, i can move her up to two tenths of a %). The other is a really nice but extremely irritating girl that i ended up negging for most of the time we spoke. At some point in the intro they were high fiving, so I said the next person that high fives has to buy the group a round of drinks, we will instead fist pound to give an approval (its much much cooler instead of high fiving). Eventually the Brit, came over and started talking to me, b/c i was getting kind of bored I decided to run the "cube" with a little kino on her for shiggles (shits & giggles). Man I really love the that game b/c it rarely fails and just really gets them in the right mindset abt me being different than the other guys.

Soon the other friends (3 guys 2 o/girls) arrive and we decide to go to a couple of other bars, all the while i am being c/f to the two hb7's in my set. Now my boy who isn't a pua, really has no clue what's happening and i am realizing that we kind have been on 3 insti-date's that night, i ask him if its OK that I move in on the friend (Brit), " oh dude it's cool no problem we are just friends do your thing".....um yeahhh.

So i keep it going i kiss close and smack her on the ass for kissing me, and push pull all night, meanwhile the natural, starts hitting on one of her other coworkers and is grinding and feeling her up all over the dance floor. One of the afc's that works with the girls started getting a little upset, so when i noticed that my buddy was grinding on his love interest, i told him...."try not to get too angry, women are fickle. Sometimes you get 1st place other times you get a set of steak knives. (LOL that was funny as shit b/c his boy spit his beer out). Of course the AFC wasn't so amused, oh well whaddya gonna do. Back to my party, so about 10 min later, I was having a ball, but what i didn't do was close to get out of there yet. 2 min later here comes the natural, seems as though the AFC gave back the steak knives...lol and leaves with the other girl.

So here is why when going out with non pua's things can get a little tricky. So we all remember I asked, if my buddy was cool with me going after his friend! When his hb7 left here he comes grinding up on my set. - I say what happened to your girl and he tells me " oh she wanted me but since they came together they it would be better if they left together)... WTF...i am thinking so go find another chick....but nooooooo he wants to continue grinding on the ass of his friend and now she is kinda getting into it (my guess was she maybe liked him a while back or something, who the hell knows...fickle right!) So at this point i get a little fussed and say hey i am ready to go. I figured hell, I'll get another chick next tomorrow or next week, however the CB'ing natural will not get the invite next time.

So we are walking to my car which is next to her apt, and I say to him, that I will catch him tomorrow and to have fun....he say's NO don't leave stay... I tell him i don't want to CB. He says he's never been with this chick but to stay.

We get to my car and she says "hey...are you OK to drive?" Now to me b/c of the interactions from the night I'm thinking IOI, IOI, IOI.....so i say "um.....yeahh but can i use the bathroom?"
We go upstairs, I handle my biz, and come out the bathroom. I bullshit you not when i say, after i sit on the couch for 2 min, my buddy starts kissing her, I then start kissing her belly and pulling at her pants and then we move to the bedroom and it was ON. Good symmetry, i am the first in the Pxxsy, and he's getting a bj, we switch and visa versa again. Great time....we stayed the night, 3 in the bed. Now the best part of this story was when we awoke the next morning...she had no buyers remorse and wanted to go again. Now in retrospect I should be ecstatic and not be bitching, but I've got one point of discontent, my boy the natural. Please tell me if i am wrong, but in my opinion really CB'd my game and we were lucky for that shit to happen. When we left he was like "dude I never thought she would do anything like that, I mean that was awesome. "

So folks what should i do with he natural? I know this will happen again if we hang out (we've only really hung out maybe twice before).

good job! but i sense you were benchwarming for far too long.

the natural may not be telling you but you were a pivot. He prolly couldn't have sarged that night without you. Just be easy about it, next time you sarge - TELL HIM who your target is so you don't have to share a vagina.

thanks for the tip...I think you were right about that. I definetly was was benchwarming too long, should have tried to exit much sooner. I got separation from the group, escalated kino and had her buying the drinks, but did not close to go home. And for him he did use me as a pivot, once the other target left. Thanks for the advice.