The lesson of this story is being very good at following up, and the understanding that what matters the most is where you lead the chick emotionally. Macro over Micro dynamics.
I go into the club and I see her. Japanese with those sharp, piercing eyes. Her skin, her body, flawless. Her style was definitely high fashion. Her smile, it was spunky.
Unfortunately, there was a girl who acted as a buffer between her and every guy trying to hit on her (almost fucked her, glad I didn't). Whenever these guys would hit on her, she'd push her buffer friend to them. If they took a picture with her, she'd decline. And if they forced a picture with her, she'd make the dumbest-ass face ever to DQ out of it. If they tried to get her number, she'd tell them to take the buffer's number.
When it comes to super hotties, understand that you must open immediately early on. Everyone else who talks to them later in the night they assume is either drunk or lady less. If you approach first, then they will assume absolute confidence while being sober. So, thats what I did and it paid off later into the night.
I come in, rolling with "I love your dress, you're like a walking disco ball." She looked at me and said "WHAT!?" and I go "Your dress, you're shiny" She says "WHAT?!?"
I tell myself, this is fucking worthless. This bitch doesn't speak English (which i found out later, was another buffer test)
I start to walk away and right as I do, she grabs my forearm and says "Where are you going?" I said "I'm going to meet with friends." My first impressions and my image was on point. I always make it a point to look good and credible when going out in a nightclub that caliber. So, she talks to her buffer, and then joins me at the bar.
My friend, who had a whole bunch of Bacardi 151's (You know who you are bro
) kinda fucks it up by forcing her to have a drink with us. She says "noooo..." and he keeps forcing it in. "nooooo..." but he keeps saying "C'mon!" Sadly, she ends up leaving.
I see her hours later. She's surrounded by guys trying to hit on her. I think to myself "Its not over"
I swagger walk directly over there...she's talking to a bunch of these guys, I said "hey!" She says "hey!" and dismisses me by looking away. I persist. I go "NO! HEY HEY!" I pull out this really cool dog tag that me and Troy bought that day. And I said, "This, is for you! This is from me, to you!"
I flip my unique dog tag, and it turns into a heart! BAM!!!!! Pretty Gangster eh?
She looks at me, ignores all the other guys and starts talking to the buffer in Japanese, she looks back at me and yells (smiling) "LIAAAAAAR! LIAAAR!"
ITS SO ON. Either way, I leave at a high point as Troy suggested, because I can always come back with my power intact.
Fast forward to post-club outside.
Suns out, I'm walking outside,and low and behold, I see my Japanese Hottie with her buffer. I yell out and say "You again!" She goes "Hey how was your night" and I say "Not bad, I'm getting picked up by my friend...." We laugh, take pictures, I cave man her and all.
And I go for the number close. Thats when I said, "hey put your number down" and she goes "Nooooo...take my friend's number down!" (another of the many tests) and I go "Fcuk that, I don't need it!" And thats when my good wingman comes in, plays the good cop and says "No, whats your number. He's actually a sweet guy, he'll call you" and then gets her number.
What happened next was some really tight follow up game. It took around a day. Just painting pictures, making the talk not so serious and just fun. I realized that she was spunky, young and fun...like ME! After the third text I called her, and had a fun time just flirting with her over the phone!
After that, there were 2 more texts and stoped flirting any longer because I had already hit the high point. So I called her, and in a more serious tone talked to her.
"Hey there, whats going on....regular talk but more serious and not all about having fun. I can be a legit guy in your life -- message" From there, I ended up telling her on the phone about my plans (This was the middle part of the game), foreshadowing about dinner later and she says "Oh, what time?" So, I say "7, do you want to join me?" After that she goes "okay!" And just to clarify i say "So, tonight, you and me at Xplace at 7. Meet me at starbucks." She goes "Starbucks, I know that!"
I learned long ago if a women dresses sexy on a date, its fucking over. I spent a good hour picking out my clothes. Not too young, but more of the "young and powerful" aura with a flair of fun. Look, a hot woman needs a congruent guy to compliment her. Whats the point of her wearing something absolutely fabulous and you showing up looking like a bum. There needs to be a mutual exchange of value.
At this point, My friend, instructor -Troy is on a date with another chick, and I head to Starbucks. She's late so I start walking around until she texts me. I get a text "I'm here! Where are you?!" and I see her. When I saw her in a red dress (pics on the Alumni forums) and I thought to myself "Thats it. I'm gonna fCUK tonight."
We head to dinner, into one of my favorite date spots. At this point, I drop the flashy stuff, and literally got to get to know her. I found out what she did, what her story was, etc. This was a crucial part of the process.
Thats when I hear my name from the balcony inside. Its Troy! He's on a date upstairs! He passes by to glad hand me, inviting to go karaoke and all. Thats when i realized "Fuck the movies, we're singing!"
After getting to know her, the plan worked. Now we acted like a couple. We were holding hands and were walking like a power couple. Like Brad and Angelina. I can just imagine how that feels for them. Everyone looking, guys gawking, and ladies taking note. I felt unstoppable doing the swagger walk with my arm candy. And yes, she was proud to be my arm candy.
Initially I suggest a double date thing with Troy's German chick, but in the end I it wasn't needed. No need to complicate this natural flow.
We get our own Karaoke room, and I started off by breaking the ice and singing the first song. My favorite Muse song, "Time is running out" to her. It was one of those MTV's with no lyrics. But since I loved that song I memorized it. And that freakin' impressed her!
At the low points of the karaoke night, I put out my usual playlist of "love makin' music". I busted the NE-YO's, the Ushers, etc. We were dancing, taunting, holding each other, I would come in almost kissing her and pulling away, etc.
RIGHT WHEN I FELT the tension was just enough for me to go in, I go 100% for the kiss. Pretty good flow right? WRONG. This is where the shit tests come in. Don't forget, this isn't just SOME CHICK. This was a chick who knew the game pretty damn well.
I close in...
I close in....
BAM! SHE DODGED IT like someone asking President Bush a question. FFFFUUUUUUUUUUUCKKKK
It took me EIGHT TRIES in an hour. The lesson is, I ran the checklist. Mostly everything on the checklist was good. Nothing was wrong. Its just she needed more comfort and had to see my persistence towards her. After eight tries, i pecked her lips. But I backed up before she did! After some more time, it bridged into making out, feeling on each other, and thats when I realized "Alright, its time to leave!" I meet up with Troy in the rest room just to tell him I'm heading out, and in no time, we were out of there.
We end up in a hotel, and i sit her down. She tells me "What are we doing here?" I say "Oh, we're just resting." After that she goes "oooookaaay! No sex!" And i knew it was on her mind, so i confidently went in for more making out. Right when i would go for her breasts, she would push my hand away! So right there, I learned a quick lesson Troy told me about sex....NO FORCE-FEEDING. I would turn her on sexually, then right as the tension built up, I backed off. Repeat process. At one point, I go for the breast, and she said "NO!" and slapped my hand away. She said
"Don't touch my money!"
I got tired of that shit so I said "Okay, fine! I won't! I'm going to sleep!" I turn my back on her and close my eyes.
As I close my eyes, I peek out, and for 2 hours straight, that chick was staring me down like a lion and its prey. I think to myself "Tim, don't give in. Don't give in! Eventually she will bite"
Low and behold...
I start to feel the tips of her finger caressing my chest. And one button after the other, she starts taking off my shirt. I think to myself "Okay, I've won the war." As I open my eyes, make out with her, I go to touch her nubile breasts again. She lets me, and I think "Yesssss.." Work my hand down south...barely passing her belly button and...
She SLAPS MY HAND!
She says "No! Don't touch!"
AGAIN!?!?!?
After that, I did the whole "I don't care! I'm sleeping again!" And from that, again, she starts teasing me by feeling me up everywhere but my cock (that pissed me off), and that woke me up eventually.
My mindset at this point, was to turn her on. So I quit the games, and man handle her. I dry hump her and slowly I was hearing the moaning. She was getting into it. She orgasmed on the dry humping alone. From there, I said "You want more?" She goes "YES!"
From there, I hump her again, then I put my hand down real quickly and realized that her lingerie was pulled on the side, meaning her pussy was exposed! So I excused myself to the rest room real quick, put on the condom, put my boxers on (preparation is essential) and came back. More sexual foreplay, moaning. I could feel her through her thin red dress while her sexy legs positioned me in between. I take my cock out, and slip it in. She didn't say ANYTHING. She put it in her like a submissive lioness understood the dominance of the male lion. Thats how I felt.
I remember, it took 10 seconds. It hurt to me. It was SO TIGHT. I could tell that she didn't just give it to anybody.
Stroke one, God it feels good
Stoke two...FFFUUUCK
Stroke three..I think I'm gonna nut
Stroke ten...Oh no!
Normally, i can last at least 40 minutes with any chick, but damn. She had that magic punany. Embarrassed, I put my battle gear back on. Looked at her back in the eye, and said "I'm taking you down this time." As I put my cock into her again, I remember Troy's idea
Quote:
Troy -- "I'm not gonna lie, I give girls the best fuck. I last for a LONG TIME. How? Easy. I think about other shit while fucking. Like business. I LOVE BUSINESS
So, I shove it in there, and like Peter Pan's happy thoughts, I start thinking about all the money me and Troy are gonna make with our businesses. Throughout that 45 minute session with the magic punany I could've sworn I thought about elephants, who decorated my swanky hotel room, and the gifts I wanted for Christmas. Anything to not make me think of how absolutely tight her Punany was.
About 3 Orgasms later, we rest.
This is when i noticed the shower. I suggested she take a shower. She goes in. Two minutes later, and she comes out with nothing but a towel on. Think Japanese porn hottie dangling herself around the lion. Lion gets revved, and I pounce on her. I try taking her towel off, and get another test "noo...I'm shy, I'm shy!" and literally wont take it off.
So, I literally cavemanned her over my shoulder to the shower, turned it on (with my boxers on and her towel on) and we start to make out. I take off her towel and slam her on the wall. I pick her up by the legs. She hooks both her thighs around me and again, another episode of the best sex of my life. I turn her around and slam her on the glass wall, and do her from behind. At this point she's grabbing shit, she's yelling, moaning, and screaming. It was so powerful that the water dripping on our bodies splashed in all directions every time I thrusted.
I finally nut. Best sex ever since my Euro chick (trust me, I'll put HER photo on the Alumni forums and you judge!) This is when we finally chilled, and started talking. After awhile, we put our clothes back on. She gave me my shirt, my wallet, and my immaculate dog tag "heart". Thats when I said "Awww the heart" and she said "Yeah, liar" (playfully) and I said "Do you want it?" in a serious tone, and she says "huh?" I repeat it and she says "really? What?" and she turns around, wraps her hair up to reveal the back of her neck, and I put it on her. After that she keeps telling me "Arigato! Arigato!"
The next day, life is beautiful. I see everything in a good light. Nothing can bother me. Mediocre girls cannot compare. Even on the second time she wanted another round about.
Sometimes, you really have to understand that its not about how specific the interactions can get, but what matters is how you lead her emotionally in the medium term that matters.
Also, Sex is really really important in keeping a woman. if you do her right, she will keep coming back for more. I cannot stress it enough.
So, focus on being a legit guy. Learn some solid follow up steps, create the SPAM of intimacy, NO FORCEFEEDING yourself upon her, and just bait her in. Know the windows of escalation and know damage control when you don't get it or something unexpected happens.
Trust me, it works.
CHAT
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