Lost my virginity last night, just thought i share it, and its only cuz of this awseome community i could even get that far.

Now i am fucking happy

EDIT: (cause Gunwitch wanted me to explain the night)

Basically finally get the girl to come home with me, and she literally tells me:
- (girl) "i only come to sleep here, we will not to have sex"
in the taxi in which i tell her:
-(me) "yes of course".

When we get to my place, i turn on some music off of spotify, start making out with her and get in a cowgirl position in which i put my hand inside her pants to touch her ass. This is when she gets serious, backs off (meaning sit straight up) and tells me:
- (girl)Listen, we are not going to have sex do you understand this, i am not the type of girl who does one night stands
-(me) Back off for a minute now(push her back when she come back to make out), I have tried out one night stands before, and to be honest i would of started taking off you clothes by now, but for the first time in a loong time i think i met someone who might actually be special, you know what i mean? like, different from the other girls
-(girl) what you mean different
-(me) i cant explain it its just one of those feelings, you know? This is why I will NOT have sex with you tonight, it will be very difficult for me (take her hand and put on my boner) but i think it will be worth it this time ^^

At this point she literally leans in with a huge smile and say:
-(girl) I didnt know guys like you existed everyone just wants to have sex, now i know you are a special guy

We make out and for each shirt or pants i make her take off i remind her that i will not have sex with her, which makes her feel comfy. I take off the bra and start rubbing tits. She start dry hump me which make my dick hard and she is horny too (i touched her pussy was wet as fuck).

At this point she say this to me:
-(girl) you deserve it
-(me) what do you mean?
-(girl) we will have sex tonight if you want it
-(me) only if you promise me that it wont ruin the mood for you or the way you look at me

after here it basically just goes on by itself, was quite drunk so didnt feel a thing, we had sex for maybe 30-40 minutes, i could not climax but i think this count as losing virginity

Hope u liked my share, peace

(ps, i was quite drunk, all sentences might not be exacly the way they were said but 99% of it was like this)

Congrats, bro!

And I'm sure a lot of us were drunk as hell our first times. I know I was. Love the classic "we're not going to have sex tonight" line.

Hell yeah!

did better than I did tonight. I should of played it out your way. I was to aggressive but still had some fun. WTG my Non AFC.

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Congatulation bro.

Jakk

Congratz bro! Always puts things in perspective, getting laid for the first time (or even after a dry spell!). But now remember to be genuine about it afterwards. Be respectful of the fact that she doesn't want to feel used, even if that just means texting her back and forth a bit. No need for game after you've actually slept together because you're now on more or less on the same page. She obviously wanted to get laid, but as well as ASD, most girls are emotionally vulnerable afterwards, hence part of their resistance. Doesn't mean you have to get into a relationship with her, but be a discrete, caring gentleman about the ordeal and it will do you favors with other women too, as well as nurture this one should you choose to continue seeing her/bump into her on a night out. Trust me on this, I learned it the hard way.

congratz man im excited for you. i haven't lost my virginity yet but im getting there. thanks for posting very informative to me.

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"The key is to diversify...Whatever works. It's like fishing with 7 lines in the water instead of just one. You're more likely to a catch fish that way."-PUAninja

may i also say i was on a 12 or 13 day fap streak and have never been as horny as i was

Congrates bru I see u are getting better at picking up and becomming quite a pro keep up the good work

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Congratulations good job and nice way of playing it out in your favour!

keep up the good work

Congratulations, man! You've finally sealed a deal

Just some questions, though:
1. Whenever girls say to you, "We're not having sex tonight," do you always recite the same fluffy lines? ("You're different from all the other girls?")
2. Did you learn all of this stuff by yourself? Or did you pick it up from somewhere else (youtube, other PUAs, etc)?

I'm still trying to lose my V, too, but your story has given me an idea of how a good time is supposed to be

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1. yes basically same lines from now on (seems to be only ones that work)
2. I seen all dvd of mystery method, read his book and i started watching sasha pickups on youtube. I dont like the indirect approach as its not my thing and takes too much time. I only do direct 99,99% of what I know I do.

I can give u link to the stuff in pm if u want. Its a very good base to start doing after you have all of this info, and i usually pump myself up by watching a pickup video from sasha b4 i go out on a night

If u need any tips or anything of what i personally done send a pm i will explain everything so u can lose ur V too

Congrats man.. From my experience, whenever a girl says she won't have sex that night it means that she wants to or at least willing to.. It takes pressure of her, and makes her feel less of a slut.. Especially if she is the one that brought it up out of nowhere.. The best way to handle this is agree and continue kissing and seducing her, always reminding her that you won't have sex if she is backing off.. Once you are in your boxers and rubbing your dick in her pussy, the deal is over and she will ask you to put on a condom and fuck her brains off..

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Well Played man, Game on. Happy for you
I would've just said ok, cool when she said if you want it. but it doesn't really matter because you did a perfect "freeze out". You're a champ

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