I just found an old cell phone I had, I charged it up and have been going through the old text messages. I found a few text threads that I believe could help a few of you out. Heres one:

If you don't know, I'm totally against taking a girl on a date if I don't feel like I have any real romantic interest in them. Meaning, if I could tell a girl was only going to be a friends with benefits I'm not investing any additional time into dating them. Some girls comply and others don't, but I refuse to compromise and so it works.

Heres a quick thread on how this arrange went down.

I had called her on the phone or video chatted her a couple times i believe and i mentioned her coming over to which she objected. I insisted and she objected again. So we talked a bit more than hung up. I texted her 2 days later to ask how she was...

After some fluff talk:

Her So.. when will I get to meet you?

Me: Whenever you want. We could of met yesterday.

Her: (two days later) I'm just now seeing your text smh
Her: And we never made set plans.

Me: The old "i'm just seeing this trick" lol

Her: I wouldn't do that lol
Her: I really just saw it
Her: What are you doing later?

Me: mhmmm
Me: I'm free after 3

Her: I get off at 5:30
Her: Lets do something

Me: You wanna dance in the rain? Lol ---> ( I presume it was raining)
Me: To honest I'm not trying to be just another guy taking you out. I'd feel hella wack. If you wanna hang by my way or your way I'm down. But going out? Thats just weird lol.. Maybe after I get to know you a bit.

Her: I understand. I just feel weird just going to your place, but I may take the leap of faith and hope you're not a serial killer lol

Me: You sound crazy lol

Her: How? lol You might be crazy
Her: Hell, I might be crazy
Her: You don't know me

Me: Lol I just think you're a better judge of character than that. ---> (holding her to higher standards)

Her: Lol True

Me: So you're coming!

Her: Yeah I'll come

Me: Cool. I'll clean the bowls and chill the milk. Kellogg or General mills? --> ( poor serial killer joke.. i know)

Her: General mills for sure! lol
Her: I'll be in my work clothes . Don't judge me lol

Me: A lil mickie D's sun visor won't bother me

Her: LOL
Her: Scrubs! nvm.. I'll go home and change. 8 pm work?

Me: works. [Address] .
Me: Text me when you get home.

Her: kk!


I also follow this rule when I would meet women online. I'll FaceTime and thats our first date. I'll FaceTime again if you want a second date before coming over, but unless I'm 100% sure we have a potential future theres no way I'm going on any dates. I get irritated while being out with a woman who i don't have solid romantic interest in. Thats something i'm still trying to overcome.

I have several similar threads. I'll post em if you like.

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