So I've been using Okcupid for a few months on and off. I typically mass message girls "Hey hows it going" and work with the ones who show interest. Forget fancy, long-winded messages.. they really dont increase your chances of making a connection. A good rule of thumb is that if the girl replies, she's interested to some extent. We all exude attractiveness to different degrees to different people, so you can't have em all. But if you message many girls, statistically, you'll find some who are interested in you.
Anyways, last week I messaged a really cute Asian girl "hey hows it going?" I know, this message doesn't afford much opportunity to exchange facts about each other, but its only point is to evoke a response. She replied "I'm doing ok, how are you?" After trying a few different methods, these days I propose meeting up as soon as a girl replies to my initial message. Me: "Good! I'm XXX, nice to meet ya! Lets get coffee sometime and get to know each other like normal people
xxx-xxx-xxxx shoot me a message sometime!" I always leave my number so it doesn't put pressure on the girl, and so you put the ball in her court.
#'s are exchanged.. saturday I head up to NYC to meet up with her. Anyways, I always propose meeting at the girl's place because 1) logistics 2) I live at home with my parents still haha
So I go to her place in the Bronx so "we can walk together to a coffee shop or eatery" I greeted her with a hug and kiss on the cheek to establish sensual contact. We go inside her place, sit on her couch, and exchange usual pleasantries. While most of this is bullshit (what to you do, where are you from, etc.), it is useful in that it provides an opening to segue to more interesting topics.
After 15-20 minutes,
Me: hahah ok, ok.. so I know all about your job (she does marketing) and I know you make a million dollars a year... tell me what makes you feel
Her: what do you mean? (its a direct question and Asian girls are silly.. not generally equipped with as much social grease)
Me: I mean, what makes you happy, what makes you smile, who makes you smile, what makes your heart race? *with a smile in my eye* Or in my case, who makes your heart race?
Her: ... *few seconds of stunned silence while her heart and mind flutter*
Me: For example, does this (light kiss) make you feel? (more kissing around her neck)
Her: mhmm, yes
progression is rapid from there... 15-20 minutes of foreplay. When I sensed she was ready, I just picked her up and carried her to her room. The sex was awesome. Fucked for hours and day turned to night. Ate, showered together, watched a movie, fucked more. I usually carry 2 condoms but that wasn't enough... I ended up going in raw for our 3rd round (at her behest) and popping my load in her (at her behest). Afterwards, we passed out exhausted. She woke me at 7:15 with my cock in her mouth... it was too much and before long I was fucking her throat like the Energizer bunny. I literally erupted in the deepest recesses of her tonsils - honestly, an amazingly liberating experience.
I'm gonna see her again next week, but she is actually a really nice girl and wants a relationship with me. I'm not prone to leading girls on so it'll probably end when she decides she wants to progress from physical passion to something more substantial.
CHAT