thought this experience was an interesting one to share.
There is this sight called couch-surfing i use to meet up with girls for drinks. Its golden.
any way I find this french HB8 22 year old and set up to meet at a bar.

she gets there and go straight to the hug and after the first two sentences she has a worried blank stare, I think, hmmm somethings wrong so I go immediately and ask so whats your poison for tonight? ...same blank stare, so i point at my drink and she says -"OH vodka redbull. so after we get our drinks we I say lets walk to the other side of the bar and find a spot.

I have this thing I do: when there is a slight crowd where you cannot walk comfortably side by side I walk 2 feet in front of her and leave my back hand out that can either look like I'm asking for her hand or look like I just have my hand out of the way as i move through the crowd. I only flex and open my hand twice. most of the time by the second flex they grab the hand. if they don't i lose them and find them after. so the next time i do it they immediately grab the hand.

she grabs the hand. we find a couch. i soon find out she had a blank stare bc she doesn't understand English!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! she can write but barley talk. it was a nightmare at first but in the first minute i realize that Kino is universal and especially when you have to act things out with your hands to explain what you are saying.. you can be goofy and Kino escalate a lot. after one drink i change venues and we go to another bar. few more drinks i can tell she is comfortable and i have rapport with her finally, plus i saw her looking at my lips and other signs so we go out to the patio bc the music is too loud and i cut her off mid sentence and say shut up and kiss me. she hesitates and then does.

back up
before that i had a conversation that went like this, we were talking about books
ME: -hey look at that bookshelf, its like one i have at home
FRENCHIE-I have a bookshelf at house too
ME-I bet mine is bigger
FRENCHIE- no way, mine is the biggest in the world
Me- Ha, well i got to show mine. and if mine is bigger you lose. wanna bet?

so she ends up agreeing to bet on it and sometimes i'll bring it up with the tone that she'll come over tonight and i leave it at that. So after i kissed her i said,
-wanna come see my bookshelf? I live 4 blocks away

so she comes.

f-close

kino saved my life and being able to joke about how bad we were communicating were key i feel!

Great FR.

Love how you went with the close. You anchored something at the venue then transferred it to your place. Can be done with anything, I have a bar at my house, could easily do that...but only after you have attraction.

Awesome!

Im a bit new to PUA, about 7 weeks in.