Allright, last week I hooked up with a girl who was a friend of my friend's girlfriend, HB7.
Made out, and got home with her, had sex, no brazzers sex but sex.
I didn't really like her at that time and played the thing really well but heard later that she liked me etc..

Now this weekend I met up with HB7 again, same situation, out with my friend's girlfriend, even the same bar.
My friend and his girlfriend go home after being just an hour in to this bar which is making me and HB7 the only two left. I have to say, actualy seeing her was a little awkward at first because it seemed to have a little meaning this time. I got shy because I heard she liked me but when the other two left us alone we started to get easier with each other. She started making out with me and that's actualy what we did all night. Dancing and making out. When the bar closed and we were walking out, she asks if i wanna sit on an stairway thing, just outside the bar. We sit there for maybe 1,5 hours, making out, and I start to touch her. Touching boobs, area between the legs, neck etc.. note: she touches me but not in the between the legs area) I can tell she likes it so I'm thinking I have a way to have a sleep over again. (I started to think I like her in the time we made out on the stairway)

And yes I had, under the conditions of just sleeping because I had to walk 30 mins home because a friend of mine borrowed my bicycle.

So home at her place, getting into bed, making out. I start to touch her and allmost at the moment of nailing her she says we should do it safe. I, a little confused, because last time wasn't safe at all, say I have a condom with me but can't tell her where it is and asks if she has one. She says yes but, two minutes later she says she, "rather wanted to sleep because it was already 6:30 in the morning, no offence". So me and her sleeping, in the morning, 08 o'clock we start to make out again comes exactly to that point of fucking but somehow she holds me a little back by taking of her panties. Strange because I could do anything to her, finger her etc.. but no taking of the panties...

So ending our sensual thing we fall asleep again. Same thing starts, making out, sensual thing etc.. Again no fucking. Ending both of us in bed lying next to eachother, holding and falling asleep again.

A strange thing is, when we we're getting to those points of allmost nailing, she didn't even touch my willy while i was just normaly touching her etc.. I kept really nice to her etc..

at 12 o'clock we wake up, she takes a shower and I drink my coffee. We say goodbye and give each other a cheek kiss and I go home.

I spended the whole day thinking about what went wrong and feeling a little troubled by thinking I like her and actualy would love to see her again, like right now!

So that evening I start a facebookchat and after a little small talk she asked me how my day was. I explain: "I did a bit of laundry, kitchen cleaning, house cleaning but by beeing so tired of drinking and allmost no sleeping I did everything just halfway haha"

She replies, whaha surprising;)


I was left realising the reply could be about our sex thing and I started to think I fucked up!

So I need some advice guys, I like her but I think by liking her I think I screw up and lose confidence.
Because to me it seemed like she actualy didn't want me to put my willy into hers.
But by saying just a comment like that I started to doubt myself..

Could you hand me some advice ?

Bye!

Sonandreas(sorry for my bad english

Have you tried to put her hand on your dick?Ive read through multiple sources in PUA and through field test myself to confirm it works if the girl is horny !

I'm sorry for your bad English as well, but I will try to offer you this;

You did fuck up, you did not complete your mission, and SHE WANTED YOU TO COMPLETE IT!

LMR, Acronym for Last Minute Resistance. This is when a woman puts up some form of resistance right before you successfully lay her because she start having second thoughts about having sex. Because she doesn't want you to think she's a slut! Or feel guilty for having sex with you.

So if she puts up resistance, and then DOES have sex, it's YOUR fault not hers.

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Nope didn't try that. Good tip!


Heywood Jablowme,
Guess you're right. Well, it serves to be a good lesson. It's a shame I actualy like her now and also a shame I banged her the week before. And everything went allright back then..

It was al such an awkward situation with that condom thing going on.. I should've put it on and bang her, damnit!:P
Thanks for the replies!

hand ondick works, but you dont have to use it when you banged her already.
I use it for role reversion/showing that i'm sexual (after kclose put hand on ur dick if its hard and say something along the lines of:'now feel what youve done... '.

whats been said before, just shamelessly escalate.
just set up something with her and dont make the same mistake

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