The Backstory: I tried to pull this girl home from a karaoke bar just over a month ago. She seemed down and it felt ON, but there were messy logistics that night. When I got home (that first time) and texted her "y'all coming over?" she sent back "maybe," so I deleted her number and chalked it up as a loss. Fuck that "maybe" shit, I'm looking for responses like "yup be right there!"
The Girl: 29 years old, has a 2-year old daughter. Definitely a Freak, very smart and funny. Also out of her damn mind, but I did not realize that until the post-sex talk. That's usually where you learn all kinds of interesting things, but anyway...
The Seduction: My actual interaction with her was over the course of 2 or 3 hours at the bar. Before I went out, I was in a seriously shitty mood. I considered just staying in, I was having all kinds of negative thought-loops, and then I decided fuck it, I'm just going to go socialize for a bit to get myself in a better mood. My room is trashed right now, it's in stuff-being-moved-mode, but there was no way in hell I was cleaning it all up (would take hours). Figured if I brought someone home, there are plenty of couches and a basement that would suffice. Threw on some shorts, sandals and a workout shirt and headed out.
When I got to the bar, I ran into some friends right away, which immediately fixed my bad mood and I went into Social Mode and just began enjoying myself. Floating around the bar, talking to people I knew, talking to people I didn't know, building momentum. That's the backdrop for the whole thing: two very sociable people, in social mode, floating around the bar talking to our friends (her friends became my friends, she already knew most of mine), with little spurts of Game when we were talking one-one-one.
Here were the Game spurts, to the best of my recollection:
1. When I got to the bar and starting walking around, we caught each others' eyes and recognized each other. She came over and gave me a big hug, first words out of her mouth were "I lost your number!" (she probably deleted mine too). I tell her to take out her phone and give it to me, then put in my number and told her to call me.
2. She asked for a drag of my cigarette. I told her it would cost her. A kiss, not a make out. She closed her eyes and pursed her lips. I kissed her. She put my hand on the side of her neck so I could feel her heart racing. I said "awesome, you felt that too huh?"
3. Asked for another drag of my cigarette later on. I told her the price has escalated. She asked what it was, I said she had to grab my dick. She brushed it, I told her a brush doesn't count, I want a full five-finger grab. She complied.
4. We were watching her friends throw herself at a black guy in the bar. She asked "do you think she's into black guys? hahaha" We talked about it for a second, then I asked her if she'd ever fucked a black guy. She said "no way, never never!" (this happens a lot in the South). I said, "why? tight pussy?" And she nodded vigorously and gave me the OK sign with her hand with the O-hole closed down very far. I said to her, "guess we'll have to test that theory later." She smiles and hugs me.
5. I start talking about hooking up with a black girl in college, in pretty vivid detail. I get so into the story that I give myself a boner. I tell her "oh shit, I'm getting myself hard talking about this." I push my body into her and say "see! you need to protect me, help me get to a seat." I push my bonerfied body into hers all the way to a chair. Before I sit down, I start flexing my cock against her pussy. "I'm getting my cardio in."
6. Asked for another drag of my cigarette. I tell her the price has escalated again. She asks, "can I just put it on my tab for later tonight?" Ding ding, we have a winner!
7. She mentions that she's hot and needs to go to her car to get a different shirt. I tell her I'll walk with her. In my head I'm thinking, "bouncing builds comfort, chance to escalate and isolate."
8. We get to her car, I pull her into a nearby alleyway. I push her against the wall and start making out with her. I flip her around and start feeling her boobs. I tell her that since I felt her parts, fair is fair, and she gets what I'm saying and slips her hand into my pants and starts feeling my naked cock.
9. I tell her we need to move deeper into the alleyway where nobody can see, she laughs it off and asks if I'm in a hurry. I tell her no, let's go back to the bar and chill a little (blown escalation attempt, calibrating that she wants to stay a big longer). On the way back to the bar, she asks what my plans are for the night. I say, "You." She asks if that's a promise, I tell her "absolutely." She smiles. We start talking about logistics, she drove some people to the bar and we need to figure out how to make it happen. One of her friends ends up crashing on my couch, it was just the easiest way to get her over.
10. When we get home, I ask if she wants a tour of my house. Take her straight to the bedroom and fuck her.
She was right...suuuper tight pussy
Takeaways--
--once you acquire a target, be a pit bull. Work on her and take it as far as possible.
--be able to switch seamlessly from Social to Seductive and back again at a moment's notice, for example if a friend joins the conversation you need to be able to do this in a heartbeat.
--be bold
--Banter + Escalation is sufficient to get the girl interested in fucking you
--Figure out logistics! This is why I didn't fuck her last month, and why I was able to this time.
CHAT