Bare with me here, this one is a bit of a long one, but demonstrates how I used game to not only get laid, but to dig myself out of a hole with this girl, and place myself as the dominant force in the relationship between the two of us.
Part 1
Ok first things first, how I met this girl. This parts a little hazy (alcohol involved) but I’ll give you guys the gist of it game wise. Went to a club with a mate of mine, saw this HB7 sort of near the bar. Opened with my daygame opener; “I need a female opinion on something, obviously in club at night a lot of guys are firing into girls and a lot of it will work, but do you think if I guy said the same thing to a girl during the day it would work?” This opener has been working wonders for me, gives so much scope to neg, with a comment like you must have a lot of guys hitting on you (if they say no, it makes them seem unconfident, if they say yes they sound arrogant), and to escalate (you’re already talking about the laws of attraction, so moving the topic to sex can be done naturally).
Anyway, they conversation was flowing, I used Gambler’s acceleration technique (see the video at the bottom of the forum page), and had k closed before not too long. She was out with a 3 of her friends, so I managed to extract them all across the road to a food place (how exactly is a little hazy). I gamed a little more, cracking jokes and generally keeping the tone fun and light hearted, ended up pulling a number from the target before we parted ways, with her texting me before she got home.
Part 2
The rest of the week we were texting each other, pretty much just basic text game, things I made sure not to text her back straight away, avoided direct questions, used leading sentences. I also impressed her with some knowledge of personality types; guessed a few things about her character, it went down well. Around about on the Wednesday, she invited me out for drinks that Friday, although not just me and her, she invited me out along her friends. Although I knew I was gonna go right away, I played it cool and said I’d let her know what I was up to. The rest of the week she bombarded me with texts asking if I was coming or not, at one point telling me she was dying to see me.
Friday comes around, I call her about 5 telling her I’m probably going to show up with a friend of mine, which we duly do. By this time I figure attraction is well and truly built so I relax on the game tactics a bit and just enjoy my night. I found out later that apparently her friends had been complaining to her that she was spending too much time with me during the night and not enough with them. Suited me, because it pissed her off, so when I asked if she wanted to come back to mine, the choice between spending more time with me or them was a pretty easy one for her. Took her back to mine, and cutting a whole different story short, sealed the deal.
Part 3
She left the next morning, and we carried on texting each other through the week. I mentioned to her I was going out for food with ‘a friend’ that week (I was actually out on a date, check this field report
how-i-know-that-i-have-inner-game-and-t ... 61435.html), but mentioned to her that I couldn’t really be bothered because I wasn’t feeling 100%. She went fishing, saying she loves going out to eat etc. So I told her I’d take her out next week if she wanted.
Later, she invited me out with her friends that weekend, again told her I’d let her know. This time though I knew there was gonna be a party in my flat for a SPAM birthday, and I still hadn’t decided whether to invite her, or the girl I went out with that week. Spoke to my friend who was out with me on the night I banged this girl, he told me under no circumstances to invite this girl and her friends due to him having a blow out with one of her friends. Thought I’d do him a solid and invited the girl from the date, unfortunately she couldn’t make it, so we just gamed some of the girls at the party, although I wasn’t on great form to be honest, still not feeling great. Having said that, although I didn’t close I gave myself an easy night’s work if and when I see these girls again.
This is where the story gets interesting though, not going into details, it came to my attention that a friend of mine who I was meeting later had run into a little legal difficulty, so needless to say I was pretty desperate to get a hold of him. Ended up ringing the girl I banged by accident. I told her I’d called her by accident and needed to talk to my friend pretty urgently, but she reacted pretty badly, and said something sarcastic to me. Obviously I wasn’t in the mood for any of this so I gave her a bit of a telling off down the phone, and she hung up on me. She text me saying she couldn’t believe I spoke her to like that, I replied saying she deserved it. I didn’t sweat it too much, and got on with my night.
Part 4
Didn’t speak to her for a couple of days, but after about 3 or 4 began to worry that I was costing myself a lot of regular sex over an overblown misunderstanding. Still though, I didn’t want to bite the bullet and apologise, mainly because I didn’t think I needed to. Also, I knew if I did, it would give her the licence to call me out anytime I did anything she decided she didn’t like. So I thought of a way around it, and fired off a text not dissimilar to this: “You wanna go out and get that food? Or you still pissed off about that shit?”
About 10 minutes later she text me backs asking when. I told her a time and place to meet and carried on texting exactly as before, as if we hadn’t argued at all. It was the same when we met up, she kinda made reference to it at points, I just outright refused to acknowledge it as a big deal whatsoever. And in the end, that date was a success too.
CHAT