Went on spring break with some buds and a girl whom I had never met until the drive down to Florida. I heard she was kind of slutty so I had some info come into this. During the trip I just decided to not I've a fuck about anything and literally treated her like one of the guys. The entire time I'm clearly the decision maker and alpha of the group. Which is something I usually struggle with.


The first night there one of my friends kind of creeps her out hard and I end up walking with her arm around mine on he way to the club. However by the one we got to the club 2 of the guys left immediately and it was me, the creep, and her. It gets to just me and her and she's just rambling about how creepy he is(typical girl). I don't want my night ruined so I tell her it's our first night don't let it ruin everything. I go by myself around the club for a bit before I head out. Later I found out she met with friends and fucked one that night.


The next night we all get wasted in our hotel room. I can't remember much but we were flirting hard, started making out and running each other in front of people but that was it.

The next night is when it happened. I had got back from a concert and she was drinking a little bit with some people earlier. I got back and we picked up where we left off and started kissing. I said we should go to the beach (at this point we both know its on). It's too early to fuck on the beach so we go to the laundry room (classy first experience right?). She rides me and I end up cumming a few mints in and didn't tell her because I wanted her to get off too. She playfully slaps me an I say I don't eat girls out and it's done. Think he was kinda angry be there's no way she got off.

Fast forward a few days later. It's our last day and I know it's inevitable that we fuck again. We are drinking in our hotel playing games and after awhile I put her on my lap. We start making and I'm rubbing her thigh. She leads me to the bedroom. She rides me and I actually came like instantly. I said I got off quickly this time. I wasn't sure if she heard me and I said it multiple times. She stayed on so I kept going. I flip her over, put a pillow under her back (i read this makes hitting the g spot easier) and do her for 5 mins. Then we seitch again fr another 5 mins, I think just regular cowgirl this time? And it ends that way. She was wet as hell but I really need some sex tips.

Can I get some sex tips? Like how I know if she came? (Im a generous fucker). Or how to better hold my load. She also said it not normal for people to cum inside you without any forewarning, I didn't know this at all. She was on birth control so I figured it didn't matter

Although i'm not quite the relationship type of guy i think my first gf learnt me all there is to know.
Look for a main girl that you can practice with. Be honest and open aboutsex. No big deal.

What gets you off?
just correct me if i do it wrong.
etc.

Most girls come with clitoral stimulation and i've had the best experience with that.
However girls are very different, even on clitoral stimulatin.
Some like a slow buildup of speed en pressure, some want rough action right away, some like nails on there clit when they are close to their climax.

In general i'd recommend this;

Imagine you lay next to eachother. You are slightly turned towars her and you ave your hand in her X area.
She spreads her legs and you gently stroke her inner thighs until you've reached her pussy lips. than you go back again and gently stroke until her pussy lips.
In the warmup it is key to postpone the moment you go for action until she realy want it bad. So now you have your index finder on her right pussylip and your middle on her left. Again you slichtly stroke her outer lips (at this point you might have noticed minor fluids already. What i likt to do now is gently stroke her inner lips as well. then you go up to the point where the lips start and you go down with your indexfinger and middle finger functioning as a V that opens the lips. You release your fingers, move up, and do the same thing again and again. What you do now is basically moving with your fingers around her clitoris. At the biginning of the stimulation the clitoris will most likely be too sensitive to touch, so its all about working on the areas around it. So now shes got the working and stroking around the clit you can start the actual stimulation.

I alway imagine the clit as a tube that starts high (where the lips start) and ends low (a small bumb just above the vagina entrance) The lowest part is most sensitive so you start high. Low rithm and low pressure. You slowly go down building speed and rithm. My rule is always if youve reached the lowest part (most sensitive part) before she came, and you are now only building speed and pressure, youve moved too fast.

You notice when you have the right rithm/pressure/position from her breath. Heavy breathing means keep doing this and give me slightly more. When she climaxes you can go quite rough and after some spastic movements stop, and keep one finger on her clit without moving. This will make the orgasm longer and she can even get another one.

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For not blowing so quick; I don't know if this will help, but I generally cant come most time with girls- the reason - I have a near pathological need to please them before I can get off aha, think about it this way - if you get her off so well that she literally says 'that was the best I have ever had' - something I hear often not just from source but from friends of the person, then she is inclined to come back for more. Try and get into your head more and not lose yourself in the moment so much, e.g. think about how good it feels for her when you are going and worry about whether you are doing it right (a tiny bit), not so much that you freak out but enough that you're not 100% focused on your own pleasure.

Short of that - get a f buddy and practice or use condoms that delay ejac.

IT IS DEFINITELY NOT OK TO NOT WARN HER YOU ARE GOING TO BLOW. Girls need that warning to decide what they want you to do with it, even if they are on birth control, it is not 100% effective, they still get a tiny bit of doubt in their minds, and she would have known if you'd came the first time, they can feel the pressure of the load inside.

You have to go down on them to achieve this, unless they have issues with it - e.g. some girls have been told by ex partners stuff that f's them up in the head like "you smell down there" or whatever. If she's ok with it, do it.

Agree with above, clitoral stimulation is the best way to get a woman to come, then penetrative.

Men are completely different from women in terms of what they need to be aroused. Men generally just need a visual stimulus, or someone to barely touch them to get aroused. Women need the build up and teasing to full reach a state of arousal - imagine her arousal state like you would an esclation ladder (google/youtube gambers escalation ladder if you don't know what this is), build from 1 - 100 in your mind of how aroused you would be by the things you are doing, don't go straight for 100, start at 1 by nibbling her earlobes, then move up e.g. 20 is running your hands all over her body, 40 is kissing her naval, 60 is biting the inside of her legs, 80 is using your fingers on her lips, 90 is using your fingers/tounge on her clit, and 100 is total orgasm.

Hope this helps,

Jake