I've only had 4 one-night stands, or some more like attempts-at-one-night-stands. 1 of them I wasn't attracted enough to the girl to get erect so we never had vaginal sex, 1 I had too much anxiety to go through with vaginal sex even though I was erect (I had LMR), 1 I was erect but quickly went flaccid once putting it in her yet I was still able to do her flaccid so I did, and 1 I was erect but went flaccid several times and had to keep re-erecting and re-inserting.

3 of those girls def wanted to hook up with me again. They initiated the text to me saying so! WTF!?! The other 1 had a fiance and lived in a different state, so idk if she would have hooked up with me again or not (she was the one I had LMR on).

I don't consider myself to have been much of a stud with any of these girls, nor would I think there to be much attachment to me since they were all one-night stands, so we didn't spend a great deal of time together.

Has this happened to anyone else, you were a lame lay yet the girl still wanted to hook up with you? What are the potential reasons for this?!?

a lot of times if you can't stay hard the girl thinks its something she did, she gets self-concious and thinks about what it could have been, then they decide they want another go at making you cum.