| Sup guys.
Decided to write a LR for the skeptics out there.
Last night I went with 2 mates to a club, there was alcohol involved, so my game probably wasn't too good.
They both dont know PUA, they know 'winging' though.
I did some warming up with lame chinese (no offense/generalisation) that didnt speak my language and I didn't want to bother gaming them non verbal etc. cause I had no idea wtf was going on.
2nd set, almost instant blowoff, all I did was say hi. My mate then told me I shhouldnt try to force it as hard as I was doing. Told him to relax as it was working.
Approached a new girl, she wasn't too hot, layed her though (alcohol isn't good for your view on the world).
Conversation went like this:
Me: Sup?
her: Hey, I'm fine, wbu?
me: Fine, where are you sleeping tonight (keeping eye contact)
her: Excuse me?
me: I said, where are you sleeping tonight?
her: At my place, why?
me: Wanna come with me? (Still keeping eye contact)
*silence*
At this point she just looked around. She asked for my age, told her my age, asked her age.
Turns out she is 5 year older than I was and she made a fuss about it.
I was fine, told her age is just a number and it doesnt matter.
She kept telling me we wouldn't get it on.
I was like: Just keep trying, persistance is attractive, escalation is attractive, eye contact is attractive so I'm fine. She kept shit testing me on age and that I was to young, ignored it all.
I asked her if she wanted to go outside for a sec with me, she was like fine.
Bouncer got pissed (you wont go outside blabla).
So I just walked back, psuhed her against wall and made out for 5 sec.
Told her "I usually dont make out in clubs. Lets go back to my place".
"Hmm, sure, but I got to get my coat from my friends. I wont tell them I'm going with you, only that I'm leaving."
Fine, she went to her friends, got her coat. When they saw me they all started laughing, god knows why, probably because I was way younger and looked younger than her. Outside she starts talking with friends again (wtf is up with that, she basicly knew everyone.) I introduce myself to her friends and tell the girl we should get going.
She agrees and we leave.
I wrote this for you guys because:
I wanted to share that you don't need a fancy opener
Dont need to talk for hours to get laid (in clubgame)
Persistence and escalation are attractive
If you get verbally rejected It's not always over, read the situation.
The only IoI you need is that she is standing in front of you and talking with you.
Peace out.
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