| So here's the story of my first time on Thursday. I'm in first year in college and am 19. I met the girl 2 weeks ago and went out with her for the first time 1 week ago. I think I've made pretty good progress considering! Before you read about how I got on I'd like to say thanks to all of you guys, I couldn't have done it without your help. I realise I've just past 100 posts (I have now idea what my first 99 were about) but now I can safely consider myself a member of this forum!
I started off by going to her house and kissing her as soon as she answered the door, she was having a mini house party so I spend most of the time there joking with her friends but every time I got a moment alone with her we would kiss again. All in all pretty good at the house. There was some pretty heavy drinking, I was the only guy so they tried to keep up with me, disastrously. I actually had to carry her drunk friend into town over my shoulder (It was either that or let them both go home!!). Once we got to the club we just left the friend to her own devices and found a couch, we were only there for about 10 minutes before I asked her to come home with me, she said maybe so I just kissed her again until she said yes.
It took us about 20 minutes to get back to my house (longest 20 minutes of my life!). Once we were there we went straight to my room and started to undress each other. Once we were both naked and on the bed she blindsided me with this: "I'm on my period"
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!!
I was pissed off so I just flicked my very very erect penis and said "what the hell am I going to do with this?"
She had her solutions, first she tried a handjob (she didn't know what the hell she was doing) then she gave me some head (she didn't know what the hell she was doing then either). She tried just sitting on top of me and grinding but she was still wearing this lacey underwear. I've never had anyone sandpaper my cock but I imagine that's what it would feel like. In the end I just pushed her off, we continued kissing but I was clearly annoyed. Then she just said "Beast, fuck me." Needless to say the "period" excuse will never work on me again because there was nothing wrong. After that we had sex.
The condom was another problem. It was really tight, painfully tight. There must be different sizes or something or else I give up on sex. I actually had problems telling when I was inside her because there was always a feeling of tension on my cock. We had sex anyway, first missionary then her on top but then back to missionary. I don't know if it was the alcohol in my system but I didn't have any problems with coming early, we were going for ages and she was clearly enjoying it (more than me). All I wanted to do was take the condom off so after a few minutes I just picked up the pace, I really had to lean into it to get it done. After that we kissed again and she snuggled up to me she said.
Her: "I wish I could see your face."
Me: "I'm smiling."
Her: "How does it feel?"
Me: "What?"
Her: "You just took my virginity."
Me: "Pretty good, it was better than a kick in the head."
We both laughed.
I am happy that I had a virgin for my first time but god I never want to fuck a virgin again. She said she didn't believe I was a virgin, which I suppose makes sense. I at least pretended to know what I was doing. I will have sex with her again though (we agreed to be exclusive) and it can only get better from here. We'll probably have sex again tomorrow night and I plan to me much tougher on what I want her to do.
Anyway, she pretty much fell asleep straight away but I was still awake thinking. I didn't really feel any different to how I felt before. I had expected the heavens to open, a chorus of angels to erupt into song and God himself to descend on a chariot of fire just to shake my hand. But that's not what happened. I just felt a little tired, a little satisfied and a little annoyed. The first thing I did was get up and smoke a cigar that I had been saving. What I did next may sound weird, I cleaned my room. It was a mess and I just figured she'll wake up and see that I live like a pig, I guess everyone just has there different ways of dealing with the shock of a life changing event. At about 4.30 her drunk friend called again, it turns out she was supposed to stay at my girl's house that night and she was locked out. We both got up and I walked her home, I kissed her goodnight and that was it. I saw her the next morning and we spent about 2 hours together. She was pretty affectionate with me and I was happy with that at least, she is a very special girl.
So, what do you guys think? how does that measure up to any of your own experiences? did I do good, bad? Should I not have been so annoyed? Well anyway, virginity is gone and I can at least look forward to more sex in the future. _________________ Now, bring me that horizon!
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