I hope this helps some guys out for how to lay down a perfect D1 or D2 (whichever is the right "D" in this situation).

I met this girl HB7 online, and I won't say which web site it was, but I do have a pretty tight system for maximizing value on this particular site. I will post a "strategy guide" when I have time to put it together because I have found that the results from this particular site are ALWAYS fantastic.

Let's just say the girls I meet on here, when I do have proven to be 100% nymphomaniacs and there is a specific reason for it, which I will share elsewhere.

To be honest, I cannot remember any of the online banter we had. If it was noteworthy I would be able to remember and share without looking it up. Basically it was a bunch of cocky-funny, never negative, and flirty.

I wasn't extremely interested in this girl yet we planned a date. I ended up having to cancel our first date but we re-scheduled for the middle of the week. When the day arrived, I was kind of in the middle of a "dating spree" — where I would line up a bunch of dates all close together of girls I had met, and then see where each one goes, and NEXT the ones who don't make the cut.

By the time it came to actually meet HB7 I was pretty fucking "dated out."

I JUST HAD lunch with a girl who I have been trying to crack open (her personality shell) for more than a few weeks, who finally got on my nerves enough that I had to "kick her off the Rock of Love Bus" and give her the NEXT as I had no connection with her.

I was in a bad mood and just wanted to go home and take a break from meeting women for a few days.

Anyway, I finally made up my mind that I wasn't going to cancel on this girl twice.

Even 10 minutes before I was to meet her, I found myself pissed off and in a bad mood from various things.

SO… I had to change my mind-state. My method of doing it is to repeat the words of Tom Cruise in "Magnolia" — RESPECT THE COCK…

I thought I was running a few minutes late at one point — "The Alpha Male doesn't give a fuck if he is running late — she just needs to RESPECT THE COCK!"

I cannot to this day say the phrase "RESPECT THE COCK" without laughing my ass off. I am laughing as I type this shit. It is impossible for me to hear that without laughing so it puts me RIGHT INTO the positive frame of mind I need in an INSTANT.

So this girl was very compliant with me, in letting me choose the turf for this evening's game. We were meeting in my local bar haunt, where I have been a regular for the last EIGHTEEN years — so it stands to reason I always know people down there, and I have eaten at every restaurant at least once, been to every bar, including the hidden side-alley bars, and know every little nook and cranny suitable for a quick duck-out and makeout session (or more so should she choose).

THIS is what I am talking about when it comes to the "Home Field Advantage."

I have found that when meeting a girl, and she does not live close to the city — she will try and find "neutral ground" for a first meet. I am very knowledgeable about the city and surrounding areas so I always find good places to take girls wherever I am. Being an explorer by nature just means I am always going to find the fun shit to do, even if I am in some 3rd world cesspit.

I always say to any girl who seems like she won't be compliant in coming to play on my home field — "Well, if you come down to ________ I can guarantee you will have a good time — otherwise all I can say is you will PROBABLY have a good time, but I make no guarantees."

It just shows that I am confident in being able to show a girl a good time wherever we go without saying so much. Since THIS girl was compliant I did not have to use that line on her.

The particular neighborhood I have chosen is one where EVERYTHING is walking distance one you have parked. There are tons of coffee shops, bars, restaurants, shops, theaters, shows, there is literally something for EVERY type of personality and interest in this neighborhood and I know all of the spots.

My technique for my "standard multi-venue time warp" is to have the girl meet me at the coffee shop, because — as I put it — "Who wants to be the first one to show up at a restaurant and sit there waiting for the other to show up!"

Girls always appreciate that, because you are basically saying you are looking out for them and not wanting them to feel uncomfortable. I cannot stand waiting for a girl at a restaurant by myself. You never know what is going to happen, which brings me to the next part of our date.

So, HB7 calls me and says she can't find a parking space (the neighborhood was hopping that night). I told her "I tried to stop them leaking to the press that I was going to be down here tonight, I am so sorry about this — just come pick me up and I'll show you the 'last resort' parking lot" — which further demonstrates a little DHV since I know the neighborhood like the back of my hand.

I was still talking to her, directing her to where I was, and people I know kept coming up to say hello or "HEY!" while I am on the phone with her — to which she says — "HOLY SHIT DUDE, you weren't kidding! How many friends do you have down here???"

So I guide her to myself and jump in her car, scaring her a little but playful — and say "HI!"

So we laugh a little bit and she is apologizing to me for making this evening so difficult so this was a good time to drop "Well, I guess the first round is on YOU tonight then!"

I always look for an opportunity to throw out this neg, which ALWAYS works, for a couple reasons. First, it is funny and cocky. Secondly, it establishes that you are not a man who is just going to sit there and pay for EVERYTHING while the girl sits back and contributes nothing.

I find this ONE LINE works great because it avoids that uncomfortable situation where a girl wants to buy a round or whatever but the man feels like he should pay etc.

I've used that line in conversation — TOTALLY FORGOTTEN ABOUT IT — and then later on when we are out for drinks and I go to pull out my wallet have the girl say "NO NO NO… Remember… This round is on ME RIGHT!!!"

"RIGHT ON. I totally forgot about that!"

So — I end up having her park right next to me (parking was so bad I was stuck in the last resort parking lot myself).

We get out of the car and I say "Well, I think we can skip the coffee part now! Let's just go HERE (pointing to a small little dive corner bar right across the street)." She says "Hell yeah, we can just wing it from here."

So we go to the bar, and she buys the first round no problem. We are talking and she seems really fun. I learned something new from her over the next few minutes and that is, when I am with a girl on a date and we go to sit at a bar — instead of sitting at a little table where we can sit across from each other face to face, I am going to instead lead her to bar stools at the bar.

Why?

Well, in this case — it was a great opportunity to observe body language and kino escalate quicker.

I was sitting 90 degrees to her, using the arm on her side to hold my drink (the blocker) and turning my head 90 degrees to talk to her and listen. She started complaining about something with her job and when she paused I simply smiled and said "Yeah, work sucks but we can talk about something else now!"

She replied "Yes we can!" with a big smile and then turns 90 degrees to face me, putting her feet up on my bar stool.

We chat more, about fun stuff, and getting to know each other more. There was playful kino like both of us reaching for a glass at the same time, or a playful push or whatever — basically she is already facing me and we are just pretending to come up with reasons to touch each other playfully without being direct (but knowing full well what each other was doing).

We drink 2 beers and bounce to go get some dinner.

My multi-venue time warp date consists of — Coffee Shop (to meet, and maybe talk some), Dinner (usually at my favorite restaurant), and then Bars (based on what I think she would find unique or fun).

So we walk all the way down the neighborhood to my favorite restaurant which is closed. We saw a couple of my friends on the way which gave me some DHV — she is already complimenting me on my knowledge of the city because I've lived here half as long as her and know 100x more about it.

I say "no worries, we will go to _____ instead" — another restaurant perfect for what we were up to and unique.

We get to restaurant number 2 and they were about to close but let us in for their last business of the night — which meant we had the whole place to ourselves.

She LOVED it, AND she paid for dinner too and FOUGHT ME on that shit!

So from there, I am pretty sure we were holding hands some on the way to food, and what not so I knew where I was taking her for bounce #3 — the "makeout pit"

There is a bar with a VERY distinct decor, very fucking fun little place. They have all kinds of unique seating, including this "PIT" in the back dug into the ground with a round couch at the bottom, big enough for 2-4 people to sit in. I call it the "makeout pit"

She has no idea about this place so I buy drinks and we go to the back and I say "OK, come down here into the makeout pit with me. But I am telling you now, I don't make the girl put the lotion in the basket until the 3rd date."

The lotion in the basket reference is from the movie "Silence of the Lambs" if you do not know — and I shit you not that line (the lotion in the basket) CRACKS THEM UP HARD. They LOVE IT. It works 90% of the time. It won't work if the girl never saw the movie, but very few people have NOT seen the movie.

So anyway, after she is done laughing hysterically and we are in the makeout pit, talking talking blah blah blah… She said something about something being "very interesting to her" and I said — well, "I can show you what interests me right now" (paraphrased) and move in for the kiss.

We kiss for awhile, and she is very into it. At some point she looks at me and says "The first time we do it, you are going to make me come like THAT!" and snaps her fingers in tandem.

So at this point it is just a matter of seeing how fast we can make that happen.

We have one beer and I say "I want to show you something that nobody down here even knows about…" and we get out of there.

We go for a walk and it is cold out now, so I am rubbing her arms and keeping close. I take her down to this hidden makeout spot on a wacky hidden pier thing 20 feet above the river over the water, hidden behind a bunch of trees — with a spectacular view.

I guess you could call it "fingerbang point" if it needed a name. It is the perfect place to take a girl you need to escalate with.

We are not there very long, before we are in each other's pants and it has come to the point of "we need to find a better place than this" — at which point she says "If I were only wearing a skirt instead this would be perfect!"

So we get back to the vehicles, and we are looking at each other wondering what we are going to do — she opens the door of her car and drags me into the back seat with her, and it wasn't more than 5 minutes before we are having the most wild high school crazy danger sex I've had in years.

I guess the whole prospect of a cop coming up to flash his lights in the window made it much more fun.

We have since met for another night-long marathon and will probably continue to do so for some time. I have no sense this girl could ever get boring.

So, to sum it up — I have used the same multi-venue routine successfully so many times that as soon as I know I have a girl meeting me on my home turf it is an almost guaranteed lay unless I don't like her (if it was someone I met online who doesn't represent her photos let's just say).

It works for a number of reasons. It works because you can walk everywhere and build comfort. Going to 3 or more venues and WALKING between them creates a BIG time warp in her head, so by the end of the night you have all these crazy experiences together you can "talk about" as if you have been on 3 or 4 dates. Mystery talks about this quite a bit in his research.

Being on your home turf invites people you know to pop up and say hi at random which gives you DHV all over the place. And, being knowledgable about something like a neighborhood gives you confidence and impresses the shit out of her, especially when you show her something COMPLETELY unique or new.

Now, I know I did everything by the book because when we were finished she told me "You know mister — I was going to make you wait for a few dates before giving up the goods, that's why I didn't even wear sexy underwear for you! But you totally SEDUCED me the way no man has ever come close!"

And we are having the most awesome sex right now that frankly, I had no idea THAT was going to come out of THIS GIRL! But those are always the best ones.

I could post several LRs that sound pretty much like this one because of the "Home Field Advantage."

That place is pure MAGIC. You need to find one of your own if there is one in your town!

She was telling me the other day that when she told her friends "Yeah, he had me climbing over this chain link fence..." to which her friends said "HOLY SHIT, he must have been a GOOD ONE!"