OK, So, Here's the deal.

This blonde chick texted me from a meeting group that I used to go to regularly, but have I stopped going to it because it was lame.
she's an 8 and the meeting group guys are could rather be girls, total AFCs. She says that It's the end of term party in our local bar and the group are all there. asking if I was gonna go?! . I played it cool, like it's no big deal. This was to make her try harder for getting me to react to her, hence start supplicating to me. Well played, my trick worked! then she kept sending my playful full of IOI text until I agreed to give it a shot. But of course only for a minute (FTC). now I get there, go right to their table, pinch her on the shoulder as my greeting, and go to get myself a drink. I come back start working the whole set (the table) consisting of her, two other guys and a fatty (these people all know me from work, so I cat make out with her at the table). So I throw a couple of routines (I'm moving to this house with four girls....), (tattoos on girls...) Standard opinion oppeners. And then she disappears and sends me this really forward text:

"
I'm distraught. I
need you to love me.
Phisically, emotionally
and wildly. Xxx xxx
"

and she comes back to the table.
Now The question is, Is she really that interested/desperate because she might not be able to see me again. or she's just teasing for shits and giggles?!

If it was in a club, (no strings attached) I would totally flip the script (turn the tables) make it like she's hitting on me and pull back, for her to qualify. BUT , this girl studies in the same department as my Girlfriend. And she know's that we're together.
So, I decided to ping for some more IOIs before I make a move so that if it's a cock-tease I won't make a stupid move and word would spread around (small town).
So I try touching her hair, suggesting she should get them done in dreadlocks (obviously fucking around). and throw a DHV routine (have you done any acting, you have an expressive face, my ex was this Russian chick who wanted to be actress, but she could only model/dance in music videos because she had this expressionless, proper Russian face ).

SHOKINGLY!

she didn't respond with an IOI, as though no text have been going around all this time!!! I finally decided too much bullshit for too much risk => ejected set, went home and fuckd my GF. hahahah

Now, I want to know a way to recognise if a girl is cock-teasing you just because she's an attention whore. or she's genuinely interested and I should keep escalating.



please if you think I have fucked up somewhere in the pickup, post with freedom!
I'm eager to learn from my mistakes. so feel free to bombard me with ideas, lol

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Sounds like she was baiting you.

It's a Trap!11!!!11 -some star wars guy

i would of done the same thing go home and fuck my gf.

But what i would of done differently was isolate her

so its just me and her only and no ones nearby (so she feels comfortable)

and i would of opened my phone up and shown her the text and not say anything (and smile & laugh a little).

That way you cut the bullshit and see if shes for real or not by letting her answer for her action

Thats just me but you did the right thing too so well played

Soncheese x

Thanks for you replies but look at it this way:
So, here’s what I think is going on in the girl’s head:

Imagine you were the 8+HB, and there was this Magic word that you could use to turn almost any masculine (manly) man ONNN, almost like a spell. Guess what ?!
That’s pretty much how it works for the chick. Because she gets a lot of preconceived value basically because she’s HOT and she knows that. She also knows that she can turn any guy ON giving a few IOIs almost instantly.

How does she know that?

Good Question!

She knows that because it’s happened to her so many times in real-life situations. In fact in happens to her ALL the fucking time! lol, (guys who have seen girls getting drinks from AFCs in bars know what I mean)
Just like the fact that We as PUAs don’t buy girls drinks, because we know it kills attraction. We as humans learn from our reference experiences!


Now WHY would she use this ability in order to tease a guy, instead of actually sleeping with him??!!
Isn’t it true that girls ENJOY sex more than US? Her clit on its own has 10 times
more nerve endings than anything that a guy has down there!

Well, it could be one of the two cases below:

Case 1:

She’s a gold digger and she wants to get Drinks/Money/borrow your car/ get free
services from you that you wouldn’t normally do for her if sex isn’t on the table. For
example: get you to organize her birthday party, get you to get you to help her with
her presentation….

Case 2:

She might be an ATTENTION WHORE, and wants to get instant gratification from
you. This cold be any form of reaction from your side which will give her an ego boost and reassure her that she’s sexy and attractive. (NOT THAT SHE’S ATTRACTED TO YOU)
she want’s to feel sexy and sought-after.
She wants you to pay attention to her,
(a lot of this is subconscious – so you won’t normally notice you’re doing it (Where are your eyes focused? ON HER)).
For example: she wants you to pay more attention to her in the social situation that
you’re in,
she want’s you to react to her, like she’s got more social value than you.
And believe me girls DO THIS ALL THE FUCKING TIME. That’s why they doll up
to go out with their chick friends most of the time. If they don’t end up hooking up
with someone they don’t care they like the attention that they get from the club guys.



Now, What should you do in this situation to turn the tables in your favour?
Here’s what I think:

Remember the good old cat string theory [basically if you have a piece of string,
if throw it in front of your cat, she will look at it like an idiot for two seconds and loose interest immediately; However, if you keep it 5cm from her nose, wait for her to get curious and then move it 10cm and then 10cm again, she will follow it, but if you move it 1 m then that’s too much investment too early on, so she’ll not be bothered. Now if you play it right you can get her so interested that you can even take it on the wall and the cat will be jumping all over the room]

If you ignore her when she’s trying to be cock-tease, it will start violating her reality (that why you’re not interested??!! , she used the spell!, why didn’t work?! Are you different from all the other guys that go for the trick?! , isn’t she sexy enough?!) I don’t mean ignore her like you’re a brick wall, but wait for her to try harder to get your reaction, don’t just give it to her, and when she does try, then reward her with an IOI, if she acts bitchy, then punish her with IOD.

This way she will get more attracted to you and her plan to get you supplicating to her backfires and now you’re the prize!!! If you then build enough comfort and NOT fuck it up later, you can take her home and BANG the shit out of her!


I Think this is an effective strategy, However, Give me your opinion on this if you think this sucks, then why? I want to get this areal of the game HANDELED for once and for all.

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