I had a house party last weekend, nothing too big, just 8 or 9 of my close friends hanging out on my back porch drinking. I invited this girl I've known for years, pretty good friend of mine, who I've wanted to get with for a while but she's had a BF.

Except they broke up a few weeks ago

So she gets there, we've already been drinking quite a bit and I get up and give her a hug and a beer, sit back down and resume my conversation with the other people there. I don't really do any verbal attraction building or routines (maybe a little teasing, but I always tease everyone all the time) but I play the eye game.

Any time we lock eyes I keep contact until she looks away, anytime I'm talking to her (which now that I'm thinking about it, wasn't that much, I was having a lot more fun talking to everyone else) I'm doing the triangular gaze. When I walk past I'll poke her in the stomach or flick her hair when I walk by.

Then when I get up one of my friends takes my seat, so I just go and sit down on her and lean back like I'm in a recliner, and she starts playing with my hair, so I'm like

I let her get up to grab a beer, she comes and sits back down on my lap even though there's chairs open now, shes grabbing my hands a wrapping them around her and I guess doing what 60 calls hand caressing, so we sit out there for a little while longer, probably a half hour and she's on my lap rubbing my legs and stuff the whole time. Everyone gets up to go to bed (except one friend who passed out in the chair, lol) and she just looks at me and I say we can go inside and hang out in my room if she wants, she says ok and we go inside.

Walk in my room, go right to the bed and start making out, leads to the wildest night of sex in my life. This girl is like the nicest sweetest girl ever, I never expected her to be this much of a freak in bed.

So, I don't know if it was mainly because I've known her for a while, but this is definitely proof that a (pretty much) purely physical approach can work.

Great report man, its always the quiet, nice girls who are the biggest freaks in bed haha.

Update: She told me she doesn't want anything serious considering we're both moving within the next year, so she wants to keep it casual. So I guess I got a friends with benefits situation out of this, which is always great.

if your going the friends with benefits route with an actual friend then I warn you!! no sleeping over after sex or at least keep it to once a week, won't be long before you or her start getting jealous around others..... (speaking from experience)