The story is pretty long so I'll just get to the part where I failed. I couldn't get hard? seriously wtf almost 22 and i have ED starting last night.

Details: Desperately decided to hook up with a girl who is friends with some of the girls I went out with, mostly did it so my friend could hook up with one of her room mates. She was a heavier girl but like I said I was desperate to be with another girl since I left my girlfriend just so I could have sex and be over my ex. by the time we got down to business maybe 2 hours after I saw her at the club. By the time I got comfortable with her it didn't take much to get her going. All I can saw is "wet" is an understatement. She loved me kissing all over her and wanted it so bad, so I decided to make her want it even more but going down on the girl. After a while I really wanted to bang her and have the hardcore sex that i haven't had in a while, but this is when I realized I couldn't get hard.

So I gave up shortly after. I Kissed her some more and she got dressed and then I did. I then had to explain to her that I have anxiety sleeping in other peoples beds and that I just wanted to go home, she was kind of disappointed but i really wanted to get home so I left.

I texted her earlier today asking how work was she said "It's pretty alright lol" and I said "lol that's good" and thats it. story over.

I told pretty much all my friends about it even my friends that are girls and they were all pretty supportive about it, saying that it happens and its okay. I have a lot of theories as to why it happend:
1. I wasn't emotionally attracted to her, I just wanted the sex.
2. I wasn't too physically attracted to her
3. If she wasn't moaning from me playing with her she just laid there looking at me with a "?" on her face.
4. She didn't even touch me or try to help me get it up

5. Was nervous about it going into a first SNL scenario
6. and the final theory that people have mentioned is that in my subconscious i was thinking about my ex which prevented it from happening.

Will this happen again?
and when I see her again how is she and how am i going to react?
Was my ED a one time thing?
Is this going to affect me in the future having this in the back of my mind?
What if I want to try it with her again?(which I kind of want to prove to her that I could have fucked the shit out of her)

Thanks for anyone who took the time to read this and attempt to offer advice.

Side note to anyone who has read The Game, The way I hear this post in my head when I read it makes me feel like its something Extramask would post.

Find yourself a new girlfriend you are affectionate too and see if your little friend will react better in bed.

Well I really dont want a girlfriend. Right now I just want to be a man whore but how can I do that if i know this might be a reoccurring issue?

If this is the first and only time it's happened I wouldn't worry about it. A buddy of mine went through this with his gf and said he thought it was just cuz he was bored with her, but considering this was a SNL I don't think that was the issue.
Maybe because you weren't really that into her? Or nervous. It happens to a lot of people man, nothing to worry about unless it becoming a consistent thing.

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Thanks Sparroww, yeah there was so many variables that it could be any number of things. I suppose I'll just have to get back out there and try it again. I actually have been texting her, I'm wondering if one of these days I can try and get with her again and prove that I can **** her brains out

You mentioned a couple of reasons. I think 2 or 3 of them are more than enough for it to happen. As everyone else have already said, if it is a one-timer, don't bother it.

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Your ultimate goal of gaming girls to find one suitable to be your girlfriend, not to show off and fuck hot women. You want the power to seduce and interact with hot women, but you will get to the point where you just want someone to settle with. "I rather fuck a girl twenty thousand times than twenty thousand different women."

My goal is the opposite, I want to be with many women, I've never had that option in my life this far. You're right maybe the "ultimate" goal is to find someone to settle down with but, settling down is not what I'm looking for now.