1. told her that her ex (afc) bf cheated on her with my ex while my ex and i were on a break (which was actually true, so why not use his mistake to my advantage) and acted completely surprised that she didnt already know.
2. i noticed early on that she was very high on herself and loved to be in control, so i negged her often and froze her out alot while we were in bed, (i even pissed her off on purpose once so that she would freeze me out, once she rolled over and was facing the other way i started to kiss her neck, bite /suck her ear lobes and breathe deeply into her ear and well u know what happened next. I've found that when used correctly freezing out can be extremely effective, its amazing how something so simple can create such a reaction.)
3. she opened up to me about her sex life with her ex which from what she described, seemed like the typical afc way of having sex (selfishly), so having that bit of information worked in my favor, i knew i could get her hooked on the things she hadn't experienced before.
4. maintained a balance of what i like to call bad guy/good guy
5.disarmed what she claimed was her best friend, an unhealthy afc (which i quickly discovered was really just an orbiter) multiple times

Sounds like you worked the magic well! "The force is strong in this one!" Congrats!

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Good job on it.

Now, the question is, are you giving her more? Or was it a one night stand?

this was was all over a couple nights together, her ex had cheated on her numerous times so it took alot of comfort building, i didnt want to go straight for the f close cause i noticed early on that their was a freak inside her that was just waiting to come out and i knew i was going to want more than a one night stand, so each night i introduced something new to gradually build it up

LOL, Ok, so again, was it a ONS or something more than that?

How much of a freak is in there?