Hey,

I'm reading a bit about one night stands, and it seems that only REALLY good looking guys are the only ones who have them.

I'm not exactly hot stuff, myself, but I'm not ugly either.

I'm not looking for relationships right now, just a hell of a lot of casual encounters.

How do I go about doing this?

Do I have to become a Master PUA? Do I have to read through all material possible until I'm READY for hookups? Do I have to be an experienced PUA to make this all possible?

I was watching the second season of The Pick Up Artist, and Simeon and the other guy seemed to have gone from zero to hero in a manner of weeks before they were hooking up.

So, how do I go about having a one night stand?

What you you guys do to get yourselves laid by anonymous women?

Wrong section maybe...

I went for SNLs for quite some time, but it's hard to give a short an easy advice. I think it has a lot to do with inner game. Especially when you want to avoid to fall in love on your first FC.

Anyway, starting from scratch, I would say that good looks are not so important, while dressing/grooming nicely is. Get some well-fitting shirts, some nice shoes, a good haircut and a manicure. There are a lot of guys that look average to sorta ugly that pull SNLs a lot. Just don't limit your target range to the perfect10.

I think a factor that all ONS experts share is a very confident, open behavior; it's important to show clear sexual interest while not appearing needy right from the start.
Make up some sort of mindset like "I'm going to FC tonight one way or the other, like I did yesterday and the day before yesterday, no problem. And if we both like each other, it will be us, otherwise it will be some other girl, no offense"

Also, try not to allow a feeling like "I'm not attracted to you (target), but I will try to FC you anyway." This incongruency will be apparent to your target. Make your mind up and talk yourself into a frame that you find this girl absolutely stunning, even if it's a HB5. If her body is not tight, just focus on all the insane things she will do for you or you can do to her, because she will be sooo grateful.

A couple of years ago, I was on a tour in Scandinavia with a guy who was like 1.65meter, round belly, slim shoulders. He was virtually eaten alive by the girls, night after night. OK, a lot of HB4-6 amongst then, some cougars, but he beat us all. He was a real lay machine in a sheepskin. He was just having fun, doing what he wanted to do, enjoying himself and being open and friendly and directly interested. It was fascinating.

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Could you, maybe, elaborate more on this fellow you went to Scandinavia with? What was he like, as a person? What sort of things did he do, or act like, that the AFC wouldn't even conceive of? Please elaborate on his "routine" from start to finish? What made him so irresistible?

Also, is it possible to have a one night stand with anyone, at anytime? I don't know if I read this in The Game or not, but apparently Mystery had a one time "fling" with a women he met in a grocery store, and ended up in her apartment across the street.

Lastly, and point me to the correct board for this, but how does one show sexual interest to avoid being friend-zoned? Is the secret all in Kino? Or are there other ways?

I apologize for the rush of comments on your post, but hardly anyone responds to my posts on the General board because its so crowded.

He is a very self-confident, happy, positive person. He loves (yeah right) himself just the way he is, with all his flaws and strengths. And he also tries to see the positive side in everyone.
This alone is a HUGE challenge for many frustrated people I would say. In my opinion, this is a key factor, not only for gaming, but also for being happy in life.

This way he displays HV all the time naturally. So there also is no routine or special set of openers. He is just a piece of driftwood in the club that enjoys itself and he vibes people he runs into in this positive way. That said, you could see him dance with the biggest fattest miss piggy of the club, while he was honestly having fun. Other nice, yet not perfect girls see that and probably go like "hey he does not judge people like all the others do and he gives that girl a good time - I want some, too!"

He usually closed an a HB6-7. Please bear in mind - this whole HB scale is about looks and stuff, but NOT about what you will get during a lay, especially on a SNL! You can go real freaky and have great XXX with a HB6 'cuz she might really be craving for XXX and is motivated to give you the f** of your life.

I personally would not want to copy his approach. But he was happy all the time.

About the rest of the questions, it's probably somewhere in the forum. But I would not go to theoretical. Hit the field!

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hey dude

i do this type of seduction a lot, i call it 'rapid escalation.

i have a blog about it where you can read my LRs, (http://www.rapidescalation.com/) check the 'fast sex stories' section.

otherwise just read any of my same night or same day lays in the LR section on this site

lay-reports-vf23.html

also, most of the stuff you read in the game is bullshit and mental masturbation, i would know.... i did mystery style for a year and the over thinking actually made me worse.

it's not like 'training wheels' that helps you get started, its actually installing shit inner game beliefs deep down like 'you need to tell cool impressive stories to MAKE girls like you' and 'saying just 'hi' is boring you need long ass routines'

that is all bullshit. saying hi with confidence is better than the best routine, and using routines u actually take ur focus away from developing good eye contact and body language. focusing too much on what u say not how u say it.

ull find some stuff in my reports that is pretty balsy (ie putting a girls hand on your boner) but its always calibrated and in context.

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One night stands are hard. I have pulled girls and not slept with them. But thing is, the numbers are solid and is highly likely they wanna hang out again.

I would suggest at least learn how to number close before you can number close. But me and my friends pull a lot and here is the key thing to remember for pull.

1. Do not go for make out!
2. Be a great at talking to women. Yes, your gonna have to game them for couple of hours, so the set needs to hooked early as possible in the night.
3. number close, but don't leave.
4. Is best when the number ratio of guys and girls in set are even. And all of you guys can talk as a group.
5. Need a reason to pull, and needs to be hyped up.
6. You need to bounce them to at least another place before pulling. Most easy place possible is another bar near by.
7.

Not sure if this is going to be a rant or whatever, but I just felt like I needed to get this confusion off my chest.

So, a year or so back, I'm reading my little sister's Cosmo, and I get to the "Embarrassing Sex Stories" section. As I'm reading through, I spot this story where this 23 year old young woman's parents are out of town, so she goes to a club, takes a guy home, and they have sex. I forget the rest of the article, but somehow the parents know she has a guy over and leave.

What irritates me is how easily she just goes out to a club and brings a guy home to have sex with, and then that's it. It was just a casual one night stand. I'm reading through your replies to my initial question, and it would seem that the major consensus is that having a one night stand with a woman is some hard ass work. It seems like you not only have to have a certain type of physical appearance, but have hardcore Game up the wazoo, and you had to have practiced the shit out of it.

For a woman to express how easily she was able to attain a one night stand without very much effort, as she was communicating, sends an unsettling feeling in my gut. I mean, here I am, just starting this whole PUA thing, struggling even to APPROACH a woman, nevertheless TALK to her, trying to grasp the concept of how to have a ONS by googling it and starting forums on here, and reading books and shit about human sexuality just so that I have an IDEA of how to pull off a ONS. Meanwhile, a woman can just go into a club on her own and pull off a ONS whenever she wants to like it was cake walk!!! WTF? How is it so easy for her?

TL;DR: Read a story about how easily a woman can pull off a one night stand, where I'm getting told how hard it is to pull of. Wtf?

If a key opens many locks, it's a master key. If a lock is opened by many keys, it's a shitty lock

@ArrogantPenguin, i hope this answers your question

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I think I know what you mean, but I'm not 100% sure.

Could you just clarify what you mean?

Oh come on…it’s not that hard to understand…
From a genetical standpoint: Creating a kid takes 3min for a man, but 9months for a lady. So ladies have to take good care not to waste time with shitty sperm, and men take every chance they get for breeding.

About ONS: they is a lot of myth about them I think, but they really are not that hard. Just go along your way and don’t freak out. You don't even have to be that good looking or successful or stuff, as you do not have to withstand social acceptance by her friends and family, so if she's horny, and you offer stress-free relief - wham.

Everyone who tells you how hard they are and blah just has not developed enough skill for it.

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