Well, I have to admit I'm not very good to writing these things. Simply, because I don't document my nights with women, but I think this was a good night and I think people can learn something regarding being direct and the right frame here. So, it could get long.. bare with me.

So, I've been hitting the bars every weekend since my break-up and I got a few numbers, but that's another story. This weekend I went to a lounge instead, somehow in my experience lounges almost always have a classier crowd of women as compared to night clubs.

Anyway, the PUA scene in this country is still virtually non-existent, so being a Natural with the added tool of Pick Up Artistry really bodes well when it comes to gaming the women I want.

So, I enter the place and it's full of cigarette smoke, the usual. I spot this hot girl, HB9 standing alone. Go up to her and ask her for a lighter. Tells me she doesn't smoke. I look around, raise my eyebrows and smirk at her and say that in the current environment, she's probably smoking a pack a minute. She laughs. I pull The Cube on here, and that always works wonders. So, I just start asking where she's from, what she does.. making conversation. Tells me, she is waiting for her friends. I say, I'll get a drink and see her in a while. She practically begs me to come see her again.

Go to the bar, get my scotch (yeah, I drink scotch. For some reason, it's the only thing which goes well with me. Beer's for football match viewings with buddies and wine's for fancy dinners, anyway..) and open another two set, HB7 and HB6, asking them about the good places to visit when in Pune. They seem enthusiastic to tell me about every bar in the city.

Thing to be noted is that, you can open with anything, if you have the right frame. I just seemed interested in knowing what they had to say and just like that, I was in.

Anyway, I say my thanks to them, and honestly that was just practice for the big match. So, I walk back to the original girl and she's with her group. Three girls and a guy, besides her.

"Hey, (her name). Remember..."

I just couldn't complete that sentence. One of her friends was.. wow. Easy 10. Long brown hair just falling to her mid-back, great breasts, an ass to die for and she had those legs on a supermodel. AND she was 5'9". In short, I was in love. Or something like that temporarily.

Anyway, here's how it went:

HB10: You should shut your mouth. Some fly might go in!
Don: It's your fault. You took my words away!
HB10: I'm pretty sure that's a line and a bad one at that too.
Don: Now that's just wrong. What's your name again?
HB10: Natasha.
Don: That dress looks great on you, Natasha...as a matter of fact, so would I.

To that everyone groaned.

Don: That was a line. What I said to you was a fact. It wasn't a line. I was just being honest. I thought it was the best policy.
Natasha: Haha. You are cute.

From there the conversation segued into the usual chit-chat about where were we from, what did we do, hobbies, ambitions blah blah. In the meantime, I was escalating with her.

I RECOMMEND everyone get a copy of DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, it's free and very effective when applied.

My original target and the other girl were being good and leaving us alone, which was confusing but well, I wasn't going to complain about it. The guy was just their credit card. I felt bad as a man for him, but if he was fine with that, who am I to complain?

So, at some point, when she was talking about her.. cat(?) or something, I just stared at her for a few..

Natasha: What? Something on my face?
Don:....
Natasha: WHAT IS IT? (Laughing, trying to clean something from her face)

I just held her hand and leaned in.

And kissed her.

So, she was surprised but then, she gave in. Her friends were cat calling and giggling, and the guy was looking at me like I was a God. I guess, the group was won over.

It's amazing that when you've kissed a girl, the change in her body language is staggering. She leaned into me, even held my hand and squeezed it a few times, at some point took my arm and put it around her shoulders, on her own.

So, it was past their usual time or something, they all started to go..

Natasha: We have to go!
Don: I don't want this night to end. I just don't.
Natasha: Say something to me! Make me stay!

I just didn't know how to respond to that at that moment, and well, her friends were calling her. So, she just gave me a sad smile and walked out. I was thinking frantically and then, some crazy idea hit me.. I literally ran out of the bar, and I saw them at about 50 odd meters or so. I was running like hell, people were staring, who cares.

They heard the noise and turned around.. She was shocked as hell, but very pleasantly surprised.

Natasha: What the hell are you doing? Did you run all the way? Why?
Don : Just wanted to tell you that..
Natasha: What?
Don: Patience woman! Let me catch my breath.
Natasha : Haha. Okay.
Don: I want to father your children.
Natasha: Huh?
Don: I. Want. To. Father. Your. Children.
Natasha: I heard that the first time. I don't know what to say.
Don: Just let me take care of you tonight.

She just smiled and gave me a hug and said that she'll be fine through her girl coding. Since, she couldn't take me back to her hostel, I remember protesting why not when I head it was an all girls one. So, we went to this hotel nearby, took a room. She even split that bill.

Had sex with her till the wee hours of the morning. Woke up, ordered room service, showered together and then, dropped her off.

That line I used, it has quite the story behind it. If you're interested, here's the link:

http://www.aarp.org/entertainment/movie ... round.html

Basically, the thing is this : Believe in yourself more than you believe in the material.

You can say anything, and you can get women. You just have to make the right efforts to show them that you are willing to do that extra bit for them. And that, you won't become an annoying, whiny, clingy idiot while doing so. All through that night, I never lost my frame for even a second. And while, my theory of disconnection from the surroundings is very flawed when it comes to making lasting connections with anyone, it actually is a very powerful pick-up tool. But, whatever works for you, make it work. Just remember that be it success or failure, a kiss or a slap, a fuck or a flake, at the end of the day don't let it affect you to a level more than which it should.

Limit the effects of people's words and their actions on your life. Only yours should be the ones that should matter.

Cheers. And Good Luck. [/b]

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Haha, epic

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Go.

Great story, and I loved that line lol.. That was funny I'm going to have to borrow that for 1 night.

Genuine PUA right there ! *HIGH FIVE*!

what the HB 10 said "you shut your mouth or some flies will go in" is directly out of mad men... Very suspicious. Mr. Don Draper you

Really?

Look, man. It's a very common phrase in Hindi, Indians say it all the time.

Don't chalk up everything to TV shows, being too meta isn't all that fun.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

pfft people use movie quotes all the time, it's also a subtle way to see peoples taste in films etc etc, it's also like canned routines/phrases

Also Don my brother has slept with the women mentioned in that link, he has slept with a few others and is a personal hero of mine, I hardly get to see him though as he is a bit of a socialite and I prefer to do my own thing and not ride coat tails.

where are you from Don?

I really enjoyed reading this, though I was really confused when I read "I want to father your children" line.

Keep it up!

Can you also elaborate more on the disconnection from the surroundings?

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Ah it makes sense now. I just thought it was interesting because I just watched that particular episode and your name happens to be Don Draper.

I'm from India. Somewhat Indian myself.

Well, that line was just to signal my intent, that she was not just another one night stand, and well, it was a more Hail Mary, less thought out message.

It did work well, though. In retrospect.

As for disconnection, it is not something I recommend. It's more like this that : you have to have confidence in yourself, while simultaneously accepting that it could just as easily have been some other guy.

To not attach a value to things more than they deserve, preferably lesser. When you don't "feel" so much about rejections or successes, you stop worrying about the consequences of her words or yours. You just say what you have to and move on, if things do not go your way. Because if there is a chance that night, this was not it. It also doesn't mean there are no other chances that night, because they always are.

But, then you'll lose the ability to be deeply connected to someone. You can't do both simultaneously. So, that's the pros and cons.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Thanks.

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I like the line. When she asked you to say something, you were put into a tough spot. It couldn't be a plea or cliché, and it had to be original and unexpected. That line really surprised you and made you unique.

And I like the technique for a kiss, simple and effective, I'll be using that.