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I had a DTF flake tonight. And had one flake last night. (Two separate girls.) The exact same pattern is happening: hot and heavy, but when it comes to coming back to my place they'll say "Yes, absolutely" and then ten minutes later flake. (Normally using the excuse "It would be irresponsible".)
Any idea what I'm doing wrong? (I'm tempted to say not building enough attraction, but I can tell that I am.) Is this just the risk you run when you start trying to meet girls and turn them into DTFs on the same night?
Attraction, yes. But comfort?
They need the assurance that your not a crazed psychopath, that's going to chain them to a pipe in your basement.
She also needs to rationalize she is not going with your to get get guts banged out, although that 'could' happen.
CHAT