| hey guys this one's gonna be spicy. hold on tight. get your tissue box.
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It began yesterday, in the afternoon walking around the Arndale (shopping centre in central Manchester) doing daygame with the Saturday Sarge crew. As Shantanu Pdmnbn & I turned round a corner, i locked eyes with a familiar looking blonde girl. As i did so, she ran towards me & jumped into my arms. How romantic, don't you think? Just you wait.
It was my friend Anna, from Freiburg in Germany. She was at the Uni for about 3 months & we met at the German Society. She went home to Germany but told me few weeks ago that she'd be back for a short trip, but wasn't gonna tell me when. "It'll be a surprise," she said. I like surprises.
So back to the scene at the Arndale. We talk for a bit & she tells me to go dinner with her & her friend tonight. I say i can't as I've got to revise for exams. But we say we'll hang out sometime, then i left. The whole time i'm subcommunicating i.e using body language, eye contact etc. that i wanna fuck her brains out. Declining her invitation proved to be important in the grand scheme of things.
As they say, "Attraction is created in the push." - Every single PUA on the planet.
So later walking round i got bored so i called her and asked her to meet me tonight (Pull). She then says, she can't. but asks me to come for dinner again. I once again decline (Push). by saying i need to revise again, it shows i'm not needy. Later in the evening, when i'm home, she texts me asking me for dinner again. I decline (Push), but tell her i'm free at midnight (Pull). She tries to get me out again over another text, but i tell her when i'm free & stick to it - Set the fucking frame & Always Be Leading.
Push/pull is fucking important, it creates so much attraction, even desire. As attraction is created in the push, the pull is what amplifies it. Push/pull is also called fractionation, an NLP concept which states that any feeling or state will be magnified when someone is made to feel it & then subsequently taken out of this state or feeling repeatedly. This flows nicely into the concept of Duality, which Jake can explain much better.
At 11pm, i get a text from Anna saying that she's not doing anything tonight & that she could come over to mine for a bit. I tell her, Sure cya at midnight. So she comes over, and we chat for a bit to build some comfort. I try to kino escalate but it wasn't going anywhere. The awesome kino technique of tickling wasn't working; she wasn't ticklish! I soon realised that there was too much comfort chat, so i fractionate. How? I tell her, "Lets go get food."
As we walk outta my building, i take her hand. Kino, voila! In the middle of the square (there's a square in my accomodation campus) i spin her around, draw her in, then move away & continue walking towards the food place. More push/pull.
As we get into the place to get food, she picks up on the fact that i know everyone working there. Social proof, its called.
"Women look at behavioural cues. As such, they read your subcommunications; they look at how you react to others & how others react to you." - Tyler Durden in the Blueprint Decoded.
We go back to mine & eat while watching a movie on my bed. She then leans into me & puts my arm around her. Aww, how cute. We continue watching the movie. She says she's sleepy, so i turn off the movie & say, "I'll show you a new dance move quickly." So i do, and pull her in & go for the k-close. I hit resistance. She says she's not drunk enough.
She then gets onto my bed & we spoon. As Tom Torero once told me, "Listen to her actions, never her words. Rule for life." I start kissing her ear, she starts sighing. I move her hair, and move to her neck. No resistance. As i'm doing this, i slide my hand under her shirt. No resistance. After awhile, i turn her head towards me & we make-out. Passionately. Me grabbing her hair, and her shoving my face into hers as we grind slowly.
Then i pull away, roll over & stop everything. I literally just stop.
This is Physical push/pull - Final stage of the Seduction Phase of the Daygame Blueprint Model.
For Mystery Method fans, this is similar to a freeze-out in S2 of the Mystery Method - minus the Last-Minute Resistance (LMR).
As soon as i did this, it was game over.
We fucked hard for hours. This girl was like a pornstar; the way she moved & moaned screamed sexuality. Above the sounds of frenzied passion, i heard the springs in my bed pop. So much for a good night's sleep tonight.
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Shane, Executive Instructor for Social Zen.
socialzen.co.uk
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