I used to be friends with this HB9 for the longest time. we were really close and i liked her but i just couldn't make a move. But i stopped talking to her starting around 6 months ago, and i just got ripped and brolic as fuck. Became even more of an asshole than i already was, and i saw her at a party 2 nights ago. She looked fucking great. IMO a hotter version of amber heard.

Anyway, we spent a good amount of the night together, but when we weren't together i was hooking up with some other chick (don't think she knew tho). Regardless, we went back to my house with my bro and a girl were all friends with, we then did some shit and everyone seemed ready for bed. I said, "i'm not pulling anything, but were sleeping in my bed and they're sleeping in the guest bed." she was fine with that.

I went to the bathroom and got ready for bed. went back into my room, got into bed and she basically jumped me, i then took control and fucked the shit out of her until 4 am. then we passed out and i woke up the next morning to go take a test for one of my classes.

The reason i posted this lay report was because i had been best friends with this chick for 4 YEARS, and i still was able to make it happen by following some basic game principles and getting fucking ripped. If anyone has any questions on specifics of breaking that friend zone just ask.

Holy shit that's fucking great. I could only imagine having sex with the girl I knew all my life that I only dated once as a kid. Dude that's amazing, was there anything you said before she jumped on you? pre or post sex conversation?

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Hey man, nah not really. I was running some game that night, but a large amount of social proof came in. It was a big party i knew almost everyone at. i had a very sexual aura going tho.

I really think the key was reinventing myself. i stopped talking to her for at least six months, and she heard about what i was doing with all these other girls and i'm assuming i just became a very sexual figure in her mind. I think breaking the friend zone is just that: a lack of sexual visualization. If they can't picture having sex with you, they won't view you in that way.

So when you ask, "what did you say to her" i don't think thats as important as the person i actually was with her. What you say comes second to the aura of which you give off to her.

@ pelper

- This is just an observations made about your post. You mentioned that the reason you were able to sleep with your HB9 was because you were running some good game and you had social proof. Those are all valid points but are not valid in this point since this HB9 was practically a girl best friend.

What actually happened was that the 6 months you spent apart from the girl gave her enough time to consider you a possible mate and not a "friend zoned friend" that you were before..... (this is 95% of what happens when breaking through the friend zone concept).

As for social proof. you only need social proof on girls your getting to know not ones you have know for 'years'. Social proof in this situation is invalid.

And as for getting ripped, great! it always helps

Cheers.

yeah i thought the break report was a given when i said i stopped talking to her 6 months ago and said, "applied basic game principles." But thank you for pointing out the 6 months, as i realize many members might not realize how key that was.

She wanted to get laid. You were there. If it hadn't been you it would've been some other guy. It's nothing to get hysterical about. Big deal.

have been fucking her every other day since then. plz respond

yeah right, he got in there and got in there good. Friends can be the hardest to turn

Sweet advice thanks dude, congratulations! hahaha

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Been looking for a post like this for a bit, I have the same problem was close friends with this girl now we are not we still talk here and there but it is me initiating it. Mostly from what I have read from removing yourself from the friend zone is to drop contact and completely reinvent yourself.

She wanted a man I gave her that needy emotional guy. Never really worried about woman from my last break up of 8 years that is how long the dry spell has been I meet this girl who I know some dirty things about and it drives me insane. I'm still learning to be that confident fun guy who Is a true alpha male.

My question is the timing should someone wait 6 months or 3 to try again, I've decided to hold on this girl one to get over her and two to rebuild myself for the next whether it be her or another. I was that nice normal skinny guy and now I'm studying nutrition and fitness, designing own business changing the way I look.

My confidence compared to other guys I would have to say is somewhat shot, I've had times where put myself out of my comfort zone and had a girl chase me in a club I can say that the power I felt was intoxicating. What kind of books did you study and read?

Hey man, the time all depends on you i believe. I literally was no longer the same person after those 6 months. When we say reinvented, this was a prime example. I had 40 lbs more muscle, dressed entirely different, looked entirely different, partied with a cooler crowd, but most importantly the person i had become changed. I was more confident, possessed more leadership qualities, and i actually had purpose in life.

If you can cut contact with her and become this in 3 months, then do it man. I would imagine an identity change would take a bit longer though. You just have to be willing at any moment to give up what you are for what you will become. Then you will succeed in doing this. Quote from the Hip Hop Preacher btw ^

Well I've decided to take 6 months of and really look hard at myself and become the man I want to be, Even thought of a job within the army to get back on track however SPAM trying to get my online business started working a lot on changing my look I see myself where I want to be now just need to get there haha!

absolutely man. good luck. I definitely recommend working out and becoming more muscular. Not so much to be a meathead, but getting the testosterone flowing can help you find that masculine edge you might be looking for. Good luck tho man, you're at the beginning of an awesome journey

Decided to get a little more organised and out there, Do you have any tips or resources that you would recommend to read or watch? I have a notepad I've set up to write the things I feel are important to me to remember for PUA as I like to mentally have them available.

Aspects I'm looking at currently are.

Leadership
Confidence
Text Game
Communication