I had met this chick through a friend of hers that I dated briefly, and we had been exchanging messages on facebook for a couple of weeks, when finally she agreed to meet for a drink. I took her to a classy lounge where we knocked back a few martinis and had a few laughs. I kinoed the shit out of her and half an hour into the date we were making out on a couch like a couple of sex crazed teenagers. She had made plans for the evening with our common friend so we had to break it off around 10 p.m. After the date I met my Wingman and we hung out in another bar until midninght, when it was sarging time. The girl texted me to meet her at a club where she was partying with the girls. Wing and I drove there, where he left me hanging as he got booty-called by a girl he was chasing since a long time... So there I was, standing at the bar with my target and her friend, who texted me discretely tht she has no beef with me dating her friend, despite our history together... cool of her...
As soon as I exchanged a few words with my target, it was a "Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde" situation... her eyes were all over the place and she was flirting in an obvoius way with ome other guy. Eventually she joined him at his table and paid no attention to me anymore. I cruised the club for some acquaintances and decided to head for another venue. I left without saying goodbye and 20 minutes later she texted me:
Her "Where are you? Been looking all over the place and I can't find you..."
Me "Keep looking "
Her "Come meet me at the bar"
Me "Cannot, I am already home in bed"
Her "Why did you leave, are you upset with me?"
Me "No stress, we'll meet tomorrow"
Her "I so wanted to spend more time with you..."
Mind you, I was in another club, and I tried something rather ballsy...
Me "XXXXX Street, No 40"
Her "I cannot just come to your place like that!"
Me "Whatever, TTYL"
Some 15 minutes later, my patience pays off...
Her "I can be there in 20 minutes, is it OK?"
Me "Grab a bottle of red on the way"
I'll leave the rest to your imagination...
Could I have closed her if I had waited in the club for her to come back to the bar? Maybe yes, maybe not... The fact is that by showing her that I wasn't that much into her and that I wouldn't put up patiently with her shit, I got her to invest in the interaction and break through her barriers, as she was not the one night stand kind of girl, but rather interested in a relationship.
That night willingness to walk did pay off... and then some...