Hey all,
I thought i would write this particular lay report as i learnt and used some valuable techniques to
f-close..
So I was going out to some bars and clubs the other night, there was a girl i hadn't met who i knew
was out and about and expected was interested (received some messages on facebook etc.) the
first place we went to i bumped into this girl, before i had even had a chance to interact with any
sets, and it was quite obvious she was down to hook up (IOI's all over the shop).. now part of me
was a little disappointed as i had gone out to game and run some new stuff but on the other hand
this girl wasn't gonna be in the city for many nights so i decided to stick with her.
My mindset was now in an interesting place, as i knew a hook-up was on the cards but i figured if
i'm blowing off a whole night of gaming for this girl i want to f-close her so heres how i played it...
(1) not long into the interaction the conversation was kind of sexual, i was teasing her and saying she looked like a virgin etc. so there was a strong sexual frame (this was actually before we even made-out or anything)- i find if a girl starts to ask the kind of questions like "so how many girls have you slept with this year?" then it's definitely on, but i didn't want to count my chickens so here's a few other things i did...
(2) bounced venues frequently, i feel the more places you go and the more things you do the better,its especially great if you're meeting people together - creates a feeling of adventure and like you've known eachother waaay longer than you actually have - for example we went to about 4 bars and a walk around the harbour, bumping into a hen party and allsorts so there was a good vibe about it (interestingly i've found in the past it's better to get them out of the bars and go on a little adventure as i would call it,kinda feels like you've been together yonks and great for building comfort)
(3) finally we were in a bar towards the end of the night making out and i figured the time was right to make the move, now personally this has been a bit of a sticking point for me in the past as i'd often just put the question out there like "do you wanna head back to my place?" or "oh you can stop over at mine if you like?" and would get the usual bullshit about not wanting to leave friends or how am i going to get back in the morning... sooo i took some advice i had read on here (skills360 maybe? apologies if this is incorrect!) and i just said "shall we go?" and lead her out, at no point did she ask where to nor did i have to explain - incidentally some gay dude came up to her and said some stuff and when i asked her what he said she responded "he just asked if i was going home with you..and i said yes..and he said be careful (little shitbag)" so it was then that i realized it had worked a charm
anyway apologies for the length of this, and i appreciate a lot of this must seem like obvious stuff but hey, the last part especially i can't believe i haven't been running all this time
Happy Sarging!
Z4
CHAT