OK, first of all, this is my first lay report since I don`t like to share my stories with everyone, but this one really made me happy and proud at the same time... And since I owe a lot to pua community, I might as well share one. And no, the f-close didn`t happen 2h after meeting her online, but after a 2h first date.
Here goes...
It all started a couple of month ago, I`ve emailed a cute looking blonde on an online dating site. Couple of emails back and forth and a simple number close. Texted for a week or so, suggested a meeting, she cancels the day before, I freeze out. She sends me a text a couple of days after that, I ignore it. No contact for 2 months.
My tactic for such flakes: I don`t delete the number. I send a "ping" text 2 months after that. Sample text would be: Wow, was just browsing through my phonebook and discovered, that we have never met. Thats just bad! I think we should do something about that
... It could be basicly any ping text (there are tons of examples online). If she ignores it, send another one in a week.
In this case, got a warm reply. She went from long fuse to medium in no time. I`ve managed to remind her of positive emotions/feelings that she had after our first emails/texts. Some call back humor etc. All of a sudden I disappear for a couple of days (ignoring her last text). She sends me another text a couple of days after. I say to myself, ok this one is on again. After a couple of texts, I was certain she is a short fuse and I go straight for the next day meet up.
Set the time of the date after work, since I was busy in the evening, we meet in the park. The sun was shining on a chilly autumn day. When she was walking towards me ... damn ... drop dead gorgeous. Easily a 9, while from the photos she looked like a 6 maybe 7. I guess that I was shocked so much I couldn`t even remind my self to go for the usual kiss on the cheek/hug greeting. So we just shake hands, exchange names. I put my arm on the bottom of her back and start to lead her on the path. 10 minute fluff talk until we come to the bar at the egde of the park, overlooking the whole park (because of the terrace). So we sit outside (picked a chair next to her, very important). Couple of minutes of "get to know" questions, until we get the coffee. Then comes my first standard routine. The Cube. Hold her hands, tell her to close her eyes and just roll the routine. It took 15 minutes for me to explain her answers, strong eye contact (for a moment I thought I would drown in those blue eyes goddamit). She was smiling, admiring everything I said, I started rubbing her hand in the meantime... at that point I knew this is looking good. I go in the bar to pay for the coffee, when I came back I took her hand and said we should go for another little walk around the water. Lots of push and pull at this point. Droped her hand after she got up, we walk next to each other talking silly stuff, I put my arm on her shoulders for a couple of seconds and so on.
1h into the date, I suggest we sit on the bench... open space, but isolated enough to get closer to her without her being embarased someone might be watching ( I find this very important on many first dates). Here I launch my second routine. Cajun questions game. First question, standard: How many men have been involved with... romantically? Boom! It was so easy that I thought I was reading the book. Some of her answers were identical to the book examples. I just couldnt wait any longer (she was swallowing me with those eyes.. guess its my weak point) so I went in for the kiss after the 4th question which was: From 1-10, how good of a kisser do you think you are? She says: I am a 10. (this is practicaly the same as her saing: please kiss me). Instant short make out. Which is cut by me after 10 seconds. I ask her, what is your favourite part of the body to be kissed? -Around my weist. I say, Right now, I would kiss you all over your body if we were some place alone. I lock the eye contact like a goddamn tom cruise for 5 seconds. She smiles. I say, lets go to my place for a glass of wine. At this point, you just can`t go wrong. We walk to my car, kissing, looking at each other, holding hands etc. We come to my place, I open the door, lead her to the kitchen. She sits on the counter... said to my self I`m not gonna waste a bootle of wine for this. I looked straight into her eyes and stood between her legs. She says, I never did this on the first date. -Me neither. I pulled her up and took her to the bedroom.
So simple, I almost cried when she left. All I can say, I wish it was that easy everytime...
Thanks for reading, I just had to put this out of my system, and I hope there are some usefull tips for you
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