LR: All I Need Is 1 Set. Even if its a 6set. SNL by I Am The Future
Prelude
Well it certainly has been a few years, hasn’t it?
I decided to write up a LR for the community something I haven’t done since I went my own way its
pretty detailed and covers a multitude of inflection points which I hope will help people. Please note
it’s pretty long but
if you want to learn I think it will help.
I've formatted this so you can scroll down to certain more important points if you wish, I thought if im gonna do this il give you the time to make a detailed and insightful one, probably cant/wont go this detailed too much. Id really like some feedback from any of you to see if its helpful for anyone or if you have something to suggest to me or some flaws you see in my game/logic, would be great.
Also on a side note yes I probably will game more so if theres any cool guys in Central Eastern Europe that would maybe like to hit it up, you know the areas then get in touch.
If you're not aware who I am/was I guess this might fall a bit on deaf ears so to speak, so here's a quick intro, I started gaming about 12 years ago.
And that’s all I did for pretty much 7 of these years literally every day.
At one point back when living in London I would be fucking about 4 new girls per week on a very consistent basis, thinking I'm super balla when in reality its pretty lame I just get laid a lot and thought that's like the pinnacle of success maybe thats standard numbers now I don't know, anytime PUA's would come up to me in London id pretty much avoid them, thinking well I've never really met someone who actually had serious OMFG game apart from a couple of friends from RSD instructors so id only hang out with them. or id hang out a little with some of the PUATraining instructors but not much I just preferred getting laid as much as possible, fuck everyone else. I left the community totally and purely because I had no time to write about my adventures, All I did was game, id wake up next to some girl then say goodbye then go out gaming rinse repeat pretty much every single day specially as the community got more and more commercial.
I remember having a meeting with the PUATraining instructors and I didn’t even turn up cause I pulled a chick (not even that hot) on the way to the meeting, Funny but not that cool, it was immature and naive.
That stopped as I moved out of London and hung up the game.
After distancing myself from everything for the last few years I decided to invite some very old friends out to my newly adopted city and country.
I remember back in the day on mASF when id write LRs which pretty much just boasted about me getting in a 4some with 3 chicks and posting the videos of it online thinking im the ultimate balla etc I hope to avoid that here as much as I can, no promises though.
Also I read some of these LR's and im like I don't remember it being anything like this, guys getting 3somes and shit was pretty rare when I started out seems every motha fucka is pulling it off now and im no longer special haha. And as the lays all blurred into one I stopped being able to distinguish between them an LR from me would be I went out opened, got laid, fell asleep.
Id really like people to get something or learn something out of this btw, so please if you have any questions or anything just ask me I would be honoured to help and/or clarify, I also hope you actually read and think about it. Don’t read it and be like ok cool ask away and look to pinpoint certain points you would do something different or question why I took that line.
As soon as I meet my friends at the airport they talk about how for 7 years didn’t hear from me only to see me appear on TV a few times in seduction programs or whatever.
We talk about how things have gone over the past 10 years, this old American friend of mine who I knew at a very young age moved back to USA only to make a decent life out of the rap game.
I talk about not hearing from him in 7 years only to see him on MTV, we joke around, happy where we have gone in life so far, him a bit more so than me.
One of the guys who I haven’t seen for around 7 years was there in the first set I ever opened when I got in the game 12 years ago!
They want to know how good I actually got and I tell them stories all the way back to mine.
Its clear that we have to hit it up and do a set at least for old times sake.
Onto the LR! Before opening + Back story
So I think its a bit stupid to also not report the things just that lead up to you gaming even before the opener, they play a big part.
Feeling the pressure of who I have become in their minds combined with the fact that
for about 3 years I have not even opened 1 set, I would be forgiven for being a bit rusty.
I tell them back in London I was averaging about an 80% Open to lay ratio, (yeah fair enough I would work out which girls are mostly up for it before opening) which I thought was untouchable at the time, I felt like god, I wouldn’t even give any PUA the time of day even when I'd go over Adam Lyons place to discuss business and game id have it in the back of mind, I wanted to know could they match it? Could they surpass it? What is actually good? It was fucking stupid of me not to embrace them and hold their time much higher then I did. So if you read this guys
sorry.
Am I insanely good or is everyone good like this? I really didn’t know because I distanced myself from anyone involved in PUA, Sorry, not just to my friends who I met through or who happen to be PUA's the ones who I learnt with but all of you here, it was selfish and stupid of me for not giving more back,
for that I apologise to you all.
And after 3 years what would this golden ratio drop down to now??
So I prep the guys, 2 guys who haven’t studied game or anything but found fame and success in their respective showbizz pursuits, so
they are no strangers to female attention and success, but its still a new world for them. We talk about who has laid the most girls as any lame guys hanging out would do, its nice to know game prevails over fame/success/money, by a considerable amount
As I dictate how the night will go before we even leave the house, they say its all down to me
they just wanna watch and observe, knowing they have their own successful game but willing to see a totally different way, they didnt come here to game but the times right, this is whats happening.
Telling them how bad I feel for not sharing the things I've learnt and the way I have done things with the community, I learnt so much from, I aim to make amends by first telling them and now beginning to start to tell you guys, if you want to listen that is ofc.
We start the day at mine,
working out the optimal outfits for the day an important fixture in anyone’s game, unless you’re a naturist pua specialiser? And where we will go that night, I tell them I’m not going to open just for fun
I open to close and thats it, theres no open for fun or a chat I open to close end of. I havent waited 3 years for a 2 minute open+eject.
They tell me how when they get drunk they will just start chatting very direct to every girl and say whatever and if one doesnt listen they move on to the girl right next to them, normally within a few minutes there asking the girl to leave with them, it does work for them but I tell them none of that tonite when they roll with Future.
I love chatting with naturals about game specially ones as articulate and able to backwards rationalise as these.
Opening
We decide to go a Spa to start the day off, and as we're there us 3 dudes in swimming gear.
We spot a 6 Set with 1 guy there.
We cant help but look all 3 of us want to know will this be the start?
They look over at us on more than 1 occasion.
I feel the tension building up all on me of course Im the famous PUA to them, and Im like ok guys I get it, you want me to do it, Guess instructors must feel a bit like that all the time? Anyway im like fine were do it, normally I woudlnt bother, id wait for going out that night, but I feel none of us can wait for that.
Telling them time is our friend,
we will look for our perfect opening, this isnt said by me to back out of opening, its empirical to the layest of laymen I can open, if they can use the net.
And with no time constraints apparent,
I wait for the best situation to form the most solid time for opening to ensure the best chance of a close, thats how I roll, not saying its for everyone but when you hit that point when you do have good enough game to hand pick, then why not hand pick its no longer a numbers game for the more experienced among us. As the set congregate to a more secluded part, the sauna -1 HB and conveniently -1 Amog.
This is the time we join them, I note the English speaking nature of their language, which is always gonna be an instant easy opener in a foreign eastern European country like the one I am living in.
I Ask them where they are from, such a lame but solid opener, it really doesn't matter. Turns out they live here but of mixed western nationalities, New Zeland, and canada with one Czech.
The
first few minutes is extremely indirect, I find a lot of time is fine, as it gives you more room for manoeuvre and calibration depending on response and perceived direction of the set.
But for the fact we are in an extremely intimate yet public setting, its pretty imperative to demonstrate such indirectness in this instant.
This is more of a spa so I wanna retain some form of social ease.
With that in mind the
conversation flows based around where we are all from and why we are here.
Instant common ground is built the fact we are living in a new country in eastern europe.
But even if not, when my friends say they are visiting from the states, we could easily follow up with, where we have seen so far, what they liked, what the girls might suggest some cool places to see, etc there should always a be a million directions to go in.
Convo turns a bit more individual based as my friends join in and our conversation is no longer group based taking turns, but we pair off to individual conversations, not based on targets but based on optimal proximity, i.e who is closest.
After a while in what is obviously a solid conversation,
I spot the set wanting to leave but I can tell this is purely because its 55 degrees and they have been here long enough. I do this by monitoring the body language of them, you can easily see when someone starts to fidget and they want to eject, because their uncomfortable. This can be caused from a random AMOG coming in set, or a homeless person comes in your set, it can be cause your games creepy, or they just wanna go, it can ofc be cause they have been in the sauna too long
but either way
when you spot this you need to act accordingly.
And its probably a good idea to gauge whats most likely the actual reason.
I suggest its getting hot and im gonna leave, all the HBs agree and we depart the room. (not super important but its probably best I orchestrate the ejection there)
The set breaks off and this is fine, its not a big venue, and its a good idea to show were not gonna follow them around, after clearly us all enjoying our conversation.
I think a lot of newer guys underestimate this, just have a fucking cool conversation with chicks, thats pretty much it combined with a bit of direction, and dont be a weird guy who cannot tell the difference between clearly a weird convo and one they think went well, bit beyond the scope of this LR to go into but bare it in mind
Venue Change
The HB in conversation directly with me stays, I say to her shall we go the cold shower room, we go together.
We get chatting there and she is clearly the independent one, who holds some say in what the set does as a group, simple human dynamics there, theres always someone with influence over the majority, probably a good idea to either be that person who influence/befriend that person yeah?
This is probably why i positioned myself close to her at the start I know once I lock her I have more a chance of locking the entire set, and with her isolated I can get a good handle on suggesting things to do after here which I hope she will relay back to the rest of the set, I didnt purposely go after her cause she was my target even though she probably is the hottest, I went after her because thats my best shot at getting to a day2 or venue change with the group sorted.
In the cold shower I talk how its my friends last night,
we want to go out but Im not that accustomed to knowing where the good places to go out are.
She says some places, and my friend joins and overhears he says how it would be nice if some locals who know what they are doing actually showed us some places, this was perfect timing, I kind of expect this kind of social intelligence/ innate game with someone of his stature and life experience (Rap artist etc).
After a bit more solid fluff with the direction going towards a meet up tonight for drinks with all of us, we leave the HB and go to a part of the main pool ourselves.
I told the my wings now we see what happens.
I aimed the suggestions at us all going out, im not gonna leave my friends on their own while I try secure a 1on1 and also an entire 6+ set meeting up is just gonna face less resistance, even if it would require more game and intricacies.
We cant see the rest of the set as we head back, and the now lone HB goes looking for them, about 5 minutes later the entire set minus the lone HB and the other HB+Guy turn up and
swim directly over to us, thats 3 HB's and us.
First thing the girls say is, So you guys wanna go out drinking somewhere tonite then?
Instantly I think we (the guys) all know.
The HB went and found them told them the plans I suggested, relayed it the girls, the girls were cool with it, then they came found us and basically said yeah cool its on.
I think from this point the rest of the story is pretty fucking generic for me, because
you see as you get more experience and get better your lays become lays a lot sooner, not to say the speed from open to lay gets quicker (although it most likely will)
But you know when its on way sooner, the second this happened I would estimate about an 90+ % chance of getting laid tonight, this is after no longer than 20 mins of game in an opening stage, its just pretty much on.
As we sit there all chatting the
conversation goes on many topics as we all switch targets to see whats up, the rest of the group join us the perceived amog joins us and instantly we greet him nicely, he speaks introduces himself and within about 5 minutes talks about his 'partner' who happens to be a guy, doesnt get much better for us.
Maybe some guys would instant try amogging a guy when he joins which is stupid not least for the fact he most likely holds more validity and influence over the set then you but also you just dont know the deal yet better to find out whats going on then guess.
Chat a bit more deeply but not too much just enough to ascertain that the meet up for drinks will be more solid, they tell me the location I memorise it and its all green lights, we bid our farewells and they leave the spa.
And I dissect the game to my visiting comrades, breaking down the actions of not only the girls but my friends also. I think its good to break down game as it helps you get good.
The only questions I have left which I tell to the guys are the girls defo on it?
1)Who is going for which HB?
2)How do we split and extract the set?
3)We have to IOI when we meet back up!
That’s about all thats left for me, I go over the fact that we need to kiss before them before we leave the venue with them, something I have found that with my type of game to be nearly an absolute rule if im opening so indirectly and non target dependant.
I noticed
the girls were very giggly when chatting and smiley, amazingly my friends pointed out to me this means
they dont have boyfriends, a girl with a boyfriend who is chatting to a random guy whos just chatting to her does not act like that in the first 10 minutes, combined with the coming back over to us and re suggesting the drinks, its pretty clear that all that is left is for us TO
NOT FUCK IT UP.
I think thats a big thing,
start of this is all just about getting to a point where its ON and then from there its about NOT FUCKING IT UP or just closing.
Dont know about now but back in the day
so many people couldnt close the deal, at one point I was one of them so I do understand but its super important to be honest with yourself if you cant close thats ok! Just address that issue work on it and fix it.
We spend a few hours in the spa chilling, we leave pretty late with only 2 hours before the arranged meet up.
We get to mine and I try find the location they said to meet at, I fucked up!
I search on the net what I thought I heard but I cant find it, I know the general location but I cant find anything like it, my friends are like dude thats a rookie mistake ur meant to be the man.
Im embarrassed as fuck, I apologise and said look its my actual first set in over 3 years gimme a fucking break, i didnt have a phone on me we we were under water ffs!
We decide we will go to the place that sounds the most similar if they are there cool if not we go to the location I know 100% that its near and we just ask around there.
So first try and no luck, we head to the metro stop I know its closet to we ask around, im actually surprised that pretty much everyone apart from the Roma Gypsys speak high enough level English.
That Night - In The Club
Over 1 hour late we give up, we sit there im like so sorry guys il make it up to you and we go game a 2set, bad idea when there is 3 of you.
Purely because one of ur mates is gonna be left out 
We get on well with this set and im like wow 2 sets and they have both gone perfect I guess I have not lost anything.
We get this new set to come drinking with us and they leads us to a bar near by.
We all go in and sit down.
and... Lawl the original
set is all there!!!
Bit a predicament now, I instantly position the chairs and tables so the new set is as far away from the old set and possible just for damage mitigation reasons.
Btw I dont know if people think of these kind things, but im there drinking vodka, I spot the old set and instantly
im ascertaining the best way to handle it, and instantly get in charge of bringing tables together to ensure me and my friends get the best options in this debacle. Fucking important seating is! Especially when something like this happens. This is all going through my mind but kinda subconsciously this is how I remember my game being, like a chess game.
One thing we needed to work out earlier was
who was gonna go for who, I said well its all cool we will know within the first 5 minutes if we dont then we then just go with whoever were chatting to as we liked all the girls equally really. Works more fluid like that, I generally dont like to actually aim for a specific target and not be flexible, I think thats bad policy.
So
I position myself in a way that is kinda like I will get to see who sits next to me to work it out, so after chatting for about 5 minutes
one of the girls moves from her old seat to the seat next to me.
Thats all I need to know, shes my target, we sit and chat about a few things I tell her my story she tells me hers, I find out the music we both like, we talk about tv we like
we talk about Arrested-development she likes it but hasnt seen every episode we joke about Gob from it.
One thing me her and another HB talk about is my HB mentioned that
when she likes a guy she will take his drink and sip it, this insta goes in my memory.
The groups get on well, it helped that we opened this 2 set with (heyy guys do u know where this bar near by is called we are meant to meet are friends there but we totally fucked up)
So when the set is talking to them they re affirm we were lost and looking for them
pretty smooth.
The new 2set leaves after its clear me and the boys are now locked in to this set which is of a higher quality heh soz but true.
Still were in group convo as were all sitting together, I know
I need to isolate a little, my girl goes to the bar, i take that opportunity to go also.
We chat there together for like 2 mins thats fine.
I suggest we go play pool see who wins and we go over together but one of
her friends comes just as im about to kiss her, no biggie, but no kclose.
After a few drinks (I already have a bottle of vodka in my pocket)
I ask whats the plan after this, well I actually say what are we doing after this have u guys got somewhere in mind?
We decide on a cool place near by and we all head there.
As were walking there it gives a chance for the set to
pair off, as I isolate my girl and my mates iso with their girls.
We still take turns to interact with the guy and other chicks normally of course its just cool natural stuff im just breaking it all down now, dont think im robotically going through a mental checklist, when you know what to do you just do that its normal
In the new venue I be sure to sit next to my girl, after we get drinks were joking around
she looks at me and takes a sip of my drink.
Second this happened it was the final Cha-Ching moment, I like to get that kinda solid reaffirmation there, so in my mind its on no doubt playa styleee now.
I take the guys aside and said ok look were in the second venue now its time to kiss close, there like huh? I’m like opps I mean its time to make out at the right point with our chicks.
Make Out
As were sitting on our new table in the new venue
I say to my target lets go explore this place. I say this because its time to isolate her so I can make out.
We walk around theres lots of rooms here, and
we decide to go back to the table after exploring the venue a bit, I said cool il go get another drink and meet u back there.
Look into her eyes, look at her mouth, back to her eyes, mouth, eyes,
Bam kiss close. Timed to fucking perfection as we walk away still looking at each other, fully fucking knowing
im tapping that tonight, because I can fucking close.
I come back and let the guys know its on, that ive made out and its time for them to make a move. My Rap SuperStar mate haha takes it a bit literal and obv
black natural game must come into it or summin because he takes one of the girls he was hardly chatting to into the toilets, and holds the door shut and gets her on her knees and secures a Blowjob in the toilets, classy, this is what he said I have no reason to doubt him, he blatantly had game.
It always fucks me up a bit when I hear summin like that, I recall the days it would take me like
3 months of chatting to a girl even to get some kinda meet up/date with her and to know guys just take a girl to a club toilets and bang her or get a BJ still kinda hits me each time, its not actually something I've ever done, ive had very quick lays but I dont do that.
I kinda realise when this happens how blind I have been and even after my experience how blind I still am to how things work and the levels of the game, il probably talk about this more advanced someday.
Extracting Back to mine
After chilling together for a bit longer
I suggest to my target its time to go on the dance floor, what’s fucking funny is after gaming for 10+ years with the majority of the later years focused on night game, ive had enough experience at dancing/ dance floor game. TBH I just needed a place to make out with her a bit before we leave the club.
Long gone are those times id say ("Ohh no I dont dance")
Now its like at the right time im telling the girl that this is my song!
It's important to get that down it really
doesn’t require much just a not giving a fuck attitude and a little bit of practice go a long way in most things in life dancing in a club no different.
As I lead her in hand to the dance floor, I hear the music, I see the talent in their skimpy clothes, I feel my girl next to me.
And I once again feel at home, this is where I belong, where I adopted as my home territory, the place once a long long time ago i feared more than anything is now the domain I have mastered, it feels good to know, I kinda arrogantly and probably lamely look around and think I could game any girl here, a thought I havent had for many years now. I feel the desire for the game flooding back to me as I falsely and briefly contemplate the notion of wasting the last 3 years not gaming.
I bring my girl close dancing to whatever song it is there playing like I know whats going on. Making out with her every now and then only to move away just as it
starts to get hot and heavy, pulling her close, feeling that ass, with one thing going thru my mind, that il be doggy stylin that in a few hours time...
Those thoughts resonate through my actions now
I know its all locked in, I give her my phone to put in her bag, I dont wanna be dancing with this phone in my pocket.
We depart the dance floor after about 20 mins
it was a nice excuse for some successful sexual advances and lots of makeouts, she likes to bite. On the way back
I say how cool the nights been so far and ask her what her plans are after this, she says she doesnt know.
I tell her that she should come back to mine...
and we will watch Arrested-Development and hang out.
She says we will see...
Maybe shes not aware I can see the Future.
After a while
I suggest to the group we leave the venue. (It was the right time it was like 3am, we were drunk,
only thing left is extraction, no point longing it out). In terms of pure Alpha im not really gonna compete with the black natural rap star friend of mine for fucking obvious reasons, but I know my strengths and this isnt his city so I can demonstrate where I need to, and my games tighter hah.
Its funny even with friends when you hang out with someone who is like naturally unaware and cant help being alpha you need to know the ways to play to your advantage, and where you shoudln't step.
On a side note the girl who gave the BJ no longer joins us, shes decided to go home.
We grab some food at a 24 hour McDonalds,
my target has my mobile phone which I conveniently gave her to look after in her bag during the night, I purposely don't ask for it back yet.
I know that the entire sets bus leaves from outside but I also know so does mine,
I've already asked where they live I know how they get home.
Its really
about logistics now and im pretty shrewd and cunning when it comes to logistics these days having it beeing once the bane of my games existence.
It always feels a bit cheap when you need to kind of bend logistical end game to ensure an extraction but I have found it can be important to close the deal.
We are
waiting for the bus and Im making out with my girl, infront of everyone for the first time,
I resuggest that my girl should come back to mine with me.
The girls bus turns up and
the girls decide not to come back and get on their bus my target goes with them, just as there walking for it without any real importance or haste whatsoever, I remind my target she has my phone, she stops gets the phone out and the bus leaves.
Tbh they clearly didnt care about getting that bus maybe I should have done something more caveman to stop her? I knew my phone would probably buy me the time.
We get on the next bus which is my bus, on the bus most people sit down and my target stays standing up.
2 seats next to each other free and I tell her to sit down.
Were sitting next to each other she talks to the other girls and then
tells me shes going to come back with me.
The girls get off we head back to mine, the guys go back to their hotel even though I have a 3bed place to myself they rent a hotel whatever they get off for their hotel.
And the night for me continues culminating in numerous positions and a substantial amount of my seaman over this young girls face and breasts, Do I get extra points for that? or a Gold star or summin?
It wasnt the most fluid of sets because the conversation did wane towards the end, I put this down to such a lack of practice of me, but I feel pretty good knowing Im gonna count that as 1 set 1 lay.
The thing is I run all this game and shit but ya know the truth is a lot of it doesnt matter,
a lot of girls just wanna fuck and how you go about it is kinda getting more and more irrelevant.
I look back at this and the girl and after the first drink she was just up for it, the moment I flicked a couple of her green light switches it was kinda on. Think my direct mate proved this with the toilet BJ girl, so I probably over complicated it but I decided to cover all bases and run the most solid game possible this was more to look solid in front of mates and the fact im out of practice then to secure sex, The securing of sex was more the by product of the former lol typical me logic.
Fuck knows if you even wanna hear about my shit but I got a lot more of it if it helps anyone
so maybe il post some recent LRs or some sick classic ones from back in London I never posted if theres enough interest for it, im sure theres a ton of real solid guys on here anyway.
And who knows maybe il need a favour from the community one day, after all i've been 3 years without a wingman now... I think il open for auditions ahahaha, all the best everyone!
If this is my return or not I dont know, happened the other week im contemplating gaming again or not, its a tough decision.
It's a good to be the king.
A tiéd régi barát,
I Am The Future
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