I got invited to a grill party at a guy's place who I met the day before on a flight back to Stockholm.
When I arrive at the place he just arrives 5 min later, parks the car in front of his house and from the car this HB10 african girl steps out and *** magic eye gazing *** I just knew this girl was into me because the way we look t each other. For a second I though she could be underage and just wished that she wasn't (later to find out she's 33 and she's got an 11 yrd old daughter). This woman is very honest, intelligent ... a part from being the most perfect woman I flirted, chatted, escalated, discussed politics, cook...all that in the time of 5 hour at a 10 people chilled party on a sunday afternoon... perfect tight ass, legs, stomach, silicon breast...not a single gram of fat and a perfectly sculpted body...like not many models and actresses can show... a real playmate ... and from the suburbs ... this girl is the kind of woman you'd find in a strip club or at a high end club of a mayor city, Go go dancing or just surrounded by some extremely beautiful and successful people (get the picture in your head?)...but with a role in life that puts her away from those places.... but the beast still lives inside of her and craving fun. That night I get her number and since we are all the time surrounded by friends or her daughter we don't kiss but we try to arrange a date.
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during the next weeks there's almost no communication and I don't push to meet. Her night job at the hospital doesn't let her much spare time.
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I invite her for coffee at my place and agrees with no question...last minute she tells she's bringing a friend ( I interpret she's letting me know she's interested but won't sell cheap).
At my place I run lots of DHV, kino and mind stuff like Tarot reading... like of the friend was not there,,,but not forgetting her. Nothing will happen that night...but there's tons of rapport built. She's a HB10 with amazing silicon boobs and the tests are taught.
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Dinner at my place...she says yes... a friend organizes a party in parallel at my place and my house is just filled with people all the time... get to Kino while cooking (other people even watching in my kitchen)...but that night I just freeze the thing...and worse...a jealous girl from the party comes to blow my game by being super receptive. A beautiful Hungarian with a more beautiful sister (HB8 and HB 8.5). My target thinks there's something fish with the Hungarian girl and me and decides to leave.
I punish her with no communication for several days until she writes me.
I tell her I'm on holidays (true) and when I'm back I'll meet her to have a proper dinner.
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I come back and set up a date... last minute cancel dinner and we agree to see each other later in the city. It's almost 2am and in Sweden means everyone starts to think either home, nightclub or after party. She texts and says that it's late but it would be soooo nice to meet.
I play some sms game telling what we can do to meet in 30 min... avoiding her excuses and throwing time constrains and plans the day after she says OK and waits for me in a cab... last minute "where are you?" I answer on my way to your place (not true...just sitting texting close to the subway).
Finally got to her place and we talk and I surprise and kiss her (first kiss) and keep calm...and talking and giving IODs and getting more deep into conversation...being unbreakable... she sets a trap and talks about the Hungarian and her energy coming towards me and asks what happened with her. Here is what I answered, which turned her LMR totally upside down and she got convinced to end the night as it should... at the same time what I told her is true
"the Hungarian girl was using me at the party to get her ex jealous (he was at the party too). She spread bad energy and does the same with all the guys at the party but the ex ignores her more"
Before I told her this she was scanning my body language in quest for a lie...when I finished this 3 min story she was telling me with doggy eyes... "poor guy that got used by that bitch".

it's very late and we decide to sleep (even I know that when we lay on bed something is gonna happen)...and it does...
the key was playing the illusion that she's got total and absolute control and power. This woman in particular and what other people generalizes about the african dominant character of the women, makes it easy to just relax and let her break her "now we're gonna sleep"... because I don't verbally oppose but I physically do very slowly...
the result is that we get into it and we leave the opportunity open for a second time..which will be epic.
It's an amazing lay...just because its so sexual and at the same time we know that's only 10% of what we can do, that next will be a blast.

Keys: be calm and cool, not cocky (we meet in a very friendly and familiar environment), do instead of ask permission, decisive, no doubtful, control body language, patience, sexual.

//MyOwnRockStar

good LR, thanks for sharing

Congrats on your lay!

BTW, can you explain what you mean by "I don't verbally oppose but I physically do very slowly", particularly the part about how you physically do this?

Also, how did you "get into it"? Did you just start making out with her first? No LMR? Or did you go straight to fucking?

first of all, she wanted me to come over but tested me to push it...she wanted to see if I had a flaw, but I insisted telling I was on my way already and that we should meet tonight. That plus the fact taht when I got to her place I didn´t hurry to get her naked, just make out and chat until we decide to go to sleep. I didn´t seem like I wanted it badly and let her decide when, so this dispersed the idea of a LMR.

"I don't verbally oppose but I physically do very slowly"
I just don´t answer when she says "now were going to sleep". I act as I´m obeying but my moves are sexual and very calm, caress and kino while lying slowly in bed, all the process of accommodate the pillow, blanket etc, very slow and totally touching her...the hard on does the rest. Because even with my body I´m just teasing and not grabbing...I´m giving the opportunity...but the hard is irresistible when is pressing her.

"get into it"... all the proces from getting to the apartment to actually fucking took like 1h with talking, going back and forth to the kitchen to prepare some tea, making out in the hallway, pushing back in the couch

hope it clarifies
cheers

Now I understand! I encountered this the other day when I was with an older women. It all makes sense now. Thanks a lot! : )