Hey guys !
i'm new to this forum and I want to share my first lay experience with you, and because it's my first one i also have questions. so lets start:

okay it happened 2 days ago:

me and my friend went out to party a little bit. but there was no party so we walked around in the city, where 2 girls started to talk to us. i was phoning but i hung up as soon as they started asking me where we have been and what we are going to do now. so we started a conversation and went to a club after 5 minutes. there i started drinking with the girls an running game on them. i received big IOIs from both of them. they were always playing with their hair, touching me.
so i started to kino escalate. first touching them while speaking then as the evening went on, touching hips, ass and inner thighs.
After a while i also made a magic trick with cigarette ash. my final target really enjoyed it.
after a while they invented us over to their place where my friend and me seperated each other so that there was privacy. i decided to build extremely much comfort so i wasnt kissing her until we were there and talked for about 20 minutes.
afterwards i had her so horny that she wanted to go to her room, which we did. we undressed each other instantly and started making out.

here the only problems appeared: i couldn t get hard for about 20 minutes and that was weird. i wanted her so badly but i couldn t really get hard. after 20 minutes i could get a little hard... enough to fuck but i wasnt really feeling anything because of small condoms and alcohol. so after about 5 minutes she asked me to cum which i told her i did, but in reality i didn t.

she asked me what the problem was and i told her about my ex gf... i was 3 years in a relationship (which ended 3 months ago) and the girl 2 days ago was only the second one in my life. (she wasnt angry or so but she asked me why i didnt tell her that before, it would have been no problem) but before that she told me she d have feelings for some guy i dont know and that since that she had problems with having orgasms.
i wasnt angry or so because we both reacted badly.

the next morning was odd and we didnt speak much. her friend drove me home.

until now we had no more contact but i would like to see her again just as a friend.
i dont know if she is pissed now or how to react.

now my questions:
what to do when i cant go hard?
how to react in the morning?
what to do the days after a lay?
when should i text her, or shouldnt i if she also doesnt?

peace, raff