| Hey guys. I took some time off from the forum and it helped me a lot. I'll be continuing that by still not replying to any threads, but I'll start posting lay reports every once in a while. If you have any questions, leave them here or send me a PM.
So this girl I met at prom.
The problem with my high school (I'm a senior and about to graduate) is that its very small (400 kids total). So on prom night, I didn't expect any new options. I went into it to have fun with my friends, and my date was a hot girl that has been in my friend zone for a long time.
When I got there, I started hearing rumors. "Martin brought a hot date, did you see her?"
Martin is this nerdy, robotics-loving Chinese guy and I couldn't believe that he could pull. I take the hand of a female friend and have her take me to see this girl. We find her playing blackjack at the table set up and this girl is hot. She's beautiful, Asian, wearing a shiny green dress.
I don't waste any time. Two of my friends (one guy and one girl, each others' prom dates) are playing next to her. I come up, put my arm around the girl I know, and put my hand on the Asian girl's arm to have her make space for me. It's easy to introduce myself ("Hi, we haven't met yet, I'm Slip.") and I can tell I'm one of the few people paying any attention to her by how eager she is to talk to me. After chatting about mutual friends and playing for 15 minutes, I exit to get back to my date.
The night is beginning to wind down. I remember the girl (HBGreen) and I want to number close. When I get back to her, unfortunately, Martin is standing with her. They haven't danced during the whole prom, but I'd feel a little mean, stealing his date right in front of him. I give up on the number and go to the afterparty (and make out with a girl there!)
Luckily though, we have a little invention called Facebook. I search HBGreen in Martin's friends and find her easily. I message her, "I'm a stalker. Good prom?"
She replies back with a message and a friend request.
It only takes a few messages back and forth (I ask how she knows Martin, it was mostly fluff, with one joke about sexual favors) before she invites ME to a museum and we set up a day. (I make art, and she's going to major in art history, it was a natural choice.)
So I barely talk to her before then (why bother) and meet her at the museum.
Game on this night came very easily because we both KNEW we wanted to get some. It was a team effort. She said things like "I told my friends you kind of saved me, since I didn't know anyone" about prom night, and she would touch me as much as I would touch her (a lot, while walking around the museum).
My goal is generally to kiss before halfway through the date, so I was looking for chances while inside the museum. Unfortunately it was a crowded exhibit and I couldn't get anything going. At one point we were in a side-room, with only one other person, so I thought "Yes!" and took a little extra time looking at a piece. She comes over, I take her into a really close hug. Just then the one person in the room calls to his family "Hey come look at this one!" and people rush in.
No worries, we move on and finish the exhibit. Now we're outside, and it hasn't been that long (maybe 30-45 min since getting there). She's talking about going to Starbucks. Now there's no way I'm going to leave the museum just to sit across a table awkwardly from her, but I agreed to leaving.
I direct us to a private patch of grass with a shitty sculpture on it. She keeps chatting on, I'm just waiting for her to finish so I can kiss her. As we reach the sculpture and look at it for a second, I go "Nah, we're not here for this" and kiss her. We end up making out on the grass, getting interrupted by people walking by every few minutes.
So we leave in her car, and start looking for other places to go. I'm searching for nearby parks on her phone and just get us lost. So we keep it simple, park in a neighborhood, I lean my seat back and she climbs on top. She gives me head straight away and it goes to a full close.
Since then we've agreed to have a casual hook up relationship, but haven't met up again. I'll probably see her next week, as well as another girl that I've only kissed (maybe that's a LR waiting to happen).
Hope you enjoyed, ask questions if you've got em.
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