This is the alternate method taught by the taoist.From
'The multi orgasmic man".You are focusing too much on yourself,try focusing on the girl by thinking of pleasuring her and yourself.Ask her to massage your testicles and penis.If you are anxious take a break and try again.
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EXERCISE 14
SOFT ENTRY
1. Your partner must be fully lubricated, and you should pleasure her until her fluids are flowing. If necessary, you can use a lubricant on her vagina or your penis or both.
2.It is generally easiest for you to be on top so that gravity helps draw the blood into your penis and so that you have as much freedom to move as possible.
3.Circle your thumb and forefinger around the base of your penis to form a finger ring and squeeze gently to push the blood into the shaft and head.
4.Carefully insert your penis into your partner and begin thrusting, keeping your finger ring around the base of your penis.
5.Focus on the blood and sexual energy that are filling your penis and concentrate on the sensations in your penis. Squeeze your perineum and buttocks to push blood into your genitals.
6.Your partner can help stimulate you by playing with your testicles, perineum, and anus.
7.Adjust the tightness of your finger ring to keep your penis engorged enough for thrusting and then remove your fingers when your penis is sufficiently erect for continued thrusting.
8.Reapply the finger ring if your erection wanes (although you generally won't need to do so).
ENTER SOFT, EXIT HARD
Recognizing that all men experience situational impotence at some time or another, the Taoists developed a fail-safe technique they called Soft Entry. The Taoists realized that a man could help with his hands, just as the Yellow Emperor had wished. With this technique and with the cooperation of your partner, you can enter your partner even when you are completely flaccid. Once you are inside your partner, the warmth and sensation of lovemaking will allow you to get an erection in short order. The Soft Entry technique dispels the old belief that a man must have a steel-hard erection before having intercourse, and it is a useful part of any man’s sexual repertoire. Knowing that you have mastered this technique and can use it when necessary will give you greater confidence when faced with the awkward, but common, situation of a penis that is slain to rise.
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