| So I went out on Monday night to visit a friend at his University.
We met up with some of his Uni friends, two HB 8s and a HB7 and I was getting in really well with HB 8. As it was a friend of a friend there wasn’t really any sort of cold approach and run through game I just used some of the fun games to play with chicks I was reading on the forum the other day and used natural game.
We were connecting really well all night and ended up in a busy club. I love dancing in clubs and I was trying to sexually escalate when dancing with her but she was getting uncomfortable and didn’t seem to want to move any further than just enjoying my company. I was thinking ‘Oh god her comes the LJBF’ so I left her with her friends for a while. I’d spent nearly the whole night with her and not so much as got a kiss yet.
Anyways I found her again later in the night and she was all like
“Yayy you’re back, I’ve been looking for you, come to the bar with me?!”
Now it was pretty late now and we had both drunk enough so I knew she wanted to go to the bar to get me alone rather than get me to buy her a drink.
I was right ☺
Finally we were starting to get close and I was kino escalating like crazy, and the cool thing was that she was finally letting me. Then along comes her two friends and this happens.
Her Friends: “We want to go now, we’re tired and have lectures tomorrow”
HB8: “Really? I want to stay a bit longer”
Her friends: “But you have to come with us or you won’t be able to get into my flat later on”
Now I would have instantly jumped in and said “it’s fine, we’re going to stay here for a bit longer and have a great time”, and that she is more than welcome to stay with me.
Yep, I would have said this, but I didn’t actually have a bed to go home to, I was sleeping on the floor of my friends Uni flat. GOD DAM IT!!
So she left but we exchanged numbers and she told me she’d had a great night. Better than nothing eh? ☺
So now you guys are wondering why this loooonng post is titled ‘Very Lucky F Close’ when the girl I’d been gaming all night just left….
Well I went back and found my Uni friend on the dancefloor and was in a great mood after just number closing, I spent the rest of the night dancing and just having a great time. Then these two girls HB6 and HB 8 started dancing right next to me. I have a massive problem with what I call the *Man Swivel* (turning around to start dancing with the girl dancing behind you). I just can’t seem to swivel!! It get’s me every time I go out.
Guys I really need help with this. I feel like turning around and giving the girl all the attention is exactly what she wants and exactly what every other guy in the club does. I will turn around try to dance with her, then that will then be enough validation for her to know she’s wanted by yet another guy in the club and that will be it, she will wander off. Maybe my AFC self is just over thinking this.
Anyway, got a bit sidetracked there.
So these girls are dancing right behind me and I’m being an AFC and not turning round to dance when all of a sudden the HB 6 just shoves HB8 right into me.
Well that got me to turn around lol.
Straight away me and the HB8 both looked at each other and started making out without saying a word. I couldn’t believe my luck!!!
This then led to 10 mins dancing, kissing, saying Hi etc. I asked her to be polite and introduce me to her friend who had gone to sit down by the dancefloor. We went over and I chatted for a while, just general what you studying at Uni how do you know each other, all very boring stuff. The lights then came on in the club and everyone left. I got invited back to their house and then me and HB8 went off up to her bedroom and enjoyed the rest of the night ☺
So overall I learnt a lot from taking a break from being with the first girl all night then going back and reminding her of how great a time she had been having with me, ending in a number close. She text me the next day saying she had a great night and asked me when I was next visiting. ☺
I also learnt I’m still a pussy and cannot ‘man swivel’ and it takes a HB to be physically pushed into me for me to actually open and kiss close on the dancefloor.
Sorry for the long report but I enjoyed typing it out and reliving the night and noticing where I had gone wrong, done things right. If anyone can help me with the whole opening on the dancefloor problem I have, or even just tell me I’m being too much of an AFC and am completely wrong about girls just waiting to be approached on the dancefloor to gain validation then that would be hugely appreciated.
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