Hey guys! Im very exited about posting here from now on.. I´ve already posted this in field-rapport but since it´s also a lay I´ll put it here.. Enjoy, I hope there are good tools you can apply buy reading it.
So it´s my first day in Stockholm, great place and great weather. We´ve just arrived and the only thing I´m thinking about is FOOD. We find our hotel, put our stuff and get out to grab something to eat. While eating my partner and I discuss WHY we are here and how we are going to reach our goals. While talking, lots of attractive women pass by, and I don´t approach anyone because I´ve decided to relax today and observe the city just to find the cool places where we can go out in the weekends. BUT, suddenly it hit me that procrastination is just a bad excuse for not doing things and that if I want to become excellent I have to be game at ALL the times and be disciplined about it. Game should be a part of me.
I´m walking, many things are going through my mind. I look inside the windows of a store and I see a cute blondie is eating a sandwich alone, texting on her phone, probably waiting for someone. Later in the interaction I find out she was waiting for a friend.
My real first set that day, and my adventure begins. I walk in to the store and open her with: “How many times have I told you that I don’t like when you eat tuna sandwiches”, she laughs and gives me a big smile. I tell her that I was kidding reach my hand out and introduce myself as Strawberry and there she laughs again and ask if that’s my real name, I say yeah with a serious look on my face and she introduces herself. My nickname when I meet new people. More about that later. So here I am initiating the conversation, and I ask her where I can find a grocery store, because I´m starving. She finds out of course that I´m not from town and asks me where I´m from. I tell her I´m adopted and live in a box outside the city, but it´s just wet right now and just had to find something to eat until it gets dry. I ask her if she has a hair dryer she can come by with so that we can have a chat while drying the box. We talk a bit about that and have a good laugh. But still I haven´t told her where I´m really from and she asks me if i´m adopted for real. I tell her that I was sick when I was born and my real parents left me in a random hospital that keep sick children because they probably couldn´t afford taking care of me. So months later of my birth I got picked randomly by the parents I have right now. I tell her that my life is a mystery and that I don´t know my real birthday or anything. She looks soo stunned but still with a hint of a laugh because she really hopes that I´m kidding. And of course I tell her I´m kidding and ask her about what she does to keep her life exciting. She tells me that she has been studying tourism for 2 years, and ask me back what I do and what I´m doing in stochkholm. I do the stripper routine, and tell that I´m a part-time stripper in a local bar and in my free time I design snowballs. She was laughing so much that she almost fell down of her chair.
At the same time her friend comes and wonders about what´s so funny and who I am. So I introduce my real name to her, and tell her that she has a weird friend (the blondie) that keeps thinking that my name is strawberry. I immediately get a mean look and a slap on my shoulder from the blondie and she tells her friend that I´m a stripper. I have a weird look on my face and act as if like I don´t know what she´s talking about. I now focus the conversation on the friend to build comfort with her and ask her where they know each other from , apparently they study together. I decide to spike up the energy in the conversation and start talking about a famous new funny song everyone know, yet they hate it. So we get a fun conversation out of that. I ask them about their plans tonight, and they were heading to some friends place to watch football and later visit the blondies sister to sleep there. I ask the blondie if she likes football, and she hates it. I tell her that I have an idea. That the friend could go to her friend´s place to watch the football match and that I could keep the blondie so that she could be my guide for tonight and show me the cool places in town. I also tell her that for a reward I was going to make her the best tuna salad she was ever going to taste. I start giving the secret ingredients and she gets a hungry look in her eyes. I decide to move on and take them with me to the store, I didn´t know where it was so they had to guide me there. I told them that I would buy them bubble-gum so they never forget this date with me, a bubble-gum date.
On the way there I keep talking with the friend just to befriend her and build trust with her so that she doesn´t worry about the blondie if she was going to go home with me. In the store the girls keep looking at the candy area, and i´m like: Ohh shit not again, I told you that you´re not allowed to eat candy after 8pm, only the After Eight chocolate. We now talk about how good it tastes. Suddenly the friend gets a call, I take the blondie closer to me and say that she shouldn´t go and see the football match, because I´m gonna take her on an adventure and want to show her something. She agrees to stay with me. The friend looks with big wide eyes at us and tell me with a smile that I should take care of her. I laugh and say that she shouldn´t worry, because I´m a virgin and I´m considering to be gay because picking up girls in stores is so easy and I need more challenge. We have a laugh about that, the friend leaves and here I am all alone with the cute blondie.
On the way home I ask her if she often goes home with strangers that she has just met. She hits me, and says that she has NEVER EVER done this before. I ask what made her do it. She tells me there´s something mystical about me that she wants to find out. I now feel that it´s the right time to tell the girl what I really do for living, now that she´s invested that much I feel that it´s a good idea to do it. She asks me what I really do, and I tell her that I have this huge interest in personal development and social dynamics. With an impressed look on her face she says that she´s not surprised and tells me that she doesn´t know what I´m doing but what she DO know is that it´s working. Real good. I instantly feel that there´s 100% attraction and is now ready to demonstrate my social awareness to let her know that I´m different from all the other guys she has met. So I ask her to answer me honestly, if she really feels that she has only been knowing me for 30 minutes. She smiles and says she feels she has been knowing me for a much longer of time. It´s a routine I do to eliminate objections and make sure that she verify for herself that she´s in to me so that I don´t experience LMR ( last minute resistance) later with an interaction. Because it´s normal for a girl to sleep with a guy that she knows already right? So my whole interaction is to make her feel that she already knows me and can tell me anything. It´s all in the mind! – After she admits what she feels I ask her if she wants to know HOW I do it. She looks very curious because I expose it as the BIGGEST secret. I stop her, get closer to her, look deep in her eyes, lower my voice and say:” You can get anything you want if you just help enough people to get what THEY want – Think about it, my goal when I meet you is to signal comfort, trust and that I´m a person you know already. You remember how I opened the conversation with you? (“Why do you always eat tuna”). Suddenly it all makes sense to her and she really starts seeing me as a super confident guy that knows exactly what he´s doing. I have just found out that women get super attracted to you when you TELL them what you are doing to them rather than hiding it. You just have to find the right moment to do it.
Time passes on and now we are at my hotel. On the way to my room I tell her that she shouldn´t even THINK about raping me. She laughs, we put our stuff in my room and we go outside for a cigarette. We sit down and I ask her how many boyfriends she has had and start talking about the bad relationship she has been through. I consciously focus on making her talk about the bad relationships. I always do this to bring the girl in a state of pain that I can heal by showing the qualities that a woman want in a guy. Trust, security, confidence and a guy who has a goal in his life. I ask her what the most important thing she wants in a guy, she wants that he´s honest and that he should have a purpose in his life (I call this technique criteria elicitation). I immediately disqualify myself for fun to show that I don´t need her validation and tell her that I´m the wrooong guy, that I´m a bad guy and that she should promise never to fall in love with me because I´m going to hurt her, btw. I don´t know what I should do about my life. I have just found out that when you disqualify yourself, the girl immediately realize that you ARE what she wants, you just don´t want to say that you are all the things she wants because then it sounds that you are bragging about yourself. It just have an automatic effect disqualifying yourself and she now starts feeling that you have the qualities she´s looking for, it´s a technique I might call Auto-framing: Talking indirectly about yourself, or disqualify yourself to automatically display the qualities she wants WITHOUT DIRECTLY talking about you. You automatically just frame yourself as a confident guy. All right, back to conversation, I smile, look at her mouth and tell her I´m kidding and she KNOWS that! So I ask her if she´s ever been REAL in love before. Chit, chat, chit, chat then I use my future pacing technique where I start asking her if she can recognize a situation in her life where she was in love with someone and while thinking about that guy she listens to a song, and now EVERY time she listens to that song again it reminds her of the guy she was in love with or just a nice experience she had. Of course she knew what I was talking about who doesn’t? So I talk about common things everyone has tried because I want her to feel the same about me. We go into my room, she sits on my lab and of course I put a love song on youtube that I KNOW she´s going to love – So that every time she hears it, it´ll remind her of me
. Sneaky, sneaky but true. I also show her some funny videos to loosen up the tension and make her relax more.
After that, I go to the toilet, come back to my room and change clothes in front of her to more relaxed clothes. I sit down on my bed, take my ipad and tell her to come and sit close to me because I want to show her something. I have this fun astrology app I found once where you can write people´s name, birthday etc and it tell you what kind of person you are. Very cool and a good laugh too. We now start talking about our plans in the future, and I reveal my goals in life and make her feel that I´ve never told what I´m saying to anyone before. I make it sound special. I observe that she starts loving being with me, and it´s as if she´s inspired about what I´m doing. I tell her that my goal in my life is to help people and help them build an attractive lifestyle and make them reach the goals they want etc.. In the middle of our deep convo her friend calls just to make sure everything is fine. In the mean time I check my facebook on my computer. As soon as she´s finished she asks me to show my pictures and add her.
On my facebook I have a picture of my 2 year old niece, she´s soooooooooo cute!! She was like aww that´s so cute. So I take my phone up where I have a pretty fucked up picture of my niece I took in the morning once. I always show that picture to girls and tell them this is my niece after clubbing for 3 days straight, boozing alcohol. They love it. We now get into family talk, talking about kids and stuff. Here I want to display fatherhood and protectiveness. VERY IMPORTANT qualities that women just LOVE! – After a couple of minutes there´s a silence. She ends so close to me and I start talking about that I miss my mom and her cuddling my hair. Funny enough she starts cuddling my hair and I touch her hips and legs smoothly look deep into her eyes and say: “What are you doing to me? This was not the plan at all?” with a confused look. She laughs and says I don’t know. I tell her I´m kidding and say the GOLDEN sentence where I eliminate objections: “You know what, to be honest with you, it´s not the time that should decide whether you should be with a guy are not. It´s the feelings that you have in the moment that should decide that. We´re young and never promised a next day, so let´s get the most out of it”. At this point she nods and agrees with a sensual smile on her face. I always say this to remove ALL pressure + I give a major justified reason why she should sleep with me. I put my lips closer to her and kiss her, start escalating sexually. I start massaging some VERY sensitive spots on her body and tell her that I can feel a lot of tension and say. “Ohh shit, I can feel you haven´t had a great orgasm in a looong time” with a very deep and low voice. I always do this to initiate sex to watch her respond. 80% of the time the girls say so can you give me one? Or simply just start loosen up. And they now think that I´m not only a super-confident guy but also a sex-expert too. I slowly remove my hand down to her pussy, and make very fast, slight touches just to observe whether she´s ready or not. If she starts having tensions in her legs and start pulling them together she´s not ready, but the reason I do fast touches is because I don´t to build an awkward moment of rejection. But I do it very smooth, as if I´m teasing her pussy. She thinks that I´m just going to let my hand be there but I touch her everywhere and make her even more horny. I take her hand and make her touch my dick outside my pants. I do this as direct indicator to see if she´s ready for sex. Immediately she starts touching it. It´s really getting hot now. I tell her that I´m going to turn the lights off (girls like having sex in the dark) and if she agrees to make you turn it off she´s 100% in. I take make clothes off, while undressing her and seal the deal.
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